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    well... if anyone has remotely been folliowing my life on here, you would know that i compromised my no dating rule to start dating someone... today we ended it. i saw it coming... the first part was great, awesome, then it all went downhill that night i described during jazzfest when i got extremely drunk and my friends and him did not have my back or come to make sure i was ok.

    and then there was the other post that i made, where i asked how people felt who had cheated... i put in a slight lie in that one since this is on a public forum and he does know about it, but at this point i dont really care as much if he found out.... the night after jazzfest disaster i ended up hooking up with my previous New Orleans fuck buddy. and felt no remorse about it. another obvious sign that the relationship was not going to work out, duh.

    the next time we hung out all seemed cool, and i decided to let the fact that he didnt care about my safety go, and obviously did not mention the cheating... and the night after my whole group of friends and i went camping and all of us had an awesome time.

    but yea, i think im a bit too wild for him. and, as indicated by the remorseless cheating, im not ready for a relationship. we are on good terms, im slightly sad, but ok and almost relieved. also this means i can continue on my ridiculous adventures that i had started after graduating and then put on hold for him. I might dissappear on a bicycle journey from tx to california to ?? with the aforementioned previous fuckbuddy. or go on some sort of crazy unplanned journey to god knows where with another crazy friend of mine.

    yea thought i would post about it on here. there are not many people who i really want to discuss it with,... and i guess there is not a huge amount to discuss. hopefully next time i date though i can find someone as good looking as he was .
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    LOL - Well, I think you have a good head on your shoulders. I like that you look forward to finding someone as hot as he was... gives you something to look forward to!
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    its going to be hard. he was very very attractive. i think that might be my biggest regret about us breaking up. actually its definitely my biggest regret about breaking up with him...
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    ahhh, but attractivenes will only get you so far lol

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    ^^^ She would like it here. Especially Boulder - probably Denver too.
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    yea i would and my original skeletal plans were to live there when spring rolled around. then i gave them up for a boy (mistake).

    now the crazy adventure bug is back in me. before it was more of a drawn out adventure, as in move every 2 months or so. but since i have gotten behind on it, yea, crazy bike trip or crazy hitchhiking trip (with a friend of course... and if you travel with a friend and know what you are doing this is not nearly as stupid as it sounds) or crazy exursion to god knows what parts of the world sound really appealing for me.

    this is how i deal with my problems... some people wallow in sorry, some people hit the bottle (i do this a bit i guess... but only by going to wild party nights. never alone), some people eat ice cream, i go on adventures that satisfy my endless thirst for adrenaline and end up being a lot of fun and add to my ever growing collection of wierd stories. im looking forward to whatever i end up doing this summer. its gonna be epic...
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    i hate when you have to give up goodlooking people. that shit is the worst. sorry, mama

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    We're here for a good time, not a long time, so have a good time, the sun won't shine every day.

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    Maybe you should start "Remorseless Cheaters Anonymous" Imagine those group meetings!!!

    Or pitch a reality show about Remorseless Cheating, seem you can make a reality show outa just about anything these days.
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    I also see a new screen name for you "Athenatheremorselesscheater"
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    lol oh noez.

    for the record, usually i am not a remorseless cheater because usually i just dont date .
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    yea my life is fun... maybe a bit too much fun to date .

    i remember when i first started dating him i told my best friend from cleveland that i really liked him but i wished that i had met him a couple of yrs down the road... because right now i am still fresh out of college and i am still very much so in my party girl phase and will probably not grow out of it for at least a couple of yrs and i very much so crave adventure. i had paused a good amount of this to date him.. and it made me feel a bit torn. i also think i might have subconsciously sabotaged some things and pushed some buttons just because most of me is not ready to settle, even if it is with someone i really like.

    so yea... thus is life. its difficult to meet someone who you really like but realize you are not ready for the situation. i guess the past couple of months kind of gave me a glimpse into a future relationship (with someone else) where i actually am ready to settle down and am happy with the person who i am with.

    but for now its time to tear up the US and canada and ???.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Your life sounds like so much fun, you should write a book.

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    I feel like that would take too much time away from having fun .
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Lol, good point.

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    You seem happy about the breakup....In that case I'm happy for you.

    You and I are exact opposites. I would love nothing more than to stay in the same place for the rest of my life, and stay with my bf of 4 years forever. Life had other plans and I've been forced to move around relentlessly since my early teens, usually on my own. I crave stability as it's a luxury I've never had. You love adventure, and you're able to do it on your own terms. It's all good.

    Ever think of leaving the USA and going trekking through Asia or something? I have a GF that got back from a 6 month trip to China. She went alone with no money, and had the time of her life....working at family-run rice-farms in exchange for room and board. Crazy.



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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    You seem happy about the breakup....In that case I'm happy for you.

    You and I are exact opposites. I would love nothing more than to stay in the same place for the rest of my life, and stay with my bf of 4 years forever. Life had other plans and I've been forced to move around relentlessly since my early teens, usually on my own. I crave stability as it's a luxury I've never had. You love adventure, and you're able to do it on your own terms. It's all good.

    Ever think of leaving the USA and going trekking through Asia or something? I have a GF that got back from a 6 month trip to China. She went alone with no money, and had the time of her life....working at family-run rice-farms in exchange for room and board. Crazy.
    Yea im mostly happy. I am slightly sad, because my life when i was in austin (mind you i only relaxed in austin... i work out of town) was eerily perfect. seriously. For like 2 months i literally had a perfect boyfriend and perfect friends and tehre was always something to do every night and everything was just all sunshine and daisies. but my group of freinds here are much more settled than me... and im the youngest in the group at only 22. So yea... im much more restless.

    Part of me does almost regret not being more mature. but i cant help it. hopefully later in life when i am ready to settle down i can find a situation that was as happy for me as those 2 months were. but i am an adventurer and i want to make sure i do everything that i want to do before i get to that point. its a wierd place to be at mentally. considering how much i liked him, i am surprised that i am not really upset about this. i am leaving completely next week... and i am feeling slightly nostalgic... i really will miss this part of my life.

    as far as stability? i also dont think ive ever had it... i think at some point i might have wanted it but witnessing midlife crises so much first hand at work as well as my general love for traveling have made me prefer excitement to stability. i have always been an adrenaline junkie. and i have always craved experience. when im not experiencing new things i get bored... and when i get bored i start finding destructive ways to entertain myself. the very last part of my time in austin i was starting to get a bit bored and some of my old destructive habits started to kick in. nothing too serious, but enough to scare the SO and enough to alert me that it is time to switch up the situation again.

    and yea at some pt i plan on doing something crazy out of the states wehre i basically freeze all of my money and spend very little. when i get a bit older i want to try to work at a buddhist monestary or something, maybe connect to parts of me that i have not been able to before. i like to have a lot of very different experiences in (what is left of) my memory.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. 22 is way too young to really settle down, and enjoy your young adulthood. When I was your age (I sound old I realize) I was having a lot of fun, whether it was dating a ton of men or just packing up and moving around. It allowed me to see how the world runs and that life isn't black and white. You never know, years from now you may reconnect with him or find a great guy when you are ready to settle. For now just enjoy your life and don't worry because when you get older you don't want any regrets.

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    I just have to say hallelujah! After his actions during jazzfest and not caring for your safety, I was not too keen on him. Good job!

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    ok update on where my new chapters appear to be taking me:

    Gonna keep working in Dallas for June
    Maybe work in Boulder in July
    Peace out to meet a friend in southeaster asia in August, or perhaps skip boulder and go straight in July. Depends on how much money i make in June.
    Spend until October backpacking southeast asia.
    head with my friend to madrid (hes from madrid)
    Get lost in Europe for a few months


    Second half of 2010 is gonna be crazy!
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    ^God, I am so envious! Those are the kinds of things I've always wanted to do...but having a kid puts serious brakes on!

    Go and have an awesome time-and don't forget to tell us a bit now and again what you've been up to! I'll have to live slightly vicariously through you, lmao
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