i will not give them the option to say no
i will use high pressure sales
i will not sit in one place
i will smile alot
i will always ask for tips


i will not give them the option to say no
i will use high pressure sales
i will not sit in one place
i will smile alot
i will always ask for tips





I will bring my camera in, so when it's dead tonight, we can play dress up again!![]()
I consolidated, edited and added to this thread so I could print it out, in case anyone else wants it:
I will:
Remember stage is a show.
Smile and make eye contact confidently.
Ask for tips.
Mention VIP to everyone!!!
Engage every customer in the room.
Know customers names and eye color.
Be the best dancer there.
Be a money making machine!
Use my endless charisma to be the dancer they can't wait to come back to see.
Visualize. Execute.
Set goal and hit it.
Do at least one VIP every night.
Aim to make every night better than my best night.
Obsess on my qualities. I have no imperfections!
Stay out of the dressing room!!!!! There’s no money in there.
Be too happy to let anything ruin my mood.
Mind my business.
Stay sober and focused.
Here is something similar that can be applied to all life:
The Optimist’s Creed
I promise myself…
To be so strong that nothing can disturb my peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person I meet.
To make all my friends feel that there is something worthwhile in them.
To look at the sunny side of everything and make my optimism come true.
To think only of the best, to work only for the best and to expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as I am about my own.
To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful expression at all times and give a smile to every living creature I meet.
To give so much time to improving myself that I have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.
To think well of myself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words, but in great deeds.
To live in the faith that the whole world is on my side, so long as I am true to the best that is in me.
by Christian D. Larson

I'm going to print out the one above this one and tape it inside my locker if that's okay?
Tonight I am going to go to work and be the best damn stripper I can be!





Upsell every dance after 9p.m.
Make my goal both nights.




Have a few drinks, strut my stuff and HAVE FUN!!! the money will come, it always does so tonight Im going to take it back old school and tune in the time where I had no husband, child, or mortgage and I was just a fun party girl who made shitloads of money and didn't have a million bills to pay with it. Can't have this attitude every night but this shift- I will
tomorrow night ...........
I WILL not sit in the corner of the room looking bored
I WILL smile all the time
I WILL tell my self that i am the best dancer in there
I WILL work my arse off to make as much money as possible and not moan if the night is slow
I WILL feel sexy and confident in whatever i choose to wear
I WILL get into my alter ego
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wow writing all that down made me feel so much better i might have to write it on a piece of paper and take it work with me lol



Ohkay. Next time I work:
I will actually try.
I won't drink any alcohol.
I will try to sell lapdances.
I won't smoke any cigarettes.
glad this thread was brought back!
On my next shift, I will approach EVERY guy, not just the ones that tipped me on stage, the ones that I know, or the ones that I think would be attracted to me or look interested.
It seems like there's been too many times where a guy has had to come across the room and get me, while I'm just standing around watching a pool game and drinking a beer. lol For every guy that actually gets up to come find me, how many would've spent money on me but just sat there and waited for me to approach?
I should never have to be found ... when I'm on the floor, I should be selling dances to EVERYONE!



Oh my god, thanks for this thread you guys...I had almost talked myself out of going to work tonight but now I think I might head in!
On my next shift I will:
Stay positive even if the night starts slow. It almost always picks up later, plus, all it takes is one guy willing to spend money on me to make it a $good$ night!



Lately I have not been allowing myself to go into the dressing room without $100. I work at Curves in Tucson and that means 10 floor dances (yes, they are only $10 damn dollars), or 5 Chamgagne room dances. I just tell myself there is no more make-up or spray I can put on that is going to make me any more fabulous, just stay out and hustle. Helps that the bathroom is not in there either.
Before my next shift I will:
- Mix a new CD for my private dances, gotta keep it fresh!
- Search youtube.com for dance move inspiration, I'm in a rut.
- Remind myself of my goals, write them down, visualise.
- Wash all my outfits & stock my work kit so I'm not caught out.
- Create a new playlist for my ipod, motivational stuff to listen to on my journey into work.
During my next shift I will:
- Smile, smile, smile!
- Work to double my money, rather than slack off after I've made my goal.
- Push harder than ever for tips during private dances.
- View every single customer who buys a private dance with me as a potential regular.
- Use my downtime wisely. Rather than reading trashy magazines or playing on my phone I will study or read a good book.
- Not concern myself with what the other girls are doing... they're gonna do what they're gonna do, and worrying about it won't help me in any way.




During every shift this week I will...
...set an exact goal for myself and EXCEED IT
...keep my phone in my purse and look like I'm having LOTS of fun!
...talk to custys when they are coming in/out, going to the bathroom, or if I happen to pass one walking to and from the DR (no hustle club so those are my only real chances)
...stay HAPPY and OPTIMISTIC and FRIENDLY the entire shift!!
...flirt as much as possible from the stage (lots and lots of eye contact and smiles!)
...push for more dances and ALWAYS ask for tips (I'm bad at that one :/)
This week I am determined to work harder than I have ever worked before!![]()





Know damn well without a doubt that I AM THE BEST DAMN DANCER IN THIS BAR!
My MySpace Page:
When you perform... you are out of yourself--larger and more potent, more beautiful. You are for minutes heroic. This is power. This is glory on earth. And it is yours, nightly.
--Agnes De Mille








My MySpace Page:
When you perform... you are out of yourself--larger and more potent, more beautiful. You are for minutes heroic. This is power. This is glory on earth. And it is yours, nightly.
--Agnes De Mille





Approach everyone and get at least some money out of everyone.
My MySpace Page:
When you perform... you are out of yourself--larger and more potent, more beautiful. You are for minutes heroic. This is power. This is glory on earth. And it is yours, nightly.
--Agnes De Mille



If someone is rude to me, I will smile and keep hustling them instead of insulting them and walking away. I WILL walk out with their money.
I will have perfect hair, red nails, red lips, and rock my Marilyn Monroe inspired white look. I-ve been told my tongue is my secret weapon. I will lick my lips while I talk toevery guy. Guys will eat it up.
I will dance around the club I-when I've already asked everyone for dances, and show them that I'm having the best time so they want in on the action.
SMile even if I've been getting too many rejections. Fake it til you make it!
Be one of the top earners.





1. Find one of those guys who buys dances with everyone but me, and figure out why. Then I will sell him the best dance of his life.
2. Remember to ask everyone for a tip.
My MySpace Page:
When you perform... you are out of yourself--larger and more potent, more beautiful. You are for minutes heroic. This is power. This is glory on earth. And it is yours, nightly.
--Agnes De Mille
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