You know, I think it might be worth it for you to look into a couple of cheap studio/bach apartments. Maybe in the same building, but different floors. He'll have his independence and you'll have yours, yet you'll still be able to help look after him.
Also, ditto looking into disability. He is disabled, so he should be able to get some sort of aide.
If you're really able to make that much more camming, then you really shouldn't stop. I'm sorry you have to go through this. I think it's so sweet that you're even willing to step up and look after your father - a lot of people our age would never give up their lifestyle to help look after their parents. I hope you're able to do it in a way that doesn't require too many sacrifices on your part. Do you have any siblings to help you out?



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