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    Default I dont know what to do. just a lil rant if you can call it that

    Im not sure if there is something wrong with me all my friends are guys I have no female friends to hang out with or anything no clue why. I dont really have an outlet to go and meet girls and make friends I do go to pole class but most the girls are older or dont seem to like me. and one hr isnt a ton of time to get to know someone. Any girls I have met promptly judge me for whatever reason and leave. Im a good girl. I mean yeah guys are fun and all but they dont understand things girls do.

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    Default Re: I dont know what to do. just a lil rant if you can call it that

    I've met a few girls like you that feel more comfortable around guys. I've heard different reason for this, e.g., they don't like the cattiness, backstabbing, jealousy, competition, fakeness, drama, etc. of their female peers. Some girls feel that women judge each other too harshly. If you have a good group of male friends,... be happy.

    I was actually the opposite in my 20s, before I got married. I was never obsessed with sports (I couldn't get excited about watching a bunch of guys playing with a ball) and guys back then talked almost exclusively about sports and exaggerated stories of sexual exploits - which I had no interest in listening to. (I don't get why a guy would want to tell another guy about the things he did when he was naked.)

    Also, I was interested in philosophy and psychology, so I tended to spend most of my time with cute brainy girls. Even after joining a college fraternity, I was still spending most of my time with cute brainy girls because my male peers in college were idiots.

    There is nothing wrong with relating better to the opposite sex. I've only had three close male friends in my life (I'm 38 ).
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    Default Re: I dont know what to do. just a lil rant if you can call it that

    I feel your pain!!!!
    Although i am not a dancer or anything i have never had a female friend. Literally all my friends my entire 25yrs of life have been guys and still are. Its not like i don't try either. I just can't find any girl i can click with and the one i do lives 2+hours away. My boyfriend has like 100's of friends and i'm super jealous. I just wish i had someone to go shopping with and gossip. Sadly, i haven't found that yet.

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    Default Re: I dont know what to do. just a lil rant if you can call it that

    Try the Craigslist platonic section. Just be honest about what type of friends you are looking to meet and set up one-on-one hang out sessions until you find a few girls you click with. You can also try taking classes where there's interaction. I met a lot of my current friends during college when I was taking photography class and we'd get paired into groups.
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    Default Re: I dont know what to do. just a lil rant if you can call it that

    Quote Originally Posted by Avery90 View Post
    Im not sure if there is something wrong with me all my friends are guys I have no female friends to hang out with or anything no clue why. I dont really have an outlet to go and meet girls and make friends I do go to pole class but most the girls are older or dont seem to like me. and one hr isnt a ton of time to get to know someone. Any girls I have met promptly judge me for whatever reason and leave. Im a good girl. I mean yeah guys are fun and all but they dont understand things girls do.
    Oh girl...I was like you at school! I was still the same by the time I got to 20.....the funny thing is, it took the break-up with my first long-term boyfriend at age 22, to bring me closer to my own best friend...and she introduced me to some of her female friends....and it just snowballed from there....

    I'm not saying that a heartache is the best way to make more female friends....just that finding more friends will happen...sooner or later.
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    Default Re: I dont know what to do. just a lil rant if you can call it that

    Im hoping I make some soon. Tonight is my second intermediate pole class maybe ill meet some girls and make friends

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    Quote Originally Posted by Avery90 View Post
    Im hoping I make some soon. Tonight is my second intermediate pole class maybe ill meet some girls and make friends
    Just don't try too hard Sweetie.....you'll know when you 'click' with someone..or a few..and when you do, then you'll make friends for sure. It's the 'click' factor! Enjoy yourself...and very good luck.
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    Default Re: I dont know what to do. just a lil rant if you can call it that

    Are you artistic? I volunteered as a board member for an organization for visual artists (sculpture, paint, photography, jewelry, etc.) a few years ago and there were lots and lots of women of all ages. Plus, they were passionate about art and could talk about it for hours.

    If you have no artistic talent, like me, you could grab a camera and just take a bunch of pictures in the park, etc., or racy black and white dramatic pictures, etc. Artists, in general, are a very eclectic, open-minded, inclusive and talkative group.

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