At first I was not quite sure where I should post this, but as it has to do with potencial escorting I figured "other work" would do. Ladies, beautiful, powerful, independant ladies of SW, my mind is all messed up. Why? I am in love, so it has seriously screwed with my plans. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now and while I love him with all of my heart when it comes to sex workers or the adult undutry he is a damn puritan! I mean he gets upset when I even mention escorts and I refuse to EVER let him meet my stripper friends because I am afraid that his "sex work is baaaad" aura would be present. Now we are broke as fuck. He has TONS of money that he owes ICBC due to a stupid car accident (like $50K!) and I am working for $12/hr right now at a weight loss clinic. We want to eventually get married but let's be serious, with all of that dept (his debt thank you very much, as I just somehow paid off all of mine, woot woot, that's right even when I was making $10/hr I was able to get out of my debt) we won't be saving up for a wedding any time soon. We are living paycheque to paycheque and it makes me sick. And what really PISSES me off is that we DON'T have to live like this. I could go out, be an escort and make bank! But oooooh noooo, we can't have Aria saving the day because no girlfriend of his is going to go shake her ass on stage or dance with strangers.
But I do live him, other than his sex worker hatred he is the most wonderful and supportive man I have ever known...So I don't know what to do.
I really don't think that it's fair that I should have to work at a job that I hate, or bores me senseless for shit pay (and is slightly shady at that) just so that he can feel comfortable and secure in our relationship. Because unless his band gets famous (they're good but...) then we are stuck like this forever. And I don't want to be stuck like this, I want to make my money, be independant and save for the future. Because seriously, a retirement fund? Hell my money doesn't even know what a plane old "savings" account looks like these days.
So what I'm wondering is, do I pack my bags, wave farewell and head off back to Vancouver? Or do I stick it out because I love him and love concures all and all that bullshit?
There is this great agency in Vancouver and the girl's take home is $200/hour (I think they charge $320), it's GORGEOUS, this amazing gentelmens club and fully LISCENCED massage parlour and the girls all have private rooms with ornate king sized beds and ensuites, so you do incalls there. Their top earners make $7k a week!
So tell me ladies...what do you think I should do?



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