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    Sad Worrrying

    This is kind of weird. I mean I have been dancing for 3 years, and been with my love for 2 years. He is my one and only and I want to be with him forever. He hates my job and always thinks I am going to run off with another man that I meet in the club - but of course that is not true. I am a-sexual at work, I am there just for business. No emotional attachment.

    And my man is so true and so honest. Ive never seen him check out another girl and he tells me when other girls ask if he has a girlfriend, he says, "I dont just A girlfriend. I have the BEST girlfriend." I know he is true and he just wants me.

    However, hes a bartender in a popular bar, and I get worried sometimes. Because I know in bars there are pretty girls who flirt and sometimes I worry that a pretty girl will flirt with him and he will feel tempted to do something. I know he wont - but it hurts me to think of him feeling tempted by anothjer pretty girl. I mean, for me, i NEVER feel tempted.

    And he has said so many times without me asking him to tell me - that i am his one and only and every other girl is a stray cat and i stand out because i am a lioness. And sometimes he tells me about stupid girls at his work trying to flirt with him and he tells me he says to them, "sorry ladies. im taken!" so i KNOW he only wants me and im sure he never gets tempted - yet i still worry about it. Maybe its because I am insecure??? although i figure he probably worries more about ME at my job since - i am taking my clothes off for other men.

    Thank you so much for any replies!
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    Default Re: Worrrying

    Holy crap, long time no see FWIW, I think it's cool that he's a part of the nightlife industry (as a bartender). It sounds like he gets it. That's one of the things I've enjoyed about clubs. It was fun to be in a social atmosphere, but on my own time, give me good, quality people vs. all the chaos running around. Working in clubs tends to give people this observant quality (both dancers and bartenders) and it's kind of amusing and interesting all at the same time. That's probably what's going through his head too. His club might be popular, but he probably looks at all the clubbers in a similar way.... amusement, hilarity, and nonsense.
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    Default Re: Worrrying

    He sounds like such a keeper. Plus ..... you work similar schedules ( totally rare as you know for dancers and their SO's ). I'd just try to ease your anxiety as best you can on your own . It sounds like you have nothing to worry about !

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