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    Sad Post-breakup woes

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    Default Re: Post-breakup woes

    Quote Originally Posted by Lola_sinn View Post
    So I broke up with my boyfriend of about a year last week. It was a difficult decision for me to make but I felt it was the right thing to do for a variety of reasons. I was starting to feel smothered...
    Please take this from where it is coming from, which I promise is a good place.

    I am just going by what you wrote above, which if accurate seems to indicate you aren't truly ready to settle down yet.

    That's OK. We all start out that way and reach the point where we are ready to be serious about really loving someone at different points in our lives. Hell, I'm not sure if I am there yet and I'm a lot older than you.

    The best thing you can do for him is leave him be. Give him the space to heal properly.

    I hope you feel better soon and truly wish you well...
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    Default Re: Post-breakup woes

    Hi Lola,

    I'm sorry to hear about your sadness. When I went through a difficult breakup, I tried keep myself occupied as much as possible to keep my mind off it. I tried to spend as much time as I could with friends and family, and doing things like going to the health club or running in the park, and even spending extra time at work. I found that I always felt the worst when I was home by myself.

    Anyway, I hope you're feeling better soon.

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    hey lola, i say tell him how are you are feeling you, there is nothing wrong with talking to him. Everyone makes mistakes in life once in awhile and thats why we are called humans. I bet he would be happy to hear from you again more than anything else. It breaks my hurt what you are going to through right now, and i been through similar situation in past relationships i have had and it doesnt feel good.

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    Default Re: Post-breakup woes

    sorry that you are feeling blue... remember that in time it will heal.

    in the mean time i suggest distracting yourself and reminding yourself of all the good things that will come. you are young, and you are going to go through so many other wonderful things in life. this boy will eventually just be a memory of a loving segment of your life. plan a roadtrip, take up a new hobbie, do something that you wouldnt be able to do while tied down to someone... the world is a big place with lots of amazing people to meet-- when you remember this then you will probably feel better .
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    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Nevermind.
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    Default Re: Post-breakup woes

    Just a thought... sometimes you can love people as a close friend. Maybe you two are just meant to be very close friends. I have an ex that I still think of as one of my best friends... but I just knew we weren't meant to be lovers.

    Why don't you just call him and see if you can establish a friendship?
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