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Last edited by Lola_sinn; 08-06-2010 at 03:40 PM.





Please take this from where it is coming from, which I promise is a good place.
I am just going by what you wrote above, which if accurate seems to indicate you aren't truly ready to settle down yet.
That's OK. We all start out that way and reach the point where we are ready to be serious about really loving someone at different points in our lives. Hell, I'm not sure if I am there yet and I'm a lot older than you.
The best thing you can do for him is leave him be. Give him the space to heal properly.
I hope you feel better soon and truly wish you well...
Last edited by Golden_Rule; 08-08-2010 at 11:53 AM.
Fiat justitia, pereat mundus.
BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?





Hi Lola,
I'm sorry to hear about your sadness. When I went through a difficult breakup, I tried keep myself occupied as much as possible to keep my mind off it. I tried to spend as much time as I could with friends and family, and doing things like going to the health club or running in the park, and even spending extra time at work. I found that I always felt the worst when I was home by myself.
Anyway, I hope you're feeling better soon.

hey lola, i say tell him how are you are feeling you, there is nothing wrong with talking to him. Everyone makes mistakes in life once in awhile and thats why we are called humans. I bet he would be happy to hear from you again more than anything else. It breaks my hurt what you are going to through right now, and i been through similar situation in past relationships i have had and it doesnt feel good.





sorry that you are feeling blue... remember that in time it will heal.
in the mean time i suggest distracting yourself and reminding yourself of all the good things that will come. you are young, and you are going to go through so many other wonderful things in life. this boy will eventually just be a memory of a loving segment of your life. plan a roadtrip, take up a new hobbie, do something that you wouldnt be able to do while tied down to someone... the world is a big place with lots of amazing people to meet-- when you remember this then you will probably feel better.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.
Nevermind.
Last edited by xoAnnaBanana; 08-07-2010 at 05:48 PM.





Just a thought... sometimes you can love people as a close friend. Maybe you two are just meant to be very close friends. I have an ex that I still think of as one of my best friends... but I just knew we weren't meant to be lovers.
Why don't you just call him and see if you can establish a friendship?
Don't you ever sleep?
Not at night...that's when the stars have rather better things to do. They're coming out, shining, that sort of thing.
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