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    Default Got hired last night!! Now I'm second guessing... help!

    I went to one of the better clubs in my area last night and auditioned. They want me back tonight to work!! I was excited about it at first, and now I'm getting nervous and second guessing myself. All the girls are so beautiful there and I have NO IDEA what I'm doing haha. I felt kinda awkward up on stage even though I smiled and flirted my way through it ok. I was just wondering, is it normal to get cold feet? I'm going to go through with it cuz I need the money really bad, but I'm just so nervous!! The girls are very intimidating... Did any of you second guess yourself when you first started?? I don't want to make an ass of myself.... How long did it take you for the awkwardness to go away??

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    Default Re: Got hired last night!! Now I'm second guessing... help!

    I had never actually been to a strip club before I started working... so I was terrified. Your feelings are perfectly normal, and it's also normal to feel anxiety in a job like this where your money depends partly on your looks. Don't worry though, chances are you'll be fine in no time and very comfortable.
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    Default Re: Got hired last night!! Now I'm second guessing... help!

    Don't worry, in no time you'll be one of those beautiful girls. Heck, you may already be one and not recognize it.

    Don't concentrate on what other girls are doing, just work on yourself and eventually you'll become more graceful on stage and get better at hustling.
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    Default Re: Got hired last night!! Now I'm second guessing... help!

    Go for it. Yes, when I auditioned and got the job and was getting ready the next day....I started making up lame excuses in my head all of sudden...example: what would people think if they found out, the girls are so pretty, can I be successful? It was all aka FEARS. I just turned on some rocke'n music and made myself get ready. And go.

    Heart was beating super fast as I got near the club..went in the club..dressing room made me nervous as you see girls looking at you. But I got through it.. you will be fine. Guys turned me down and I would just have to shrug it off, went on to the next guy. You will be successful. Just don't go up and hang out in the dressing room if a guy doesn't want a dance from you. Don't compare yourself to tothers. Just go! You have your own style to bring to the club. Approach every guy. Develop your style. It takes a little getting use to on finding your own way of doing things. But you will get it! Now go make some big $$!

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