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    Hey, I just started escorting a month ago and have been seeing a steady 4 clients a night. One client visiting from New York liked me a lot and gave me $2000 for an overnight stay, and now he wants to fly me out to Vegas with him and his buddies, and of course he'll pay for the airfares and hotels and all that.. but I am not sure what to charge him for my company. His suggestion had been to just have me come for free and him or his buddies would pay me for anything we did in bed. At first I agreed to that but on reconsidering, I don't think it's worth it because it could all backfire. What if they decide to only pay me 400 bucks for each lay and they only screw me 3 times? I'd have made more money back home then on this trip, and I am not particularly keen to go to Vegas with them anyway. If they were to pay me say at least $2000 (which is what I make in four days) then I'd go, but dragging my feet behind me.

    And remember this guy is super loaded. He's got one of those black Amex cards. He tells me you got to spend over 500,000 a year to qualify for one of those. I don't want to piss him off either. He owns properties all over Manhattan. He's offered to be my sugar daddy and put me up in one of his apartments and even help me with school and stuff. But even in my short time escorting I've learned not to trust clients and their promises until they really do it. BUT if he's really true to his word, then I am willing to take a cut in my pay for what he could give me long term.

    The trip will be 3 nights and 4 days. Would it be unreasonable to charge him $6000 for my company?

    I've read of girls going on $48,000 week-long trips paid for by their client so $6000 isn't that ridiculous right? He bragged about spending $20,000 on Cristal everytime they go to Vegas.

    Help!

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    I don't know how escorts charge, but will you be provide service to him and his friends??? I'll up it to at least 10k

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    Default Re: What to charge for a 3 night stay? (escorting)

    I'd charge him a fee of a couple grand or something just for you to go, and then have his buddies take care of their own fees. That way you know you're coming home with atleast that minimum. I'd say 6000 is kinda pushing it, but I don't know how much money this guy has. Maybe use 6000 as kind of a starting point for negotiating? Honestly though, you did say you already agreed to going for free and having them pay, so you bringing this up now kinda looks bad :/ In the future, just think things through a little more before you commit!

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    Default Re: What to charge for a 3 night stay? (escorting)

    Wow !!! it's good to see you got things going with escorting. I have noticed in your post you seem really conflicted and you jumped and already agreed to go.

    You would also have to stick to your word, or you would have to complete back out and not go. I am hoping the reason your having doubts about this it is because your wondering about your safety.

    For me the red flag is a client you just met ( once ) wants to fly you to Las vegas with him and his buddies. Have you met these buddies, did you pre-screen them. Are you going alone with him and his buddies from the sounds of that is what it seems like you , him and how many buddies

    Your not going to travel with him as travel companions, he wants to bring you along to entertain him and his friends. it's sound like gang rape to me or what we call batteri dolly. HUN Your asking for trouble from this senario.

    You just started escorting a month so your jsut learning your boundaries and the rules of the game. 4 clients a night for a month is pretty good but you have a lot to learn and understand.

    Airfare is out side cost of your time with him. So if the cost of the flight and hotel is $1200 that sound be sent first to you in a deposit. Remember safety first so you want to be able to your flight and book your hotel in your name. or book your flight meet him at the airport and then go to the hotel (decide if you want seperate rooms you don't want to be stuck with him the whole time you need time for yourself)

    So if your goign away for 2 days 1 night, one room together might be ok but maybe ask for a seperate bed. longer then that you have to determine sleeping arrangements. Even though your building a relationship wtih this person. it is still business not romance.

    Your time can not be wasted in the whole time your with him or any client. They must pay you first or send a deposit and pay on arrival.

    Hun it will backfire because your not going with him as his travel companion.

    It does not matter how much money he has, men will flash shinny things in front of you to distract you, who cares if he is offering to pay for your school and whatever else. you can make the money your damn self. Yes I am going to sound harsh here because I need you to see how serious this is. Yes the money is great, but remember it comes with a bigger price.

    As for deciding your rate structure, you have to really determine what your time is worth. I would suggest staying local for a while doing half hour to 4 hour appointments. build your client base for maybe a year or 6 months.

    before you jump into overnight packages and weekend and longer travelling engagements.
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    Default Re: What to charge for a 3 night stay? (escorting)

    I think doing overnight appointments is scary anyways! I would like to add to what minnie said though, if you do wind up going with this you need to set some ground rules. You don't want to turn into their disposable fuck toy for 4 days and 3 nights, you're still a human.

    Some ground rules that I think are reasonable include:
    1.) I need at LEAST 8 hours of sleep nightly.
    2.) I need to eat THREE meals per day and two snacks if desired
    3.) I need to take at least ONE shower per day, but more if I so choose (this all depends on you...multiple guys could cause for more showers if it isn't an orgie style thing)
    4.) I will need a one hour break between X and X (make it the same time every day) to relax in my private space.
    5.) I will be sleeping in MY OWN room that you will NOT have access to. (I would keep your money in the safe there, or go to your bank if they have one in Vegas, as well as your personal belongings, outfits, etc).
    6.) If at any time I am uncomfortable the trip will end immediately and your money will not be refunded. Respect my integrity and boundaries and we will get along just fine.
    7.) Be sure to tell him everything you will NOT do (anal, not using protection, cuddling, etc).
    8.) Lay down a list of all your expenses and outline the entire 4 days, 3 nights.
    9.) I will require one hour each morning to get ready and shower

    If I was you I would set aside a specific time to sleep, eat, have your break, etc. An example of this is:

    From 11 PM - 7 AM I will be asleep in my private room.
    From 7 AM - 8 AM I will be showering and preparing for the day.
    From 8 AM - 8:30 AM I will be eating my breakfast
    From 8:30 AM - 11:30 AM I will be available to spend time with you
    From 11:30 AM - 12:00 PM I will be eating my lunch
    From 12:00 PM - 2:00 PM I will be available to spend time with you
    From 2:00 PM - 3:00 PM I will be taking my break
    From 3:00 PM - 3:15 PM I will be eating my snack
    From 3:15 PM - 5:00 PM I will be available to spend time with you
    From 5:00 PM - 5:30 PM I will be eating my dinner
    From 5:30 PM - 7:00 PM I will be available to spend time with you
    From 7:00 PM - 7:15 PM I will be eating my snack
    From 7:15 PM - 11:00 PM I will be available to spend time with you

    I would literally send him a schedule like that. I mean, adjust it to your needs and incorporate whatever into it, but that sounds reasonable to me. Tell him if he wants actual companion services (i.e. going to the casino or bar together) you will be charging $200/hour (or whatever you want to charge) and will still require your 8 hours of sleep and simply adjust the schedule as needed.

    If you're going to fly out and gang bang with his friends on demand (not trying to be demeaning at all, I totally respect what you do) you deserve to be respected and compensated. If you don't speak up and lay down ground rules then you are liable to be putting off sleep, showering and eating when you feel you need it. No one will be happy if your needs aren't met.

    I hope this helps!
    -Laurisa

    P.S. If the customer thinks your requirements are unreasonable then he was probably going to cause you more problems than he was worth anyways.

    I think 6k should be your BASE pay, as well as your airfare, hotel, meals, etc. I'd request all the funds be deposited into your account prior to even booking the flight, hotel, etc. Be sure to plan for the cost of your meals and snacks...it's Vegas ! As stated, $200/hour for any time out as a strict companion between 11 PM and 7 AM and maybe $300/hour for anything sexual on top of the 6k base pay. I'd say you are well worth it, so offer YOUR terms or just walk away. You are in control, he is the client, end of story.
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    Laurisa I am going to copy your post and save it. (in word doc)
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    Aww! Thank you, that makes me feel good! I hope it helps you sometime if you do an overnight visit with anyone. I just couldn't imagine not laying down ground rules beforehand, pay or not, and even with the mock schedule I made she would still be available for about 12 hours per day--that's plenty!

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    (ponders if Laurisa is a VIP madam in real life...because she just laid the game down!)

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    I'd like to add a couple things to what I said:

    - You should collect the fees for companionship and sexual favors (i.e. the $200 and $300/hour charges I mentioned) BEFORE services are rendered. Ask him how much time he wants and make him pay upfront. If he goes over the time constraints then you need to collect those fees promptly too.

    - Don't get intoxicated or use any kind of drugs. I would recommend having maybe one drink every couple hours. You want to be as sober as possible, and if you have the willpower--don't drink at all!

    - Should he invite you to a casino make it clear you will NOT be using your own funds for the games. You shouldn't use your own funds for any activity with him.

    A couple things to think about:

    - You should be aware that if he is making a deposit into your personal checking account he could find out your real name. Setting up an account with a DBA license (Doing Business As) will protect your anonymity.

    - If you have booked the hotel under your own name with your credit card you run the small risk of some creepy desk clerk giving your real name to the customer if he gets ahold of your real room number. I would avoid him knowing where your room is, and tell the staff that your personal information--even just your first name--is NOT to be given out to anyone. Ask them to make a note of that in the computer.

    - Try to get a room on a different floor (preferably above his floor) so he doesn't have a way to try and find out your real name or harass you at 3 AM. If you are above him there is no reason he should be walking around on your floor.

    - Screen all the clients using your preferred methods. Request a list of everyone who will be attending and ask for:
    1.) Their full name
    2.) Their DOB
    3.) Their city and state of residence
    4.) Their place of employment
    5.) 2-3 references ASIDE from the guests on the trip

    Run a background check on them, verify their work, use DateCheck411, etc. You should also check all of their IDs at the door to verify they are who they say they are. If anyone seems funny to you or something seems off then dip out.

    After the first few hours you'll know it's not a bust, so I don't think you'll need to be as strict about collecting your funds. If you want to have the same "open envelope on the counter" policy, then that's fine.

    - I'd recommend deciding if you want to add an extra $100 per person per hour on top of your $300 rate (or whatever you decide). Most escorts charge more for couples, so why not for an orgie?
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