Ok, so, I'm 19 years old. Just turned 19 on the 22nd of May. I've lived with my boyfriend since December of '09. He's always the one who had the job, paid the rent, and paid half of our bills. I just started camming in March, and recently started helping with bills and rent. About 3 weeks ago, he lost his job. Now I'm all of a sudden responsible for all of his stuff. When I ask him if he's looking for a job, he says "Maybe I enjoy taking a break." Sorry if I'm out of line here, but that pisses me off SO damn bad. Anyway, I love him to death. But he has to grow up, am I right?


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So let him know that you will be there for him for awhile, but it's not like you are rolling in extra money and can afford to support the both of you forever. I would give him a week or two to relax and figure out what direction he wants to go next, and then he needs to be seriously pursuing other job options.

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