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    My roommates niece who is like idk... 9 yrs old? is staying with us. she keeps bothering me. like she is a good kid and all, but when i am around the house i like to be left alone. and if i am on the computer i dont like having the kid come in and try to talk to me.

    how do i make her go away? i have tried being as boring as possible. like one word answers to everything. i used to know how to interact with kids because i used to be a nanny, but for me dealing with kids is something i only want to do when i am getting paid.

    its getting annoying. yesterday i was upstairs loading up my stripper bag and she came up and i had to like throw my bag to hide my heels etc and she kept sitting upstairs staring at me making it difficult for me to get ready for work.

    i understand that she is bored, i would be to. but i dont want to deal with it.

    i dont understand why kids want to talk to me. seriously, im so not a kid person! go bother someone who is!
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    Maybe have your room mate talk to her. It is her responsibility. Why isn't your room mate playing with her or taking her to the park or something? I'm a mommy but I'm the same way... I don't like kids other than my own...

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    Honestly, kids are a lot smarter than most people give them credit for. The kid knows she's pushing your buttons. And she's getting off on it. Kids don't like knowing that not everyone likes them. Do simple stuff, like saying "Hey sweetie, how are you doing/how was school" or asking if she wants anything from the kitchen while on your own way to get like a glass or snack.

    It will let her know that you don't ignore her presence and she doesn't have to TRY to get you to notice her.

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    Knowing how you are... I suspect she's just curious about you. She probably see's you as cool, fun, and mysterious.

    Maybe try spending a bit of time with her - hang out on the couch and watch a show.

    Also though, talk to your roommate about setting boundaries... like not coming into your room.
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