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    The other night I went to my sister in laws graduation. there had been talk that my man's ex would be there,but his sister assured me that she didnt want her to go so she wouldn't be there. I get to the graduation and behold-his ex girl friend!! Awesome,not. My man's mom was sitting behind me,and I could hear her saying (referring to his ex) "she'll always love him,no matter what" I later find out that his sister really didn't want her to go,but since her MOM wanted his ex to go,she invited her. Pissed.
    Today I get a message from her on face book..Here it is..(exert from it)

    "i havent got to talk to him in a while i didnt want to make you mad/upset or anything cause i know it has to be weird for you and i dont want you to feel that way ya know cause debi and the girls are my second family and now you can be included (if ya want) i dont want you to feel weird or left out ya know!!!"


    Me? Feel left out? I've been with him for two years and we have a child together!


    LIke seriously? WTF? His family is always inviting his exes over. I've met three of them! THREEE!

    Im getting sick of this shit.
    I is a mommy.
    09.27.09

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    That's so....weird. Talk to your man, tell him you're not cool with this.

    Family inviting over their son's Ex's....very disrescpectful. And just odd.



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    I have talked to him about it before. And he knows its effed up,he really doesn't have a whole lot to do with it. His mom is fucking nuts. He's told her plenty of times how rude it is,and how it makes me uncomfortable,and she doesnt care.
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    His mother must like his exes more than she likes you.

    Bummer!

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    Why do the exs even bother to show up?
    Is their relationship with the mom good or in touch or what?

    Talk to your hubby, and tell him to TALK TO HER, an actual talk that YOU, HIM have a KID and a FAMILY together and the exs should not be in the picture at all... Even you talk to the mother. And write the girl back what you said, that you dont even feel left out, she should.

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    Then talk to his mother. Sounds like she has some kind of issues screwed up in her head. Those girls are obviously not important to your man but his mom needs to let go already.





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    Ditto. My boyfriend's mom is friend's with his ex... and his ex is psycho and threw a knife at him!!
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    Well I talked to him about it. of course he doesn't care for his ex's but OF COURSE he stands up for his mom. 'She is stupid like that,he doesn't understand" I honestly don't think I can take much more. Is it bad that I'm so offended? Reading the message she left me pisses me off to nooo end.
    She invited his other ex over one day,and she told me "I can go wait in his room while she's here if it makes me feel uncomfortable." fuuuuck.
    Maybe she really is nuts.
    I'm done
    I is a mommy.
    09.27.09

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    Not to mention she's obsessed with my son. It's pretty bad. She never listens to us. If we tell her to let him cry she goes and gets him anyways. I duno if I can marry him if she's gona be like this.
    I is a mommy.
    09.27.09

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