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    Are you happy dancing or do you want another job? Think of the options you have if you do decide to have another career. What sums do you make in dancing, is it enough for your living situatution?

    Now.. do you want to live with him, or not? If you do, think of ^ and go on the path that you seem is right for you. If you do decide to live with him and dance, do you think hes the type of person that will accept it? Tell others? Think differently of you? Allow you to live with him? You kept it a secert before, so I dont see why you cant, if it makes things easier.

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    I want to continue dancing for at least another 4 years. I think I can make more dancing than if I use my degree. I would like to dance until I pay off my student loans, and I can figure out what to do next. I can completly support myself this way.

    I wouldn't mind living with him. I think we would get along fine. I plan on working at night, and he works during the day. I don't think he would fully accept it, and he might tell his friends. He told me in the past to not tell him about it, if I did. I think he is just trying to help me.

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    If he is trying to help you, but you can support yourself, why not say, "Thanks Bro, but I found a job and I can afford a place. I love you for offering to take care of me and if you ever need it I hope I'll be in a position to do the same."

    I really don't see why you are considering this situation fraught with possible negative outcomes. You have plenty of good options and don't need to live with him. What am I missing?

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    Brooke, what do you mean about possible negative outcomes?

    Maybe part of me still isn't sure I can support myself, even though I have in the past.

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    Also I think we are both depressed and lonely.

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    I mean: your brother finds out you are a stripper, which he has told you he doesn't want to know.

    Everything bad that could happen after that event is the possible negative outcomes.

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