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    last week a waitress came up to me and started a conversation while i was getting ready for work. it was all small talk nothing important. at the end she asked me how do i look? so i looked at her being honest i said girl your shoes... not another word. she walked away. i thought well ok and shrugged my shoulders continuing with my make-up. well the other night i was confronted by the house mom, by i need to let you know that you are very rude and insensitive, and continued on where the problem was coming from. i said nothing to her. it pissed me off for the rest of the night. she didn't even know what really happened. but it's ok for her to tell me i have horrible stretch marks without me soliciting an opinion. wtf??? and later that same waitress came up to me and acted like everything was ok. i wish some people would just leave me the f**k alone.

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    Uh, manners? No one actually wants to hear how they ACTUALLY look, they just want reassurance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    Uh, manners? No one actually wants to hear how they ACTUALLY look, they just want reassurance.

    ^^^^
    This. I see what you are saying. You'd think people would want an honest opinion otherwise noone would ask. I guarantee you though, 98 percent of the time they want reassurance. Especially when it is coming from one female to another.

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    Default Re: am i in the wrong???

    Welcome to the world of strippers. We tend to come off as nasty when we are really just being honest. Just ignore them both.





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    Someone's honest OPINION and the truth are two different things.

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    Wait, what was wrong with her shoes? I mean, if she was wearing workmans boots with a dress or something, I mighta said something too. But if she looked fine and her shoes just happened to not be your cup of tea, then that's different.


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    Girl, I used to say things like that all the time. But with age comes experience and wisdom. I still don't think I was wrong in the instances I said those things or that you are wrong, but I have learned that it is usually best to just keep your mouth shut.
    "You can close your eyes to reality but not to memories -Stainslaw J. Lec

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    her shoes were once patented fabric shoes and the heels were basically plastic and all bent to hell one week tops before they break into two pieces.

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    ^ really, do you think that you telling her that is going to change her sense of style for the better?

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    i dont think you are in the wrong. i personally hate it when people fish for complements. unless they are a customer who is going to spend money on me, i rarely comply when people start fishing.

    that being said, if another girl asked and there was something wrong i would probably just say you look ok and ignore it. i like to keep a low profile. but i wouldnt tell her she looked good unless i thought she did.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I don't think you were being rude or in the wrong, but I'm not sure why you didn't say something more like "well your shoes look a little worse for the wear' or something gentler. In general if I don't know someone that well and know that they REALLY want my opinion I'll refrain from saying anything that could possibly be taken the wrong way.

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    Default Re: am i in the wrong???

    Quote Originally Posted by ViolaStrings View Post
    ^ really, do you think that you telling her that is going to change her sense of style for the better?
    yeah well its not just telling her to change the situation.,.,rather than confronting her..

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