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    I just need to vent, rant, and complain.
    Last night was terrible at work. I left with $12. Had somehow made $22 off stage, but tipped the dj the mandatory $10. There were about 7 girls there and a total of probably 9 maybe 10 guys came in from 6pm until 1:30am.

    It just wasn't my night. I'm glad everyone else managed a lap dance, but I couldn't get one to save my life. It gets to the point sometimes were I stop caring and just wanna get the fuck outta the club. To make things worse I don't need to hear stupid comments from stupid people as to why I can't pay my house fees and stupid fucking tip outs.

    I said I'll pay my tip out Friday, but then get a stupid remark saying, "it's already gonna be hard enough to pay the $50 you'll have to pay." no, I can usually make fifty bucks, but I have a problem paying tip outs, house fees AND money taken from my dances! it's fucking expensive dancing out here and I just really miss my club back in Vegas.

    I haven't worked night shift since I started dancing back when I was 19. I hate might shift, but there's already too many girls on the day shift at this certain club. Maybe I should go somewhere else, but this club is 10 minutes from my house. Im not driving over an hour to go to another club.

    This was the first time I was unable to pay my fees and I get stupid comments. Before leaving my manager said, "I understand there was almost nothing in here tonight, but you gotta work on your hustle." Okay? Really? I usually do fine and because one day I didn't pay I'm the most useless girl in the club? (So it feels....)
    I've never heard of having to tip out the bar until moving out here. The bartender is already making more than anyone in the club. PLUS, most of the bartenders are dancers as well, so they're lucky they get to "double dip".

    WTF?! I had to cry it out in the bathroom at work last night because I was just so frustrated and felt stupid. We all have bad days. I've had them plenty of times, but for some reason I let last night really get to me and everything everyone said got to me.

    OH YEAH! Then some douche bag says I have pointy ears and play up the Spock thing for all the sci fi nerds. LMFAO! He wasn't rude about it. I laughed, but in my six years of dancing that was probably the weirdest thing anyone ever said to me.

    I'm just rambling because I'm typing as I vent. It took everything in me to not walk out last night. Crying helped a lot. It's stupid, I know, but I had to release my emotions at the moment somehow. I'm bummed I cried my eyelashes off.....lol.

    I'm gonna start fresh today and make so much money that I pay all my bullshit fees within the first hour or two of being there.....hopefully...lol.

    Sorry this was so long and mixed up, but I needed to vent. I feel better now and am ready for tonight.

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    Hope you do well tonight

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    Default Re: Just venting

    sending good luck your way.

    i think that the first time a girl doesnt make tip out she shouldnt be held accountable. if its a repeat thing she should, else girls will pretend to not have made enough or will take advantage etc., but if a girl who steadily makes money and is good fucks up one night, i wish the clubs would be a little bit forgiving.

    also, this is why i always bring enough money for tip outs and fees in case the worst should happen. There was one night my whole time dancing when i didnt make out house fee... and fortunately i brought cash with me. i think having to tell management i couldnt pay them would have added salt to the wounds.

    cheer up though, tonight is your night to make some rich guy fall in love with you!
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    hopefully you're killing it tonight

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    Sorry about your luck, but girl, I've seen your pics, and you are HOTT. I'd get dances from you in a heartbeat. Just keep moving forward, you'll be fine.

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    Thanks everyone for all the good vibes.
    I did really good last night. Left with a little over $200 after tip outs and house fees. MUCH better than the night before. The best thing about having a bad night is it can't be any worse it can only get better. thanks again guys! Xoxo

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    There would not be any good days without bad days too. Did not even know u were a dancer till now. U know I like ya. ;-) Damn, but Wisconsin is tooo far for a dance. C'est la vie.

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    I'm glad you did better after your shitty night. Just let it motivate you to work harder the next!

    Also, I think pointy ears are cute and they remind me of elves, not Spock. Mine are a little pointy too and I have always loved them for that.

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    Good to hear you did better. My visit to the SC last wednesday, it was clear to me it was way dead at a typically busy night for this place. There was about 10 cocktail waitresses, 18 dancers, and 12 customers...

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