Last night I wound up meeting with my gothy boy ex, aka The Love of My Life. We hadn't seen or spoken in nearly 3 months. (This isn't the one that hit me)Lo and behold, he quit drinking. Not for me but for him. We hung out and actually talked for once.
We are not back together (far from it)but I am cautiously optimistic about us spending time together and not fighting. Also, the fact that he quit drinking on his own made me wonder if he has changed.
Neither one of us is making any extravagant promises or undying declarations of love. Too much has happened. But I wonder if we have both grown enough as individuals and learned from our hardships?



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