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    You fake it till you make it. *hugs*. I'll be right there with you soon, and we can be terrified of the bitchy girls together!....I wish I had some better advice for ya, but I got nuthin', except you're gorgeous and you'll be able to hold your own there too, I know it.



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    Quote Originally Posted by 4everresolutions View Post
    You fake it till you make it. *hugs*. I'll be right there with you soon, and we can be terrified of the bitchy girls together!....I wish I had some better advice for ya, but I got nuthin'...
    Thanks hun I just started to worry since the time is coming ahah. I wish you all the luck within the next days - show em the best!

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    Thats how my club is too. They were laughing at the other new girls last night (it was my first night), but they didnt laugh at me. Eventually I approached them and acted friendly. You're there to make money, dont worry about the other bitches. Just do you. If there's no one else to talk to and you cant make any friends, sit there by yourself or text.

    I find the best time to start talking to them is after work when everyone is changing, i say "Hope everyone did good tonight!" and they'll think i'm nice or shit. Say hi to them when you walk in the dressing room, dont try to make conversation, and at night tell them to have a good night. easy as pie
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    Quote Originally Posted by ivygirl View Post
    Thats how my club is too. They were laughing at the other new girls last night (it was my first night), but they didnt laugh at me. Eventually I approached them and acted friendly. You're there to make money, dont worry about the other bitches. Just do you. If there's no one else to talk to and you cant make any friends, sit there by yourself or text.

    I find the best time to start talking to them is after work when everyone is changing, i say "Hope everyone did good tonight!" and they'll think i'm nice or shit. Say hi to them when you walk in the dressing room, dont try to make conversation, and at night tell them to have a good night. easy as pie
    That sucks, thats good they werent rude to you. The clubs change rooms are like a maze soo.. Ill pass on that. Im bad with small talk but I did talk to a few that worked there for awhile that seemed nice.

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    I'd drop the attitude of trying to appear mean - it will probably just cause them to pick on you more.

    Why not try rotating clubs? Work 3 days at your old club and two days at the new club until you are more comfortable?
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    Im not happy with just 200 from a high milage club when I know I can make more.
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    If you're new and went there on a "slow night" and "easily" making above $250 when there was "barely any guys to talk to", imagine how much more $$ you'll be making when you work there a while, develop regulars, work some busy nights and refine your hustle... it's only gonna get easier (and more profitable!)

    I'm more into flying solo but working dayshift at my current club has forced me to learn to hustle with a buddy when the need arises. If there are very few guys to sit with, you both can sit w/ the same guy, if you know he has $$. With wealthy customers, spending $$ on 2 hot, fun girls who have good chemistry doesn't mean he's necessarily gonna spend LESS on each girl than he would've spent on just ONE individual girl. Some of these guys really like having a few hot girls sitting around them, partying and giving each other dances (on his dime, of course).

    From your description you sound like you've got a nice body. The funny thing about upscale clubs is that, the girls are not usually "naturally" prettier than your average stripper, but put a lot more "work" into their look. Spray tans, plastic surgeries, extensions, expensive outfits, mani's/pedi's. So when you walk into the club for the 1st time it's pretty intimidating. In a year you could look and hustle just like any of those girls, if you wanted to.

    Think of having to walk past everyone as a good thing! It means everyone gets to see your pretty self over and over, it's constant advertisement. Walk with confidence and good posture and sexiness.

    You'll get used to the new place in no time, good luck!

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