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    Just a fun little poll for anyone interested.

    At what point in a relationship do you express your love for someone?
    A month? A year? Never? The first day?
    Have you said it first? Have u said it and not meant it?
    Have you said it first and then found out the feeling was not mutual?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenn1981 View Post
    Just a fun little poll for anyone interested.

    At what point in a relationship do you express your love for someone?
    A month? A year? Never? The first day?
    Have you said it first? Have u said it and not meant it?
    Have you said it first and then found out the feeling was not mutual?
    I've pretty much done all those things. I'm not so quick with the I love yous as I used to be...but i'm generous and quick with the I like yous.

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    Default Re: Saying I Love You

    This is cute.

    At what point in a relationship do you express your love for someone? It varies, but it usually takes a while for me. I like to not throw the term around. In my current relationship of 4 years it took me 2 months to say "I love you". It took him 11 days though. Haha.

    Have you said it first?
    No, men usually fall head over heels for me before I will for them. I'm very cautious.

    Have u said it and not meant it? In an intimate relationship? No, I've always meant it. In the club "OMG, I like totally love you! You're so funny hehehehe" Yes, I've said it and not meant it.

    Have you said it first and then found out the feeling was not mutual? Thankfully no. That would be so crushing.



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    Awe, this is a cute thread!!!

    At what point in a relationship do you express your love for someone?
    I would say as soon as I know that I love that person.

    A month? A year? Never? The first day?
    Probably realistically it would be after months of really getting to know that person...but who knows...I'm a sucker for the idea of "Love at first sight."

    Have you said it first? Have u said it and not meant it?
    I have only ever been in 1 relationship and I was not the one to say it first, he was. However if I were to say "I love you" first, I would definitely need to mean it. I wouldn't just throw those words out for no reason.

    Have you said it first and then found out the feeling was not mutual?
    Not yet, but I'm not even scared of that happening. I think the reward of hearing someone else reciprocate with "I love you" is much greater than the risk of finding out it's not a mutual feeling.

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    At what point in a relationship do you express your love for someone?
    Have only been in one relationship, I waited a long time.

    A month? A year? Never? The first day?
    Months, possibly over a year.

    Have you said it first? Have u said it and not meant it?
    I think I said it first. Definitely meant it.

    Have you said it first and then found out the feeling was not mutual?
    It was not mutual. Found out the hard way!

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    I say it when it feels right. Person I am involved with currently, I said it after a year or so. I said it first.

    Never said it and not meant it. Only said it to one guy, and he felt the same way.

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    When I love them! I've said it the first day (of the relationship, not of knowing them), I've said it first, I always mean it, and I've had it said falsely before.
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    At what point in a relationship do you express your love for someone?
    Do I actually have to SAY it? For real? *cowers in fear* I'm not even sure I'm capable of feeling it anymore. I was irretrievably broken years ago.
    A month? A year? Never? The first day?
    Possibly never, dunno, whenever I realize it and think I might not barf or faint if forced to say it out loud.
    Have you said it first? Have u said it and not meant it?
    Said it first while the guy was asleep years ago. Same guy that broke me. My husband said it first and I lied and said it back a few months later out of guilt. For some reason I had no issues saying it to someone I had no romantic interest in. I also say it frequently to family and friends. Love you is my standard way to end most phone calls! lol I'm so southern.
    Have you said it first and then found out the feeling was not mutual?
    Nope, not really. I'm pretty sure Aaron loved me as much as he was capable of loving anyone. Still completely destroyed me though. It took almost 10 yrs for me to be able to think about him and not double over in agony. Probably why I'm scared spitless of the L word. lol
    "I hear you calling and it's needles and pins. I wanna hurt you just to hear you screaming my name...You're poision. but I don't wanna break these chains.... I wanna love you but I'd better not touch."

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