About sex. (Posted in OW because I want to hear from our lil community here.)
There was a long version of this post but I deleted it. Basically I'm seeing a guy who I really like, who has a heart of gold, but I'm not feeling sexually satisfied, and he doesn't seem to care. It's like he's a different person when we're intimate. We haven't fucked yet, he wanted to take things slow. Okay that's cool but we're about a month in of being physical and I'm not happy about how it's going. I get him off A LOT because I love to, but I'm not getting off AT ALL. At all. I've gently expressed my needs and feelings to him and I don't know what his issue is but he seems to not be interested in satisfying me. He's impatient and sometimes "forgets" about me. This is confusing and disappointing, because everything else about him is great. We go so well together. I'm a naturally giving person and never approach relationships with a "scale" attitude, but I'm starting to see how drastically unequal our sexual relationship is and it's really bugging me. Maybe I wasn't assertive or clear enough with him? I don't know what else to do. Something tells me I did my part in communicating. I'm just tired of hoping things will improve because they're not.
Maybe I just need a kick in the ass from you girls so I can let him go, I don't know. I just feel I deserve better than what I'm experiencing right now.
All opinions are welcome <3
-Ariella



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ugh what's up with these guys
hehe Especially now that we started having sex...
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