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    Default Wannabe dancer!!!

    Hi everyone i decided to be dancer... i m gettin ready mentally, phsicly for audition...
    I work out ,try to eat well... i lost 14 pounds! i was 156 now i am 142 and keep losing weight well. My weight is 5'6' ... i gotta lose these extras... I have lots of concerns in my mind eatin up my brain every single day... i need your advises ladies.

    I had to left from school cause i am married and changed country.. . I was leavin out of the states.. and i am immegrant still.... Firstly i have a job right now which i hate it and get pay 7.30 for 40 hours a week! Which means sucks i got too much drama and not enough paid. I wanna contunie school , i wanna visit more my family which with my small paycheck only i can afford once a year and i miss my family a lot My husband will get out of military soon and he doesnt know where the find job and he is tryin to get his BA same time after he'd done with military. We saved finally very small amount of our earnings after we paid all bills every month.. but now i gotta visit my family we bought my plain ticket and our savings are gone( we dont even have any money in our savings account anymore soon he wont have any job and he gotta search ... i dont know i m stressed... i need money ... I need that job..

    Also i have problem...

    #Can i work for only part time without leavin my job maybe couple days at strip club??

    #MY current job is a retail job..IF they figure out i work sometimes at strip club.. Do they fire me because i do this second job for extra cash? I have no idea!! I dont know the rules so i dont know what to do about it???

    #Do u think its ok when married woman especially who has a military spouse has to work at strip club??

    # What do i do if people recognize me outside for example i go mall and they maybe try to abuse me because i dance at strip club? does it happen to u ladies??

    #Is it ok if i cant dance like stripper in first months?? because i dont have experince.. and do u think clubs would hire me even though i dont have too much dancing skills like a stripper...

    # i went a strip club 2 times should i go this club for auditon or another one?? Dancers were too nice too mee.. My husband tells me its ok they liked me i should go for audtion for this club .. But i think it was just their friendly attuditude because i was just a customer. i dont think so they would like me if i go for a work... should i try another strip club which people dont knoe me? or do u think people still remember my face after couple months later?


    Sorry for my bad English after i visit my country end of the August i ll go for audition...Might me ridicolus or doesnt make sense maybe my questions for u.

    thank u i know so long my article but i need advises badly
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    Hey girl,

    I'm going to try to answer some of your questions.
    Firstly, as long as the strip club does not have a scheadule, you can work as much or as little as you want. Which means, if you only want to work 2 nights a week, you can or you can do it full time if you want. You can dance part-time. You can still keep your retail job. Some strip clubs have scheadules but most do not and you can come and go as you please.

    I doubt your retail job would fire you for dancing on the side.

    I am a military spouse. As long as your husband is okay with it, it's okay.

    If you live close to where you dance, you may get recognized. I have but noone has ever said anything bad.

    Most clubs hire new girls if they think they have potential. Your best bet is to go to a dive club -- not the best club in town until you learn and then you can upgrade. Don't worry. Everyone has to start somewhere. We were all new at one point or another.

    Go and audition at the strip club that you want to work at. Who cares if they like you or not? It doesn't matter if they recognize you or not. Just go and audition and don't worry about anything else.

    Goodluck!

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    Thank u a lot. I would like to stay my current job but it doesnt seems like i can make money Maybe i should pick little bit farther Strip club by my home and my hubby's work ... People doesnt recognize me probably.. I m thinkin about workin couple nights than when i feel comfortable i can quit my job. My husband doesnt say anythin even though i knoe he has concerns about might be his co -workers recognize me( i know he would be shamed ,me too also...

    I m thinkin about waitressing at Strip club... Maybe can be less drama for both of us
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    Waitressing you don't make as much- trust me.
    Go to the farther strip club if it will give you peace of mind.

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    Go for it. You will do fine. If you and your husband agree on it, than it seems like a good idea for you. Your other job will not fire you for it, but it may be best not to advertise it.

    Some strip clubs make you pay and extra fe if you only work two nights a week so make sure you find out all the rules first. Hopefully you will be able to work enough shifts not not have to pay more.

    Also, it's okay to not have experience. Just watch what the other girls are doing. you will be able to pick it up fast enough

    You will do great. Good luck!

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    Thank u a lot girls... BY the way i am not to tiger kind of girl..I MEAN i m very very nice, polite all the time, sensitive , and i cant fight too much i never did. I dont know what can i do if girls try to taunt me when i dance or abuse me .. My personality is bubbly, friendly but very quite when i need to protect myself... Probably i ll be meetin with these type of mean girls too. I hope i can defend myself.. Also i can use as a advantage my foreign status.. Cause i have barely accent when i speak .. I am planing to tell girls that" i dont understand what r u talkin about , my english is not good blah blahD lol.. it works for a while.. even they talk shit i pretend like i dont understand lol


    Do i need to be too flexible i am 24!! i look younger but i am not too flexible... when i watch girls in the strip club they make too easy flexible moves , floor moves or pole dance moves...I know it is not.. I never seen any strip clubs since i moved here.... In my country strip clubs are illegal!! lol i never seen a pole too before For some reason strip clubs are amazing for me!!



    Last month at work, i just learnt one of my co-worker is a former porn star!!! Couple girls at work was passin his pictures hand by hand::SSS showin his naked pictures -videos and hardly laughinD He didnt get fire but he work in back room nite stocker shift... nobody sees him. But i work at guest service high volume store... people see me when they enter store first( My sitrutation could be different. I wanna work full time at strip club but first i need my driving licence.(i just live 5 min away from my job) i have one of from my country and expired American goverment requires US driving licence. When i get my licence and feel more comfy at work totally i will swich and quite my current job. By the way i dont care anymore what people think they wont be able to pay my bills. So thats my desicion...

    note:My husband is ok with my desicion he will be supportin me..
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    Don't worry about the girls.

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    Ladies i m too happy! i lost one more pound also i found a pole dance studio which they give classes about lap dancings , chair dance and pole dance workout 1 hour pole class 25$ 4 hours only 80 $ 4 hours lap dance or chair dance 65$...This is not really much and not located too far to my house! Absolutly i m in!!! i ll get at least 8 -12 hours classes before i go for auditions and if they hire me definitly i ll keep goin for more classes. I m too happy i dont have to worry about my dance skills anymore!

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    #Can i work for only part time without leavin my job maybe couple days at strip club??

    #MY current job is a retail job..IF they figure out i work sometimes at strip club.. Do they fire me because i do this second job for extra cash? I have no idea!! I dont know the rules so i dont know what to do about it???

    #Do u think its ok when married woman especially who has a military spouse has to work at strip club??: Yup. I'm married but my husband isn't military. I'd say if you and your husband agree, no issues.

    # What do i do if people recognize me outside for example i go mall and they maybe try to abuse me because i dance at strip club? does it happen to u ladies??: I've been dancing eight and a half years and never been recognised or pulled aside. Don't worry about it too much unless you live in a super small town. If you live in a small town, then go the next city over or something, it's going to be easier on you.

    #Is it ok if i cant dance like stripper in first months?? because i dont have experince.. and do u think clubs would hire me even though i dont have too much dancing skills like a stripper...: Haha. If this were the case, none of us would be strippers! No girl starts working at the club knowing how to dance, the key is to keep it slow. Here's a video for you!
    Some basic floor moves and to get an idea of how to move. I know it isn't flashy but that'll do as a beginner- when I started at 18 I wasn't even that good.


    # i went a strip club 2 times should i go this club for auditon or another one?? Dancers were too nice too mee.. My husband tells me its ok they liked me i should go for audtion for this club .. But i think it was just their friendly attuditude because i was just a customer. i dont think so they would like me if i go for a work... should i try another strip club which people dont knoe me? or do u think people still remember my face after couple months later?: They probably won't remember you but I say you audition anyway!

    Good luck girl! I you don't mind my asking, where are you moving from?

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    You don't have to be too flexible. I know plenty of girls that aren't. Your flexibility will naturally improve as you dance more. But be sure to stretch at least a little before you dance, otherwise you may pull a muscle or hurt your self some other way...

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