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    Anyone here actively golddigging or in training?

    This topic was talked about on other forums that I used to frequent and it always got out of hand by the haters who didn't believe in NOT dating a broke man.

    I never considered myself a golddigger. I just didn't date broke men and have never had a problem with "dating up".

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    Lol @ actively gold digging. Me? Heck yeah! Everyday all day. I'm always on the prowl for my next victim. Best places to find them(The Gold): Hotel lobbies (Ritz Carlton and Mariotts), Whole food/Trader Joes ... The gas station is a good one too.. you get to see what they're driving then go in for the kill!

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    i dunno, even tho i escort, i dont really enjoy the sugar daddy/golddigging lifestyle. i get bored so easily, yeah its fun to go do "rich people stuff" but who wants to go with some old man...lol i wish i could have the patience to do it i just don't. i find a lot of the guys have this "im so big and rich so come be my little servant and do anything i say and ill dole out cash as i see fit since im big daddy boss". maybe i just havent found a good sugar daddy yet. heh

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    Lol @ actively gold digging. Me? Heck yeah! Everyday all day. I'm always on the prowl for my next victim. Best places to find them(The Gold): Hotel lobbies (Ritz Carlton and Mariotts), Whole food/Trader Joes ... The gas station is a good one too.. you get to see what they're driving then go in for the kill!


    Watch out for the ones in the rentals!!! LOL jk

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    i dunno, even tho i escort, i dont really enjoy the sugar daddy/golddigging lifestyle. i get bored so easily, yeah its fun to go do "rich people stuff" but who wants to go with some old man...lol i wish i could have the patience to do it i just don't. i find a lot of the guys have this "im so big and rich so come be my little servant and do anything i say and ill dole out cash as i see fit since im big daddy boss". maybe i just havent found a good sugar daddy yet. heh
    LMFAOO YOU CRACK ME UP.. UM.. LEMME SEE.. I WANNA GO! TAKE ME!! Hell I'll even push him in his wheelchair and whatever else! Just take me!! lmao!

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    Watch out for the ones in the rentals!!! LOL jk
    ROTFL .. girl I know.. before you could tell the rentals by the tags NOW YOU CAN'T DAMN! LOL

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    lol i see you pushing an old ass man looking fly as hell lol

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    Helllz Yeah girl!!!! Money talks Bullshit walks!!

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    ^^ I fuckin love you guys!


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    Love you too Mckenna!!

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    I'm not hot enough to ever have a sugar daddy (I am also married) but you guys crack me the hell up. *hugs*

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    I am so loving this thread! I tried searching for one online and it was a waste of time. I wish one of you lived near me so we could go out and find a sponser irl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Lol @ actively gold digging. Me? Heck yeah! Everyday all day. I'm always on the prowl for my next victim. Best places to find them(The Gold): Hotel lobbies (Ritz Carlton and Mariotts), Whole food/Trader Joes ... The gas station is a good one too.. you get to see what they're driving then go in for the kill!
    OMG hahah i love you, thats awesome. I barely have patience to deal with some regulars at the club, and could possibly maybe deal with a SD if I found the right one, but they seem ridiculously hard to find (the good ones anyway)..but dating an old guy? For fancy stuff? hell no. Maybe if he paid off my college loans, my dads house, got me a new car, and apartment..maybe. Otherwise, I'll keep my eye out for a good SD (but eh, no good places to find them! ive tried seekingarrangement) and until then, work my ass off at the club, and just started to attempt camming..:sigh: you're awesome though, you must have tonssss of patience lol!!

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    OMG hahah i love you, thats awesome. I barely have patience to deal with some regulars at the club, and could possibly maybe deal with a SD if I found the right one, but they seem ridiculously hard to find (the good ones anyway)..but dating an old guy? For fancy stuff? hell no. Maybe if he paid off my college loans, my dads house, got me a new car, and apartment..maybe. Otherwise, I'll keep my eye out for a good SD (but eh, no good places to find them! ive tried seekingarrangement) and until then, work my ass off at the club, and just started to attempt camming..:sigh: you're awesome though, you must have tonssss of patience lol!!
    The secret is looking but not really LOOKING for A guy that'll do all that. A gold digger knows every dollar counts ha! Some guy's always trying to get my number. I mean wherever I go, Walmart, The mall, Starbucks... anywhere.. Do I get his number? Oh yeah! He might not have millions but he can be assigned a phone bill, light bill..whatever! By the time you know it you'll have all these guys paying your bills THINKING they're gonna get some. The secret is NOT fucking them..the minute you fuck them they forget their purpose. I've found the ugly ones are extremely easy to gold dig.. HA! You gotta remember these guys will one day realize that you're never gonna give them any REAL play so always have backup gold mines.

    one time I was at the gas station and this sexy ass older white guy had just rolled up in a Benz. My golddigger radar went off and guess what I did? I pretended my car broke down ( Mind you I drive a Chrysler 300) and asked him to look under the hood and struck a convo by the time I knew it I had him where I wanted him two days later.. SOUTH PARK MALL! Patience is key. You never know!

    Some girls live the gold digging lifestyle, I don't. I used to when I first started camming then I realzed I didn't have to put up with all their bs escorting. I just catch them when I'm out. I don't go looking for them because.. well.. I hAve a job! However when you find that one goldmine? It's pure bliss!
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    I am so loving this thread! I tried searching for one online and it was a waste of time. I wish one of you lived near me so we could go out and find a sponser irl.
    I would be so up for it. Unfortunately I work a lil too much and have little to no friends where i live.


    Oh the good ole days, Me and my now ex best friend used to go out to the Twelve hotel in Atlanta, Ga and literally sit in the lobby picking up older guys to gold dig.. Use to be soooooooo much fun! We never paid for shit because we were so "hot" That was our spot! Atlanta has a lot of VIPs so does Charlotte but damn I had fun in Atlanta. I miss those days when I could just up and go! ha!

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    ^Damn, you're good. My best friend is from NC, and shes my awesome coupon clipper shopping bud, and with money and stuff, maybe its a NC thing being awesome like that lol! But thats true..I get so pissed off to the point where i'll purposely not do my hair/makeup/dress down so I dont get noticed because its seriously sickening to me already..never thought to turn it around like that And that's the thing of why I don't have patience for guys- they all want to be fucked, and it just aint happening w me lol, and never seem to get to be able to do anything before they want pussy, and then I don't deal with them anymore lol. I need to learn your wisdommmm lol

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    ^Damn, you're good. My best friend is from NC, and shes my awesome coupon clipper shopping bud, and with money and stuff, maybe its a NC thing being awesome like that lol! But thats true..I get so pissed off to the point where i'll purposely not do my hair/makeup/dress down so I dont get noticed because its seriously sickening to me already..never thought to turn it around like that And that's the thing of why I don't have patience for guys- they all want to be fucked, and it just aint happening w me lol, and never seem to get to be able to do anything before they want pussy, and then I don't deal with them anymore lol. I need to learn your wisdommmm lol
    Another thing is .. If you're looking for a "Richard Gere".. You have to go where you think your Richard Gere will be hanging out at right? A. Country Club (St Ives), B. Golf Resorts... You have to hang with the Rich to really score THAT guy.

    If the guys want to be fucked they can hire an escort. You never fuck guys for free...Hell you never fuck him period unless It's your man or you're an escort. Lots of girls do this. They go to the bar and get drunk and the next thing they're fucking the guy in some dirty nasty roach motel and they have nothing to show for it but some uncurable STD.. This may cause a bit of a ruckus but I know girls that won't fuck a guy because he hasn't bought her dinner yet. That's absurd, You have to get as much as you can from him. Push him to the limit till he's like "Ok I'm fucking done with this shit." If you want him keep him but if not, toss him and move on to your next victim. There are PLENTY of Men (notice I said Men) out there. Your place in his life is not in his heart... but his wallet. He's trying to get in YOUR pants for free and when he gets it he'll move on to someone else. That's how guys are.

    P.s Ladies, I'm not referring to our Men at home.
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    If they want to be fucked they can hire an escort. You never fuck guys for free...Hell you never fuck him period unless you're an escort. Lots of girls do this. They go to the bar and get drunk and the next thing they're fucking the guy in some dirty nasty roach motel and they have nothing to show for it but some uncurable STD.. This may cause a bit of a ruckus but I know girls that won't fuck a guy because he hasn't bought her dinner yet. That's absurd, You have to get as much as you can from him. Push him to the limit till he's like "Ok I'm fucking done with this shit." If you want him keep him but if not, toss him and move on to your next victim. There are PLENTY of Men (notice I said Men) out there. Your place in his life is not in his heart... but his wallet. He's trying to get in YOUR pants for free and when he gets it he'll move on to someone else. That's how guys are.

    P.s Ladies, I'm not referring to our Men at home.
    Oh I've told so sooo many assholes at the clubs that really, if they want to pay for sex, GET AN ESCORT OUTSIDE OF THE CLUB-ugh. But they don't want that..they want a girl to "like him" too..ha. I think what happens with me is I'm too nice, and then get fed up, and come off too pushy/sales ish afterwards, and then that turns them off..and I dont get much out of them. So the trick is, somehow being pushy to get what you want..but not to let them know you only want their wallet..something I just DONT know how to do (yet) lol..seriously, you should stop by NJ or NY (lotssss of men here! asshole-ish ones too! lol) and we'll do the tag team thing haha cuz yeah, i suckkk (we have good shopping too lolol)

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    Oh I've told so sooo many assholes at the clubs that really, if they want to pay for sex, GET AN ESCORT OUTSIDE OF THE CLUB-ugh. But they don't want that..they want a girl to "like him" too..ha. I think what happens with me is I'm too nice, and then get fed up, and come off too pushy/sales ish afterwards, and then that turns them off..and I dont get much out of them. So the trick is, somehow being pushy to get what you want..but not to let them know you only want their wallet..something I just DONT know how to do (yet) lol..seriously, you should stop by NJ or NY (lotssss of men here! asshole-ish ones too! lol) and we'll do the tag team thing haha cuz yeah, i suckkk (we have good shopping too lolol)
    Oh I definetely understand the TOO NICE syndrome. I used to have it and it somehow just washed away. Even with work escorting I am very assertive. My clients like it they don't want someone they can push around. Some see it as being "bitchy" but I'm a really nice person.. I know that side of me hasn't translated well here on SW but I really am.

    since you're not assertive you'll have to use imagery. You have to Imagine he has your money in his wallet and you want it back. I know that shit right there would make me really angry! HAhahaa! Just be firm in everything you say or do but KEEP it sexy. Smile, wink ..whatever! I have a tendency to bite my lips when I'm flirting ..works like a charm. It's really not what you say but how you say it.

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    Oh I definetely understand the TOO NICE syndrome. I used to have it and it somehow just washed away. Even with work escorting I am very assertive. My clients like it they don't want someone they can push around. Some see it as being "bitchy" but I'm a really nice person.. I know it side of me hasn't translated well here on sw but I really am.

    Ok since you're not assertive you'll have to use imagery. You have to Imagine he has your money in his wallet and you want it back. I know that shit right there would make me really angry! HAhahaa! Just be firm in everything you say or do but KEEP it sexy. Smile, wink ..whatever! I have a tendency to bite my lips when I'm flirting ..works like a charm. It's really not what you say but how you say it. Don't demand, Command.
    See thats the thing with me too, I look young and innocent, and I'm really nice..until someone fucks w me, then i'm not so nice anymore. A few weeks ago at my friends bachelorette party, a jackass found that out and his face met the floor (i'm 105 lbs, heh, thatll teach him to grab my friends ass..and then mine..ha) , but generally I'm too nice So its not that I let anyone push me around, its more they put me in friend zone, OR just want to date me, and if I turn on the bitchy/command ish , I get the "youre a saleswoman huh" thing. The bite lips thing does work, but then (at least at the club) makes them think for some reason, its ok to touch and grope you..oh, men. And I do understand the difference between demand and command when it comes to my puppy..but men? Especially outside of the club? Hell no lol. I seriously need help. I used to think that golddiggers and women that use men for money and stuff was so wrong and bad karma..but, after starting to dance, I definitely don't feel that way anymore..some men , like animals, need to be guided..heh

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    See thats the thing with me too, I look young and innocent, and I'm really nice..until someone fucks w me, then i'm not so nice anymore. A few weeks ago at my friends bachelorette party, a jackass found that out and his face met the floor (i'm 105 lbs, heh, thatll teach him to grab my friends ass..and then mine..ha) , but generally I'm too nice So its not that I let anyone push me around, its more they put me in friend zone, OR just want to date me, and if I turn on the bitchy/command ish , I get the "youre a saleswoman huh" thing. The bite lips thing does work, but then (at least at the club) makes them think for some reason, its ok to touch and grope you..oh, men. And I do understand the difference between demand and command when it comes to my puppy..but men? Especially outside of the club? Hell no lol. I seriously need help. I used to think that golddiggers and women that use men for money and stuff was so wrong and bad karma..but, after starting to dance, I definitely don't feel that way anymore..some men , like animals, need to be guided..heh

    ^ My cousin is a dancer in hawaii.. Before She started dancing in Hawaii. She was a dancer in gwam before that we were both living together in Atlanta. She has the whole assertive thing down back BUT she's a little bit bitchy. She's bi an I remember not working for 6 months because somehow these guys would come by drop cash and leave and I'd always ask her "How do you do that!". Her reply " Keep them at a distance, don't let them get fresh, don't fuck them but make them think that one day you'll eventually give them some" She had the whole fuck you pay me attitude before she even became a dancer. It always amazed me, back then I was the nice one.. letting guys take advantage of me until I finally said fuck it.

    When I was dancing..I would be lying if I said I was the aggressive dancer.. I was the total opposite and some guys did try to take advantage of the situation. Until you lose the niceness...You'll have to act agreessive. Guys actually like it. Just don't be mean be pushy but keep it sexy.

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    Oh I definetely understand the TOO NICE syndrome. I used to have it and it somehow just washed away. Even with work escorting I am very assertive. My clients like it they don't want someone they can push around. Some see it as being "bitchy" but I'm a really nice person.. I know that side of me hasn't translated well here on SW but I really am.

    since you're not assertive you'll have to use imagery. You have to Imagine he has your money in his wallet and you want it back. I know that shit right there would make me really angry! HAhahaa! Just be firm in everything you say or do but KEEP it sexy. Smile, wink ..whatever! I have a tendency to bite my lips when I'm flirting ..works like a charm. It's really not what you say but how you say it.


    For those that are like "I'm too nice for that..." Just remember, it's them NICE m*therf*ckers who are left to pick up the tab.

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    Very True. I used to be the nice Mfer! Never again! lol

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    ^You're totally right..I'm working on losing the niceness ..I'm just not sure how to balance the nice, down to earth, that guys like- with the command of sexy bitchiness haha!

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    Another thing is .. If you're looking for a "Richard Gere".. You have to go where you think your Richard Gere will be hanging out at right? A. Country Club (St Ives), B. Golf Resorts... You have to hang with the Rich to really score THAT guy.

    If the guys want to be fucked they can hire an escort. You never fuck guys for free...Hell you never fuck him period unless It's your man or you're an escort. Lots of girls do this. They go to the bar and get drunk and the next thing they're fucking the guy in some dirty nasty roach motel and they have nothing to show for it but some uncurable STD.. This may cause a bit of a ruckus but I know girls that won't fuck a guy because he hasn't bought her dinner yet. That's absurd, You have to get as much as you can from him. Push him to the limit till he's like "Ok I'm fucking done with this shit." If you want him keep him but if not, toss him and move on to your next victim. There are PLENTY of Men (notice I said Men) out there. Your place in his life is not in his heart... but his wallet. He's trying to get in YOUR pants for free and when he gets it he'll move on to someone else. That's how guys are.

    P.s Ladies, I'm not referring to our Men at home.
    Did I mention how much I love this thread? lol Especially this ^

    I'm starting to realize all these things more and more. I use to be that nice girl and I wanted to off her but I just didn't know how to be different. I think it's something that you lose over time after you experience some things (if you're smart enough to learn from them) and get more comfortable in your skin. I'm at that place now and it feels sooooo good. Like I seriously wish I could've been this person years ago. I love that I'm not that girl that's desperate to have/chasing after/crying over/being taken advantage of by a man. If the right person comes along fine but I don't see it happening any time soon. In the mean time..................................I'm trying to have a great time, see some places and things, go on some yachts and pay my bills

    Reading the escort threads (even though I'm to scared and too picky about sex to try it myself...kudos to you ladies!), domme stuff and starting to cam has helped bring that out too. I don't think most of us realize how much power women have. When I'm really feelin it I can walk into a room (usually at work...lol) and men really notice. It's like your magnetic and they think you're so beautiful and are drawn to you but afraid at the same time. I had one guy literally tell me that after I read about FinDom and was feeling all empowered before work lol.

    Now when a guy says some dumb shit to me I'm like MF do you know what men will pay/pay me for?

    Now if only I could fine tune myself and be able to turn 'that thing' on and off at a whim I'd be sitting pretty

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    Did I mention how much I love this thread? lol Especially this ^

    I'm starting to realize all these things more and more. I use to be that nice girl and I wanted to off her but I just didn't know how to be different. I think it's something that you lose over time after you experience some things (if you're smart enough to learn from them) and get more comfortable in your skin. I'm at that place now and it feels sooooo good. Like I seriously wish I could've been this person years ago. I love that I'm not that girl that's desperate to have/chasing after/crying over/being taken advantage of by a man. If the right person comes along fine but I don't see it happening any time soon. In the mean time..................................I'm trying to have a great time, see some places and things, go on some yachts and pay my bills


    Reading the escort threads (even though I'm to scared and too picky about sex to try it myself...kudos to you ladies!), domme stuff and starting to cam has helped bring that out too. I don't think most of us realize how much power women have. When I'm really feelin it I can walk into a room (usually at work...lol) and men really notice. It's like your magnetic and they think you're so beautiful and are drawn to you but afraid at the same time. I had one guy literally tell me that after I read about FinDom and was feeling all empowered before work lol.

    Now when a guy says some dumb shit to me I'm like MF do you know what men will pay/pay me for?

    Now if only I could fine tune myself and be able to turn 'that thing' on and off at a whim I'd be sitting pretty

    ETA: I thought you had to be a member to visit a country club?

    Yes you have to be a member to visit a county club.

    Got an appointment .. will elaborate later.

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