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    ^^ Who said anything about promising them..? I just use them..

    They (some) use us for sex/our money... so why not..? LOL!

    I'm a firm believer in using what you got to get what you want.. If you don't know that already haha

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    I recently found a guy who wants to sponsor me. I'm still talking to him about the terms, but he's a fetish guy so I'm guessing no sex. Seems super cool so far. How do you go about getting what you want out of the situation without sex?
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    I too am gonna start actively gold-digging!!! I deserve to have the hell spoiled out of me, plus I need money to pay for my kids private school, so...yeah. Bring on the sugar daddies!

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    I guess what I mean is that I doubt I could lead a guy on and make him THINK that I'm eventually gonna be his girlfriend, or that there will be something "more" when I have no intention of doing so...

    But if it's some rich snobby asshole, then sure, why not? lol. I think I would get extremely annoyed with these men after a while though, especially if they became totally infatuated with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smurfette View Post

    But if it's some rich snobby asshole, then sure, why not? lol. I think I would get extremely annoyed with these men after a while though, especially if they became totally infatuated with me.
    My point exactly!

    Especially the ones that are married
    and start off promising to leave his wives for you
    Oooh perfect!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Smurfette View Post
    I guess what I mean is that I doubt I could lead a guy on and make him THINK that I'm eventually gonna be his girlfriend, or that there will be something "more" when I have no intention of doing so...

    But if it's some rich snobby asshole, then sure, why not? lol. I think I would get extremely annoyed with these men after a while though, especially if they became totally infatuated with me.
    I had a sugar daddy a few years ago and we both knew the score. There was never sex or talk of it, but he would pay me to escort him to social events and things like this (plus pay). Sometimes I would just come over and hang out with him (paid too). He never wanted sex and we both knew the "relationship" wouldn't last. He eventually moved (he was a CEO of a large company) and wanted a hot girl to show off. Itwas pretty cool while it lasted.

    This to me was perfectly fine. However, I get a little upset when people lead someone on. That's what I am dealing with now. The guy I love is having terrible issues getting closer because he's so scared I'm going to do what she did. She took all his money and led him on. Thankfully he realized it before they got married because she would have taken him to the cleaners. She saw a guy who was desperate to marry and have a family and used it to her advantage. I know that had this never happened we'd be engaged by now. Instead I wait to see if he gets over his issues and becomes serious. It scares me because he's the one I love, but what if he never recovers fully to be that person? I know he wants to (he's attracted to me and trusts me) but some people are so scarred by being used.

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    ^See thats the thing, I just started another club in addition to my other one, and I'm not sure what it is..but almost EVERY guy automatically asks how old I am..YES i look young, but havent guys learned its not fucking polite to ask a girls age? If i say my real age, i'm too young because they want older women that just LOOK young..so i'm screwed either way. After that comes the "lets just go for a drink/dinner outside of here" and this is a constant thing. So making them fall in love? no good..they just want to 'take you out' blah blah..what the HELL can I say to these guys to get it through their thick skulls?! Ugh. /rant

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    Quote Originally Posted by Harleigh HellKat View Post
    I recently found a guy who wants to sponsor me. I'm still talking to him about the terms, but he's a fetish guy so I'm guessing no sex. Seems super cool so far. How do you go about getting what you want out of the situation without sex?
    What type of fetish is it???

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    OK here is my SD story. I met him online, he was alright looking, very young for a SD only like 40. I was way too young for him but I didn't care about that crap. We never did anything and he had a foot fetish. He was cool with not doing anything as long as he got to play with my feet. He had a wife at the time and it was really hard to see him but it was fun. Like an idiot tho i got board and fell in "love" with whoever at the time so i stopped seeing him. Turns out like a month later the jack ass leaves his wife. I was done with whoever I had fallen in "love" with within 3 months.
    I still kick myself in the ass for that crap.
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    several different fetishes... catfighting, smoking, leather etc
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    I'm all about some fetish, but there was one dude i had to ditch. Another web guy. He started talking about doing stuff with animals, like dogs. Yea, no thanks, next.
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    Eeep! Yeah, I'd totally ditch that too, money or no money. I knew a dancer that dumped a client for the same reason.
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    Any updates for 2011?

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    Ooooooh teach me malaya,I'm totally hot I just get stuck at the being assertive part...you say you don't have sex but do you kiss these ugly men? When I try gold digging there id always some road block,and guys say I come off intimidating because of my looks and the confidence I carry with it. Are you approaching these men or are they approaching you?
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    Quote Originally Posted by MOP View Post
    Ooooooh teach me malaya,I'm totally hot I just get stuck at the being assertive part...you say you don't have sex but do you kiss these ugly men? When I try gold digging there id always some road block,and guys say I come off intimidating because of my looks and the confidence I carry with it. Are you approaching these men or are they approaching you?
    I used to do this before I got in the industry. I can squeeze money out of men without having sex with him but you have to know who you're dealing with. That's how I made my living at 17 years old. You just gotta find the vulnerable ones and take advantage of them or make the guys think you'll have sex with them eventually and have them do things for you.
    Escorting is a lot easier for me since it's an honest transaction and I can make a killing in a very short time.

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    do any of you GD have tattoos? i know that ideally its better not to have any because some men don't like them. but i really do... do you think it'd be a problem? i'm not talking about hella ink just average pornstar trype of look the half sleeve and calf tat. now i know depending on your style thas two tat placements can be very sexy... whats your opinion?

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    trader joes? seriously. that place is so depressing. it looks like a homeless people convention.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    trader joes? seriously. that place is so depressing. it looks like a homeless people convention.
    Interesting. Not the one in Charlotte or the one in Atlanta. Most of my high end clients shop there and love it. They also love whole foods. Must be a regional thing.

    Ummm.... I met a sugardaddy at trader joes too.

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    freally? trader joes is known for being a super cheap grocery store. college students love it and whenever i go in there i just see really depressing ugly people who are badly dressed and probably missing a few teeth

    whole foods, gelsons, and bristol farms are the more high end stores

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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    freally? trader joes is known for being a super cheap grocery store. college students love it and whenever i go in there i just see really depressing ugly people who are badly dressed and probably missing a few teeth

    whole foods, gelsons, and bristol farms are the more high end stores
    I honestly don't know what you're getting at. I never said it was an expensive store. I said that's where I met one of my sugardaddies. Hell it can't be that expensive. They have this $2 wine there that I absolutely love. The trader joes in Duluth, Ga (Atlanta) is not a homeless people convention or hangout. It is not even close. It's actually in a very prestigious neighborhood. Not too far from St. Ives.. are you familiar? Whitney Houston and Usher have homes in the community. Maybe trader joes is a homeless hangout in your area but in Duluth or here in Charlotte that is not the case. There is also a shopping plaza steps away. Saks, Bebe, Betsey Johnson are in that plaza. I doubt the homeless will be shoping there. Oh and if Kristin Cavallari, Vanessa Hudgens, Jessica Alba and Tyler Perry shops there I doubt it's a homeless hole. :-)It has all been reported before. I can post links as proof if you want. I love trader joes! A girlfriend of mine (who is actually very wealthy) shops there as well. She was the one that introduced me to that $2 wine.


    This is St. Ives btw...




    Whole foods is nice. So is earth fare... . For those that don't know what traderjoes is .
    When it comes to food, I know my stuff.

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    off the sugar daddy topic, but i keep hearing about the trader joe's $2 wine.

    wish they had trader joe's here.

    i got a dentist that keeps asking me out. i have never had a sugar daddy so i am not sure how to turn him into one. he is perfect sd material though. and he really isn't that bad looking. he's not hot, but do-able.

    what kind of things can i say right off the bat to steer him into that sd frame of mind?

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Helllz Yeah girl!!!! Money talks Bullshit walks!!
    umm but he's in a wheelchair.. he's not walking anywhere lol !

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    Quote Originally Posted by lagirl View Post
    freally? trader joes is known for being a super cheap grocery store. college students love it and whenever i go in there i just see really depressing ugly people who are badly dressed and probably missing a few teeth

    whole foods, gelsons, and bristol farms are the more high end stores
    Not in my area. Trader Joes has alot of old people from all walks of life. I go in for the organic goodies, 100% mixed juices and just an assortment of different foods that you don't normally find at the regular grocery store. I do however hate guys in their 60+ trying to talk to me. I find them repulsive especially when I can see them coming for me a mile away. When you ignore them the scream and get angry.

    I think it's more of their approach. They ask dumb questions like Ooh these look right huh? It's annoying when someone is trying to use tacky picky up lines but smells of 2year old goat cheese.

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    off the sugar daddy topic, but i keep hearing about the trader joe's $2 wine.

    wish they had trader joe's here.

    i got a dentist that keeps asking me out. i have never had a sugar daddy so i am not sure how to turn him into one. he is perfect sd material though. and he really isn't that bad looking. he's not hot, but do-able.

    what kind of things can i say right off the bat to steer him into that sd frame of mind?
    Trader Joe's $2 wine is so damn good. I don't drink much. My girlfriend introduced me to it and I was like wow!

    With the dentist, say thing like you want to be "taken care of". use words like "generous". One day just TELL him you need $200 to shop and see what he says lol. That way you will know if he has money to throw away.


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    Not in my area. Trader Joes has alot of old people from all walks of life. I go in for the organic goodies, 100% mixed juices and just an assortment of different foods that you don't normally find at the regular grocery store. I do however hate guys in their 60+ trying to talk to me. I find them repulsive especially when I can see them coming for me a mile away. When you ignore them the scream and get angry.

    I think it's more of their approach. They ask dumb questions like Ooh these look right huh? It's annoying when someone is trying to use tacky picky up lines but smells of 2year old goat cheese.
    Exactly! I know a lot of old people shop there. Heck my girlfriend started shopping there because her grandma loved it so much.
    When it comes to SDs I prefer them older. In fact, the older the better. I don't date young guys much.

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    [quote=malayataylor;1947371]. The secret is NOT fucking them..the minute you fuck them they forget their purpose. I've found the ugly ones are extremely easy to gold dig.. HA! You gotta remember these guys will one day realize that you're never gonna give them any REAL play so always have backup gold mines.

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