So gals ( or guys ) who are married / in LTRs; how do you find the time to do "normal" things? My husband works like either 7pm - 2am, or 9pm - 4-5-6am about six days a week. I work very infrequently, and find myself up at 11:30am or so.. while he sleeps til 4 or 5pm! I understand he needs his rest ( he is also likely going to be getting a promotion soon which will require even MORE time ) but on days off, he still rocks this schedule as to not upset his sleep schedule for the sake of one day off.
So what is there to do at night other than bars?? We don't really drink, if we do go out we may have one or two. He doesn't like nightclubs, he prefers dives and strip clubs because he feels most at home there. We drive out to Baton Rouge once a month or so to go see friends, but I find myself tired by midnight like I was last night. ( I look like a total party pooper- it's 11:30pm and his friend R's GF is saying "Poor J, she looks exhausted!")
I want to do normalish things ( though he says to me "What's normal anyway?" ) but for the life of me can't think of anything! So if anyone else is in a similar position, what do you DO on days off at night that don't require sitting at a bar? I'm normally creative but help! I need out of the house and I miss my husband!



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I need to find somehwere closer to work but am kinda out of options. Tucson SUCKS.



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