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    How do you set boundaries that are stricter than the girl giving a dance like 5 feet away from you? I'm working in SF and I'm fine with two way contact so long as the guy's hands stay away from my ass, breasts and kitty, but I feel like a lot of the other girls I work with allow more than that. I've noticed that when I have what would otherwise be a well behaved customer getting a dance a couple feet away from a really grabby customer, he tends to get more aggressive and my "I could get in trouble" excuse paired with taking his hands and putting them somewhere more appropriate doesn't really cut it.

    Also, where do you draw the line between ass and legs? How close do you let guys get to touching your breasts before stopping them?

    Considering I'm at what is supposedly the most upscale club in the city, I think I'm starting to understand what people mean about needing to be "thick skinned" here.

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    Yup. It was like that back in 2005 when I worked there. Quite a shock coming from ( at the time ) squeaky clean air dance Atlanta.

    I don't allow touching but if I did, I'd say the difference between ass and legs would be about a hands length below my ass cheek. Like if you turned your hand long ways, and put the base of your palm at the bottom of your butt cheek. In my case that gives me a good eight inch radius. I'd use the same rule of thumb for boobs, just put the base of your hand under your boob. On me that comes about a third of the way down my rib cage.

    Also, don't make excuses. Just say STOP. "Hey there sweetie, you're cuttin' it a little close!" ( I used this is SF when I felt like I had to conform to some touching before I flipped out, and that was only leg, arm and shoulder touching. ), "Aww, you're a naughty one, do I have to hold your hands?", "Ok there's your mulligan shot. Let's stay between X and X, shall we?". Something along those lines.

    I'm assuming you're doing topless and I have a fair idea of what club you're at. If it's the club I think it is, if you have a problem, they WILL back you up. I switched from nude to topless in SF and it was the best decision I ever made; I couldn't control them at the nude clubs and had no one in my corner.

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    Grab his hands and nail them behind his head, domination style. Then say something like "You'll enjoy this more if you leave me in control".
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