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    I have a dancer i have known for a few years. We get along really well, we are both single, and both know that what we are looking for in LTR's in not what the other wants or can provide. We call and email each other and I have been to her apt a few times to do guy type stuff for her. When I come over we usually order a pizza and chat a while after whatever project I do for her. In the club over time she has encouraged me to get a little more dominationing during dances, which usually involves pulling her hair or restraining her hands and some dirty dominating talk. On the phone the other day she told me that she wants me to come over and do a real time domination session. We talked for a while about it and I am comfortable with the idea of it.

    I don't want to talk it to death before we do it but when I think about all the directions I could take the session I am a bit overwhelmed. I know she wants it to be a roleplay theme with me as a handyman/contractor who takes control after coming over to give her an estimate for some home renovations.

    Ladies can you please give me what your thoughts might be on something like this and what some of your hard limits might be.

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    Dont forget a safe word other than stop I tried pinapple once now that I think back yelling pinapple to get the roleplay to end sounds comical. Sorry I hit my head hard over the weekend and I cant think straight but ya a safe word is big. That way you know when she isnt roleplaying anymore.

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    Thanks, a safe word is a must.

    Im sorry ladies but my first post got a little rushed, the computer was on battery and it was about to shut down.

    Here is my biggest conundrum regarding the play. In the past when roleplaying like this it was always with a GF, FWB, etc. We had been intimate before getting into domination or roleplaying, etc so it was taken for granted that sex and sexual contact was going to be involved and part of the play.

    We know eachother well enough that we have discussed sex in the past. She has always said that she feels that for her sex is reserved for her own gain. She feels that just random hookups are giving away one of her best resources and she really doesn't hook up unless it is to get and keep a BF or for some other personal gain. To me it is sad that she feels this way as I think she has much more to offer, but its her business.

    I feel like an idiot bringing up where her boundries will be regarding sexual contact when we play but I know we will need to discuss it and her boundries. Wherever she wants to draw the line is fine for me. Im feeling pretty awkward about being too explicit in this thread but I hope I have given enough information to get some input from you girls.

    Ladies what I would like to hear the most from with you is if you have played around like this did you ever do it without sexual contact, or with contact and not going all the way? Before we discuss things again Id just like to have some feminine input. Im worried about overthinking and overtalking things and putting a damper on what I hope will be a very fun afternoon.

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