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    As some of you know, I recently made a move from Vegas to Wisconsin. A big part of that descsion was because of how easy it was for me to get coke out there. I guess you could say I had a pretty healthy coke habit. It's not that I NEEDED it, I just really, really enjoyed having it. If that makes sense....

    Plus with it always being a phone call away, and getting amazing deals, why not? Things were always paid and taken care of, but I never really had "extra" money. All my extra money would go to partying.

    Anyway, we moved out to Wisconsin. Who knew there'd be drugs here, right? LOL

    Well, last night was really freaking rough for me. It was all over the damn club. I couldn't go pee without the girls in the next stall blowing lines. I'm totally fine if I don't see it, but if I know it's there, yeah, I'll want it. ESPECIALLY when I drink.

    It got to the point were I'd try to avoid the bathroom at all costs because I knew every time I went in there, girls would be getting high. It started to bug me, to get to me. I asked to leave early because I couldn't take it. I'm told I can't leave. It took everything in me to not say, "Well, if girls weren't blowing lines every time I tried to go pee, I wouldn't want to leave..."
    but I'm not a hypocrite.

    So I sit down, and just try not to think about it. I eventually broke down and asked a girl if she knew where to get any.
    Even though she told me no, and it pissed me off at the moment, I'm glad she didn't.

    I guess I was angry because I am use to having it, and now I don't. I guess, jealous? Which is fucking retarded because I really don't want to know any connections out here. I like the fact that I have money on me all the time. I like the fact that I am sleeping normal. Eating normal. FEELING normal.

    I don't care what people do. I guess I just never realized how hard it is to be around when I don't have it and am really trying to remain clean.

    This thread of course probably makes me sound like a huge drug addict, but I'm just looking for advice on how to remain clean. Because I'm proud of myself so far. I want to continue to be proud of myself...

    How do I get past this? What can I do to stay focused on money, rather than worrying about who's doing lines? Last night was the first night that's happened. Now I'm worried about it happening again. I don't want it to.

    Has anyone else ever been through anything like this? Trying to be sober when everyone else is high?

    Please, once again, I'm not looking to get abuse from this post, just help and advice.

    (Sorry this was so long.)

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    I was actually in rehab addicted to coke at 14, and when i was dancing it was rampant in the club. I'm currently addicted to roxies. Its so hard to not want to go buy some when I have the money, and i too enjoy having money on me all the time rather then spending so much of it on something that gets you high for a brief period of time. I know how hard it is to not want to spend all your money on coke, or to be tempted, but honestly you just have to not think about it. I know if i do coke again then i'll be an adict, and its incredibly hard to only stop at one or two lines.
    I had to change clubs. The one I'm at now is clean, there is no possible way a girl can get around doing drugs. I recently deleted some of my dealers numbers to help me slow my roll, if you have any numbers maybe you can do that too? God I cant even explain how hard it was for me to stay sober when everyone else was fucked up, but maybe if you just soley focus on money guys will see and appreciate the fact youre sober?
    I dont know if this made any sense and i dont know if it helped, but if as long as you know that I was in the same situation and I could stay clean, then maybe that'd help.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ivygirl View Post
    I was actually in rehab addicted to coke at 14, and when i was dancing it was rampant in the club. I'm currently addicted to roxies. Its so hard to not want to go buy some when I have the money, and i too enjoy having money on me all the time rather then spending so much of it on something that gets you high for a brief period of time. I know how hard it is to not want to spend all your money on coke, or to be tempted, but honestly you just have to not think about it. I know if i do coke again then i'll be an adict, and its incredibly hard to only stop at one or two lines.
    I had to change clubs. The one I'm at now is clean, there is no possible way a girl can get around doing drugs. I recently deleted some of my dealers numbers to help me slow my roll, if you have any numbers maybe you can do that too? God I cant even explain how hard it was for me to stay sober when everyone else was fucked up, but maybe if you just soley focus on money guys will see and appreciate the fact youre sober?
    I dont know if this made any sense and i dont know if it helped, but if as long as you know that I was in the same situation and I could stay clean, then maybe that'd help.
    Yeah, I moved across country to get away from everyone I knew. I'm really glad I haven't met any connections out here yet, but am worried that I'll push for it. Thank you so much for responding, it helps to know that I'm not the only one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by _Avery_ View Post
    This thread of course probably makes me sound like a huge drug addict, but I'm just looking for advice on how to remain clean. Because I'm proud of myself so far. I want to continue to be proud of myself...

    You should be proud of yourself simply for posting this.

    Good luck and hopefully other dancers on here will be able to provide advice and support.

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    Drugs are everywhere. And you will find them anywhere if you want them, a clean or dirty club, good or bad area, city no city.. drugs drugs drugs

    Anyway, if you want to stay clean, dont drink at work as you mentioned it will make you do coke even more.. Is there a bathroom other than the one in the change rooms you could use? If you see a girl doing it, do ignore it dont think anything, just go piss and then think money! Even think there are no drugs, no such thing and you cant get any - dont ask.. if your temped keep your mind off no matter what. As ^mentioned, delete all contacts you knew with coke dealers, dont get into te crowd - if you feel like you are onto that path seriously get help,, any help will do some good and might give you a different view than the one yoou have now. You're their to make money, and have money not money to spend on coke. Keep yourelf busy, dont drink, go piss and leave asap, think money money money, this is your job afterall not a place to earn to spend within the same location.

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    There is another restroom in the locker room, but there's no door on it, it's wide open.
    The other night I was there and some girl just set up a line there. Like it was no big deal.
    I don't know why it didn't bother me that night, just really bothered me last night for some reason.

    I'm definitely not going to work Friday nights anymore. I do better during the week anyway. Not as many girls, so not so much drugs going on. At least if there is, I don't notice like I did last night.

    Thank you for the replies.

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    From what you're saying I think I know what club you work at....I'll send you a private message.

    If it is that club yeah there is RAMPANT coke there. Unfortunately Milwaukee has a crazy coke scene, I used to have a huge problem with it myself. And to be honest it's always around.....it's equally bad as in Vegas if you're in the club scene here (I lived there for quite a few years myself).
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    Quote Originally Posted by VegasPrincess View Post
    From what you're saying I think I know what club you work at....I'll send you a private message.

    If it is that club yeah there is RAMPANT coke there. Unfortunately Milwaukee has a crazy coke scene, I used to have a huge problem with it myself. And to be honest it's always around.....it's equally bad as in Vegas if you're in the club scene here (I lived there for quite a few years myself).
    I'm just shocked at how OPEN the drug use is out here. Like that girl just busting a line in the back, and then two girls in the stall at a time....
    Really? I mean, I doubt they're changing each other's tampons...lol

    Which I really shouldn't say shit, because me and my girlfriends would go into the bathroom together, but I guess it was different because it was a single bathroom. No stalls. I dunno why I'm trying to justify it, but this club reminds me a lot of my last club.

    Some girls have been there 14 years...Were I was one 3 of the Veteran girls at my last club.

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    ^^^

    Yeah that's why I thought I knew what club you were at I guess it's just LIKE that here. My club is not, whew, but my old club was. That's why the took the doors off the stall in the bathroom. The customer female bathroom still had stall doors of course.
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    Find a club with all open bathrooms. No locks, no stalls, no doors. This is the best strategy I think. Of course, if girls are this open it may not matter...

    If it is super hard for you, then take some time off or move clubs or try something else for a little while. Go to camming or phone sex until you can get it out of your head.

    I don't know what you're going through as far as coke, but I do know that aderall and diet pills are super hard for me to say no to... hugs!!
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