
Originally Posted by
MsChaos
Hello ladies. I'm new on the site and have done a bit of reading. Most clubs seem to do an audition first. I'm going to be starting at the best club in my city. I live in a border town, so I'm more comfortable starting here knowing theres good security ect.
So I went in with a friend of mine last night to scope it out and actually (pay attention to how the club works this time!) and I was diggin it. So I talked to management and they were all for me dancing there! Guy were already offering me alcohol (luckily it's not hard for me to politely say no thanks!) and buying me dances! The girls seemed nice for the most part, a few seemed kind of catty as soon as the heard I was considering dancing there. The club was nice a packed, lots of girls and lost of customers. Mostly military guys.
I've waitressed at a club before, so I'm familiar with the basics of how the clubs work (tip out, rotations, dances ect) however, I've never actually danced. So I'll probably be starting this Wed. One of my artists gf worked tehre and she's been totally nice. Said she didnt mind if I go in with her and what not, and been a big help as far as easing my nerves. She goes in around 9pm (when the customers start arriving) and I've been debating if it'd be more comfortable to go in early when there isn't a whole lot of people there, or later once theres more people and theres less focus on *just* me.
Any tips for a new dancer who is just kind of being thrown on stage ?(for lack of better words)
*What would be a good type of music to start with? There's 4 stages and you begin on 1 and rotate around. your music plays when you're on 1, so there's 3 other songs you gotta dance to after that that aren't your choice! I'm pretty sure the DJ makes the music flow pretty nicely.
*What are some tips as far as approaching customers for potential dances? How do you nicely suggest that time is money, if you're still on the floor, sitting with them at they're table? Without getting stuck talking to the same group of guys?
*How do you handle it when people you know come in, if you don't want customers knowing your real name? Not that I really mind they know I'm dancing that night, but I'd imagine its kind of mixing 2 worlds.
*Whats the best advise for a new dancer to get along well with the other girls, b ut not too too well. I'm not a very confrontational person, and I'm more intimidated by the drama. I'll be one of the few alternative girls there, and I'm sure my music isnt exactly what other girls would be comfy dancing to. Where's a good place to meet in the middle without being too nice, or too bitchy?
*Still trying to think of a good stage name!
I think that's all the oddball questions I can think of for now. I'd truly appreciate your responses! I hope these arent repeat questions! I'm still learning the site!
xoxoxo
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