Okay, ladies. I have read just about every newbie thread on here. So please help me out with a little reassurance and answers to questions that I couldn't find. I'm sorry if they're out there, I'm just out of it and having issues with the internet!
1. I'm excited to start stripping, but I am really, REALLY nervous. I have been wanting to do it for years, but I avoided it because I knew that it made my boyfriend uncomfortable. Well, after a little over 5 fucking years of being together he left me and moved on with another girl only a few days afterward. I've been so depressed that I haven't been able to sleep, drink or eat. I just spent the last few days in the hospital because of passing out from dehydration. I'm trying to get my strength back, but I'm still having a hard time stomaching food. I'm afraid that I'm going to get to the strip club and pass out in the middle of a dance. Does anyone have any suggestions for a healthy, but calorie dense food that will be able to get my strength back up? I'm having a hard time eating a lot at once, so I want every bite to count. I'm also a vegan, so I can't eat any meat or dairy or eggs. And any simple, simple exercise routines to get my weak little body ready?
2. Has anyone ever stripped after a breakup? I'm a little nervous in general because I feel like I may also break down just from men treating me poorly. I was raped several years ago and, again, my fiance/best friend just left me out of the blue. I'm not stripping to get back at him or prove anything, I truly do believe that I'm doing it for the right reasons and it IS something that I've been wanting to do for years. And at this point, I just really want to make money and start over. I have plans to move to NYC, go to the art school of my dreams that I could never afford before, and travel travel travel. I've been killing myself working over 60 hours a week at two minimum wage jobs, and I just feel like this route is going to be a lot better. Is it easy to remind yourself of the positive reasons as to why you're stripping, or is it easier for the negative to take over? I'm just afraid that if something bad would happen to me, it's just another thing that I would have to bottle up. I can't call my boyfriend or come home to him to cry in his arms and feel better about it. I'm not close with my family and I recently had a very large falling out with all of my friends.
3. I'm going to see if I can get a job at Platinum Horse in Akron, Ohio. When is a good time to go and ask? I'm not even sure if they'll want me, so I'm thinking that I should just go over in my normal clothing (denim short, Abercrombie & Fitch plaid dress shirt and my hair in a ponytail) and ask if they're hiring and maybe just wear some nice, Victoria's Secret lacey underwear underneath. Bad idea? Should I get really dressed up and cake on the makeup? Should I really be prepared with shoes and outfits and underwear right there? I don't even have any yet because I wanted to get a feel for what other girls would be wearing at the club I would be hired at.
4. And what do you do every time you have to take a ton of cash to the bank? Isn't it awkward? Did you open a new bank account? I know all of the tellers that work at mine and I would feel extremely uncomfortable coming in with huge cash deposits all of a sudden. How does that even work?
5. Also, please direct me to some other threads that are really helpful for newbies and have great tips for talking to customers and making money!



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