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    Hey ladies! I am been trolling this section reading all of the great posts, soaking it all up like a sponge! I wanted to kind of introduce myself as well as find some Arizona girls to talk to and maybe as a question or two (or three). I am a single mother of a 5 month old girl, just moved BACK in with my mom after I left my ex (the father) and his cheating ass and am currently residing in northern AZ..yes the place where there isnt a strip club, massage parlour, escort agency etc unless you travel 1.5 hours+ I do have a "normal" 9-5er 4 days a week and my mother watches my daughter. Anyways what I am getting at is I WANT to get into the adult biz again (I stripped for a month til i found out i was pregnant) This time I want to do escorting, or porn or something other than stripping, it just wasnt for me. My problem is: how can i do this living so far away from the adult biz areas like Phoenix, how will I find the time with my regular job and the travel time making it at least a four hour round trip if i go to the major cities, how can i make excuses to my mom who babysits. Am I just not in the right place right now? Should I wait til my daughter is older, I have more money etc etc. I know this sounds like a huge long complicated post but I just need some insight and you all seem SOO amazing and helpful I was hoping I could get a little advice thrown my way. And if there are any single mothers, or AZ people out there who want to talk back and forth then PM me please! I would love to talk to anyone! Thank you so much for reading and hope to talk to you all soon

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    First and foremost, I'd say research. Find out whats around you, what you'd be willing to do, and how far to drive. See if it's even possible at all (as you said you dont want to dance). If you're gonna escort, maybe just tell her that you're going out with a friend or something? I have a 3 year old and my mom knew I was bartending for a bout a year, so when I told her i was gonna apply at a club, she just kind of assumed i was gonna be bartending.

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    thats the problem though, I have researched as much as I can. Phoenix seems to be my best bet if i do want to pursue this but I have no idea how to make it work out :/ Thats a good idea though. thanks

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    If its possible to fit in on your days off, go for it

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    I'm also a single mom. My daughter is 2. I don't have my parents here to watch her. She has her own nanny. I am an escort and I'm currently not working in my area. I travel to Virginia to work now and thats 4 hours away. So how do I do it? I drive! I drop my daughter off at her nanny and go away for hours , sometimes two days at a time. However I'm almost always home. I still make a good living here seeing just regulars but I'm come to learn that Virginia is where the money is (compared to carolinas). Sometimes I even drive to the beach to work (Myrtle beach) which is about 3 hours away.

    You could become an escort if you wanted but are you mentally ready for that? You could also cam while escorting like I do so you don't get burned out. Before I travel to these places I make sure my first appointment is a big appointment like a 4 hour/1400 and make the gent pay a deposit so that way I'm not driving all the way out there for nothing... you know how guys are ..love to change their mind at the last minute.

    Think about what you want to do. You sound like a smart girl im sure you'll figure it out.

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    Right now I don't think I am ready mentally, I should have specified that I am holding off a bit until I lose the baby weight to feel better physically as well as mentally/emotionally.


    (I couldnt figure out how to quote you lol)
    "Before I travel to these places I make sure my first appointment is a big appointment like a 4 hour/1400 and make the gent pay a deposit so that way I'm not driving all the way out there for nothing... you know how guys are ..love to change their mind at the last minute.
    In order to get those kinds of jobs don't you need to be established first or do agencies or even indy book that well starting out?

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    Have you considered webcam modeling? It is one of the best work from home jobs out there.

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    I have read quite a bit about camming on here but with my current living situation I dont want to give a accidental show to my mom haha! I might figure out some way to do it though, heres hoping!

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxySadie View Post
    Right now I don't think I am ready mentally, I should have specified that I am holding off a bit until I lose the baby weight to feel better physically as well as mentally/emotionally.


    (I couldnt figure out how to quote you lol)
    "Before I travel to these places I make sure my first appointment is a big appointment like a 4 hour/1400 and make the gent pay a deposit so that way I'm not driving all the way out there for nothing... you know how guys are ..love to change their mind at the last minute.
    In order to get those kinds of jobs don't you need to be established first or do agencies or even indy book that well starting out?
    Yes you do need to be established. However you can always have a well known provider vouch for you. When I was booking calls for other ladies they had no reviews but guys would still see them because I have 100% awesome reviews on TER. It's funny because when I first started I was charging $400 but I didn't have any reviews.. I was getting business but not what I would have gotten had I had reviews at the time. So what I fdid was host a $250 intro deal one month and in that month my reviews piled up and I raised my rates even higher to $450 and the rest is history. It's actually the smartest thing I've ever done.. business wise.

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    Wow $400 starting out seems really good! The intro deal is a great idea but I might just go with an agency for now til I get the hang of it and know what to do :p You all are very smart businesswomen!
    Also a side note..why the name change? I thought that it was usually best to stick to a name so customers can post reviews and ask for seconds and know how to find you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxySadie View Post
    Wow $400 starting out seems really good! The intro deal is a great idea but I might just go with an agency for now til I get the hang of it and know what to do :p You all are very smart businesswomen!
    Also a side note..why the name change? I thought that it was usually best to stick to a name so customers can post reviews and ask for seconds and know how to find you?
    No no
    I have a separate name for work .. i'd never change that name. Malaya Taylor was my cam name.. so not anymore and yes you should start with an agency.

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    ooh ok I didn't know that was just the cam name..I knew it wasn't your real one though haha. I applied to one last night actually so I will see what they say! At least with all the research I have done it seems most of the agencies want "fit" girls so it gives me something to work harder towards

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    Quote Originally Posted by SexxySadie View Post
    ooh ok I didn't know that was just the cam name..I knew it wasn't your real one though haha. I applied to one last night actually so I will see what they say! At least with all the research I have done it seems most of the agencies want "fit" girls so it gives me something to work harder towards
    Could never change my work name although i've been tempted too. Ooh Malaya Taylor couldn't be my escorting name. It's not well SEOd on google... lol. My work name is.. I'm everywhere and a lot of ppl know me in our little community for me to change that name.

    So you applied to an agency huh? which one.. pm me.

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