
Originally Posted by
Kisca
I did what you were thinking, I was looking for jobs and nothing nothing nothing. So I live with my boyfriend, been with him for 2 years - we took a break for a week and got back together, that whole week I wanted to strip - so I did. As we were together again he thought I was a waitress, 2nd night into stripping, his friend walked in and my boyfriend found out. My boyfriend had the same reaction as yours. He was mad and said its either stripping or him, I told him I need the money, unless he wanted topay for my expensives then I'll quit. So for 2 months as working as a stripper, we fought on how he didnt like it and I literally had to pick him or stripping and move out - So I picked that I wanted to strip, and he knew he was going to loose me, as I worked, he then began to offer to pay for my expensives, but I disagreed. At 4 months now, He is used to it, he still gets jealous a little, and still wants me to quit in his mind and offers to pay, but he knows that isnt an option of mine.
So what I can say is.. He will find out. I live the Toronto area too and its a small place, my boyfriends network is really small and if your bf has a bigger network he WILL found out. So you could do what I did if you believe its right and damn to found out where it leads and how he will take it.. either he will break up with you or take it into shock/anger/saddness. Or talk to him about it which is the best thing to do as I say, my boyfriend felt like I betrayed him and cheated so he took it hard, think of what youre doing mentally to him if he founds out. You could say.. I have no job, its either stripping or you pay for me until I find a regular one - who knows if that works with you, try that out, its a harsh move and you have stick your ground to it. If he doesnt accept it now, He'll have trouble accepting it through out the way. It will take a lot for you to get him to understand that its a job and to take it easy on the view of stripping. Make sure you really want to do it, or else all the stress and crap is for nothing.
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