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    Thumbs up Mushy about SW

    Hey girls, I know this is gonna sound totally lame and uber gay, but I really appreciate how nice you guys are about newbs. I wish we all just worked at the same club or something. Reading through all these threads has helped me confidence immensely. Soo pretty much,

    Thank you.


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    I definately agree! I would've never known as much as I do if I hadn't found this board. I love having a place to ask questions and openly discuss things!

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    We were all new once! When I started at my club two years ago, it was pretty much "thanks for letting me see your ID, topless only, dressing rooms upstairs kbye". Without all my previous SW research, I'd probably have just cried in the corner lol!

    It's the same at the club... I get that dancers don't wanna spend their whole night hand-holding newbies instead of making money, of course, but whats with the kinds of girls that scowl at you just for being new?? Just remember, if you're new and the girls are hating on ya for no good reason, it might well be jealousy that your hot self will attract more cash than they will


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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    , but whats with the kinds of girls that scowl at you just for being new?? Just remember, if you're new and the girls are hating on ya for no good reason, it might well be jealousy that your hot self will attract more cash than they will
    Thats my biggest fear! I'm soooo not a confrontational person! haha sorry off-topic.

    I believe I'm starting Wed, vigorously reading EVERYTHING! You girls are great!

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    Keep in in mind though that part of the element of why this site works is because we DON'T work at the same club. I mean really .... it's true. This is a safe place to be helpful.

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    MsChaos, I'm sooo not confrontational either! When I started, I just read up on everything I could here, so that I wouldn't have a reason to need to ask the other girls at the club for help etc. And then when I was there, I let girls offer advice rather than seek it out, but even then I took what they said with a pinch of salt because I was aware they might be trying to screw me. I went with the "trust no-one" attitude lol! The longer you're there, the more you'll be able to tell what girls are chilled and which ones are trouble makers. I've been at my club two years now and I still try to keep to myself for the most part though.

    A few weeks ago I was sitting with a custie and he mentioned that he knows another dancer OTC, a girl I get along with. He said he pointed me out to her and said he liked me, and what did she know about me? Apparently she replied "Actually, absolutely nothing.. which is a very good thing. It means she doesn't get into all the dancer drama like most girls here", and the custie liked that. I was like


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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    Keep in in mind though that part of the element of why this site works is because we DON'T work at the same club. I mean really .... it's true. This is a safe place to be helpful.
    haha youre absolutely right!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Miss_McKenna View Post
    MsChaos, I'm sooo not confrontational either! When I started, I just read up on everything I could here, so that I wouldn't have a reason to need to ask the other girls at the club for help etc. And then when I was there, I let girls offer advice rather than seek it out, but even then I took what they said with a pinch of salt because I was aware they might be trying to screw me. I went with the "trust no-one" attitude lol! The longer you're there, the more you'll be able to tell what girls are chilled and which ones are trouble makers. I've been at my club two years now and I still try to keep to myself for the most part though.

    A few weeks ago I was sitting with a custie and he mentioned that he knows another dancer OTC, a girl I get along with. He said he pointed me out to her and said he liked me, and what did she know about me? Apparently she replied "Actually, absolutely nothing.. which is a very good thing. It means she doesn't get into all the dancer drama like most girls here", and the custie liked that. I was like

    im going in on a day that my artists gf is working, theyre soo laid back! shes all stoked! And im more comfy!

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