MsChaos, I'm sooo not confrontational either! When I started, I just read up on everything I could here, so that I wouldn't have a reason to need to ask the other girls at the club for help etc. And then when I was there, I let girls offer advice rather than seek it out, but even then I took what they said with a pinch of salt because I was aware they might be trying to screw me. I went with the "trust no-one" attitude lol! The longer you're there, the more you'll be able to tell what girls are chilled and which ones are trouble makers. I've been at my club two years now and I still try to keep to myself for the most part though.
A few weeks ago I was sitting with a custie and he mentioned that he knows another dancer OTC, a girl I get along with. He said he pointed me out to her and said he liked me, and what did she know about me? Apparently she replied "Actually, absolutely nothing.. which is a very good thing. It means she doesn't get into all the dancer drama like most girls here", and the custie liked that. I was like

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