I have the oppertunity to go back to dancing, a thousand questions are running through my mind, such as:
You have been chatting to a custie for a short while, you bring up dances, he declines. Do you say something like `Ok, maybe Ill see you later then?` with a wink and saunter off?
Or do you leave making him think that was his one and only chance and he blew it? Hopefully inducing a feeling of regret?
I used to do the `Ok maybe Ill see you later` thing all the time, but Im not sure thats the best approach. But then what if you have to go backl to him and ask again anyway, just to do the rounds?
Thats another thing. I dont see much on this forum about `doing the rounds`. Does this not happen much in the US? Its what we do in the UK, the manegment usualy encourages the dancers to go round and round the club, repeatedly asking the same custies over and over whether they want a dance. We get told off for doing anything else if we are not sitting with a custie or dancing.
(Hence why I used to be a bit of a camper, asking someone more than 3 times does ones self esteem no good, neither does camping, but not as much. I was a nice dancer though and used to invite others to join me).



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This doesn't always work, but it works more than the "Ill see you later" line. I only use that with custy's I know won't buy dances from me, ie, the club's or other dancer's regulars, not my regulars.



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