Over time I have come across a lot of fact, fiction and urban legends relating to custies on this and other sites. In the interest of fun, I thought that I’d compile some of the more interesting theories that I have come across and share my humble opinions relating to them. This is just a starter list and feel free to add, take shots, etc.
1. He is there for the fantasy – he wants to be close to the unattainable.
Really? This may be true for the casual clubber or for a slice of PLs, but a majority of us have a variety of other motivations, from seeing lots of T&A to more frowned upon intentions. Also, plenty of guys in the clubs I frequent have hot girlfriends or wives, including me, though I must admit that my hot wife is also my age (40), so I do not mind seeing fun girls 10-15 years younger than us
2. If he needs to see his options before he buys a dance than he is just cheap or broke.
Maybe true in some cases, but certainly not all. I am a shopper and it takes me time to settle on one girl, but when I do then it is generally a good night for her. I know others that feel the same way. IMHO this is a complaint most often posted by “wanna dance” girls with limited sales skills, but opinions might vary on this.
3. Guys like and/or spend more on girls with big breasts.
Opinions vary on this one. I for one hate implants (no offense to anyone) and love small natural perky breasts, particularly combined with a narrow waist and flaring hips. IMO there are too many implants in the clubs nowadays and a girl with tits that look inflated and stiff are a definite turnoff for me. I definitely believe that there are a fair number of guys that either have my preference or are ambivalent to breast size if she is sexy enough otherwise.
4. A good way to sell a dance is to “tell him” that he is going to buy a dance.
I see this advice posted a lot from girls working in Vegas clubs. That may work in Vegas, but let’s hope that “What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.” Try that shit in NYC and see how that works out for you. More times than not you are likely to hear some variant of “get the fuck out of here.” I’d also be fascinated to see that tried in the clubs I frequent in the South. Same comments hold true for the old un-requested table dance and charge gimmick.
5. Keep moving and if he doesn’t immediately buy a dance move to the next target.
I understand this philosophy, but IME this varies a lot by club and region. If you are working in a high volume, high-end club then this might be the right approach (again thinking of Vegas), but in the mid-tier local clubs I have never seen this approach work. Personally I need to get to know a girl a little before I start to spend on her. My opinion seems to be shared by many of the other custies postings on this thing, which should say something since many of these guys are hard core junkies that don’t mind opening their wallets in a club.
6. Guys are all pigs looking for sex/extras
Hmmm – actually hard to argue this one![]()




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