
Originally Posted by
mickey10
so i auditoned about a month ago, and came home and told my fiancee.
...... Im sorry why would you do that w/o letting him know first? You two are getting married and it seems like there is no trust or communication.. Are you two even happy?
he seemed shocked, and asked, "did you take off your panties?" i completely lied and said, "oh no, just my top". that was a total lie because it's a nude club.
..... You already gave him the impression that its a bikini or topless club. What happens when he fins out that its a nude club?
anywho, he wasn't angry he was just kind of shocked and i think that he was a little bit sad that i was onstage naked.
...... No shit.. You went behind his back. You should be lucky he did not break up with you.
a couple weeks later he told me that i can do it for a little while if i just don't tell him that i'm doing it. so that's what i've been doing. i just say, "i'm going to so and so's" and then i come home around one or two am.
.......... Why not? He is probably still upset for what you did behind his back, how do you know his still has trust, love or any opinion of you now?
i don't want to hide the truth from him... and i know that he knows..i mean, HELLO it's obvious, right?
.... You're already hiding that its a nude club.. He does not want to deal with the reality of you being a stripper and wont take it for longer.. as he said for a little while.
i just needed to really vent that out. i realize that i'm basically choosing stripping over him, but i don't really want to deal with that. i want to do it i like it.
..... You are picking stripping over him, you went behind his back, seems like you two have no trust in each other, and I honestly dont see how you two can drag into marriage.
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