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    Default Group shows, how do you manage them?

    Hey, guys. I did a search on the subject and couldn't find anything, so if the question's been asked before don't kill me, just direct me to the right topic .

    So, what do you do when you're in pvt and a second/third/eleventh/whateverth guy joins? I usually keep going on the first show, doing what the first guy asked to, because I think stopping it would super break the mood. Especially when the first guy wants teasing and/or talking (that of course means more time and more $), and the second one wants fast action ... but anyway I tend to prioritize firsties, even when they're fasties . I'm afraid that can make the second guy pissed and he may rate me poorly. What do you do?

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    Dude I'm wondering the same thing 'cause I'm new to Streamate and this kind of boggled my mind last night. Makes it even more awkward that they can't see what each other is saying!

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    Default Re: Group shows, how do you manage them?

    I figure that if they aren't paying for Exclusive, then first come, first served (ha!).

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    Yeah, first come, first serve, generally. I've started telling guys who want specific things like roleplaying, or calling out their name, or modeling shoes/underwear, etc. that they need to go exclusive.

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    the guy who takes me from free chat gets his show the way he wants it. if guys barge in and start demanding something completely different I tell the newcomers that "mr. xyz" took me first and this is his show, you'll have to wait until he's finished to get me next. 9 times out of 10 they wait in private until its their turn OR take me private immediately when i get back to free chat.

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    ryleeNsd, tell'em sister!!! haha!

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    lol i try! i've found when i vent and scold them like children they actually behave better and mind their manners haha! of course i scold them with a smile and a laugh so im not a total bitch but hellz yea i put 'em in their place :finger snap: lol

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    Usually first come first served is a good thing to do butt this frame of thinking can also hurt you.

    I have noticed that on SM none of the members actually know the difference between premium and exclusive chat. If they do it is a rarity.To priortize one member in a group setting is kind of unfair to the other members, and unfair to you if you are doing a 1 on 1 exclusive show at a premium chat rate. I wish on SM there was a better explanation of this to customers. Id love to do more group theme shows but the members dont seem to get it! To take time out of my day to explain this is also a waste of time for me, I should be hustling shows not explaining the system to members.

    I try to get all members included in the same show. If it doesnt work out at least I tried. If someone enters and you are in a show do your best to include them, and get them responding with the other guests to the same show. My typical line is:
    "OMG I am busted! You *caught me* red handed slipping into a pair of pantyhose/playing with my feet/insert show theme here!!!" I am not in too much trouble am I?

    This breaks the ice, They usually laugh and then you can ask the whole room questions/continue your show from there and they are all on the same page.

    Of course you will always get the ones who peek in and/or arent intrested in watching what you are doing. I really wish alot of sites would be more clear about this to the customers. I believe it is unfair for them not to know that they are entering a group chat. They believe they are 1 on 1 with you and sites do not go out of their way to make customers aware. If you think it is unfair for me to include them in my show, so be it but this is the way I do it because it is easier for me then setting them to the side in voyeur mode and missing out on money.

    In some rare situations you will get some who place themselves in voyeur mode and just wan tto watch. At the very least a hello to other members is appreciated. Setting them aside to rot in voyeur mode will only make you lose out on money.

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    I do group shows the way I want to. I just do my own thing, because guys are always coming in and out, and I can't please everyone in there so why try? If they make requests, I just tell em that I'm doing my own thing so I don't let anyone down, and if they want to get a custom show, to get me one-on-one in private. So in group, I just do whatever I feel like, play with toys, choose my own angles etc...

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    Quote Originally Posted by cyberstripper View Post
    Usually first come first served is a good thing to do butt this frame of thinking can also hurt you.

    I have noticed that on SM none of the members actually know the difference between premium and exclusive chat. If they do it is a rarity.To priortize one member in a group setting is kind of unfair to the other members, and unfair to you if you are doing a 1 on 1 exclusive show at a premium chat rate. I wish on SM there was a better explanation of this to customers. Id love to do more group theme shows but the members dont seem to get it! To take time out of my day to explain this is also a waste of time for me, I should be hustling shows not explaining the system to members.

    I try to get all members included in the same show. If it doesnt work out at least I tried. If someone enters and you are in a show do your best to include them, and get them responding with the other guests to the same show. My typical line is:
    "OMG I am busted! You *caught me* red handed slipping into a pair of pantyhose/playing with my feet/insert show theme here!!!" I am not in too much trouble am I?

    This breaks the ice, They usually laugh and then you can ask the whole room questions/continue your show from there and they are all on the same page.

    Of course you will always get the ones who peek in and/or arent intrested in watching what you are doing. I really wish alot of sites would be more clear about this to the customers. I believe it is unfair for them not to know that they are entering a group chat. They believe they are 1 on 1 with you and sites do not go out of their way to make customers aware. If you think it is unfair for me to include them in my show, so be it but this is the way I do it because it is easier for me then setting them to the side in voyeur mode and missing out on money.

    In some rare situations you will get some who place themselves in voyeur mode and just wan tto watch. At the very least a hello to other members is appreciated. Setting them aside to rot in voyeur mode will only make you lose out on money.
    if that works for you- great. i hate doing my own thing, i hate an "out of the box/standard" show myself. drives me nuts when guys won't tell me what they want, I am much more of a pleaser that way in real life and in my work.

    the guys know how private vs exclusive work. i always get asked what i do different in excl, esp since so many ladies only do phone/sound/toys in exclusive. AND they know they are coming into a private already in session when they come into my room and see that I'm away in private..if they join me then they obvsly saw the "away" message on SM but wanted to peep in and see me naked. So i dont buy the bit about them thinking they;re getting a 1 on 1 show when they're in group private. I also get guys asking if they're the only guy in my private or if there are others..so they are well aware if i'm not in exclusive they can be barged in on.

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    Default Re: Group shows, how do you manage them?

    Glad u have better luck with the customers then I do. Alot of members have asked me to explain the system to them. Consider yourself lucky if you do not have to deal with this multiple times on a daily basis.

    This is why I treat every viewer the same in premium chat, all watching and responding to the same show as a group. It is impossible to keep up with people who have different requests.

    You cannot please everyone of course, so they will pop in and out as u go along.

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