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    Default Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    I left that club last october, went back to work there two days ago (since i wasn't working very many days at the club i changed to, i went from 110 to 115). So last night, I went onstage and afterward was told to go to the office...the manger said she thought it was just how stiff my corset was and some of the tricks i do, i have to arch by back (so it had like a gap or something) but that i needed to change...to show that i wasn't pregnant.

    the problem is that that was my favorite outfit, i was feeling hot and motivated, and after the whole " are you pregnant?" I was totally thrown off, and not feeling confident for quite a while afterward.

    anybody else have a similar experience?

    *just noticed typo on manager*^
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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    Aw that sucks! I had some similar situations where another girl/custy/dj/manager said something about my hair or look in general and it threw me off the whole night
    Sometimes it's hard not to let people's remarks get to you!

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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    Don't take this the wrong way, but 5lbs can be a lot on someone who is very small or fine boned. How tall are you?

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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    five 2, im going to post a picture.



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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    Quote Originally Posted by mediocrity View Post
    Don't take this the wrong way, but 5lbs can be a lot on someone who is very small or fine boned. How tall are you?
    Fo sho.
    At just under 5'... a 5 pound weight gain can definately make me look pregnant. D:
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    my stomach taken today.



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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    You have a body like a girl I used to work with.

    She was pretty thin and toned... but honestly. When she wore a corset I always thought it made her look pregnant. *_*
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    i am losing my fucking mind and i really just want this chloroform dream because i think that would just get me right with jesus.

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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    You have a body like a girl I used to work with.

    She was pretty thin and toned... but honestly. When she wore a corset I always thought it made her look pregnant. *_*
    Yeah, I agree. It can kind of smoosh things around. Looking at the pictures, her stomach is really flat, but she doesn't have a curved in waist. I could see where compression could create the illusion of a belly. Just my two cents.

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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    your stomach looks great, i wouldn't cover it up with a corset if you don't have to

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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    Yeah I can see how the corset wouldn't flatter you, I think they're better suited on hourglass figures. I'm pretty tall, but I have a waist similar to yours that doesn't really curve in, and I look heavier in things like corsets and dresses then I do in a bikini.

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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    Your tummy is tooooo smoking to hide it with a corset anyways. Switchy that out of your outfit and replace it with a lacy or satiny hot as bra!!

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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    I would kill for your tummy. Don't hide it with a corset!



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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    this thread was really supposed to be more about weird things that have messed up your hustle , and how to bounce back from it..and less about mi tummy. lol



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    Default Re: Dj and manger asked if i was pregnant because I gained 5 lbs.

    ^ In response to that: I'll be on a hot streak, feeling good, getting lots of dances, and some bitch will say. "You know it's in our contract that you look presentable..." really? go fuck yourself. Just cause I'm not caked up and don't straighten my hair, suddenly I'm unpresentable? yah I don't mind working hard and getting a little sweaty, most guys like it.

    It just makes me feel bad as though I'm doing something wrong. However, I just have to tell myself that I look fine with no makeup, being only 18, and some of the older dancers with kids seem to want to make me up to look like them for no reason ...

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