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Last edited by Roxychu; 03-18-2013 at 06:27 PM.



If you plan on letting this happen again, never, ever, EVER start working in a strip club. Sorry if I sound harsh, but the more extras a club provides, the worse the reputations of dancers becomes, you'll put your coworkers at an uncomfortable disadvantage ("Well why can't I put my fingers in for a little extra? SHE let me!") and worse.
The moment I read that, a big red flag went up in my head that said "SHE SHOULD NOT BE DOING THIS"
ESPECIALLY if you have a boyfriend and you've done an extra before, it could be very hard to turn down an offer like that if it comes up again (500 for fingering is certainly a lot of money, but a TRUE dancer feels that no amount of money is good enough for that)
Im sorry but it does not seem like a relationship. I also dont think you''re ready to strip since you seem really confused between your boyfriend, stripping, and other side jobs. If you're doing to do sexual things, dont do them in a stripclub, thats not what its for. And always be careful what it is, with who, who knows
It does not seem you love nor care to lie to him. He cheated on you with an ex lied and is not being open with you, and you took him back? You mentioned its a long dist relationship and it seems like you;re more stressed over what he thinks, what he says, how he will take it, what about you? With all the confusion, worries you're dealing with. I suggest to take some time and think what you're going to do.
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Last edited by Roxychu; 03-18-2013 at 06:39 PM.
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