I can't help but to feel like it's MY fault that I did bad today. While many girls said it was a bad day, I still feel like there were enough customers to work with, as well as enough girls who I did see doing better than me. I also noticed that guys who told me that they were just watching, would later spend money on someone else.
While I understand that everyone has bad days and it's the average that counts, I still can't help but to feel extra bad bc not only did I not make much money, but I feel like I did something wrong compared to the other girls.
What made things even WORSE was that 2 customers who I've given LDs to before have gotten 3 dances @ 1 time in the past, while today (of all days), they each got 1. WORSE yet, the 1 told me how I made him feel like such a king the last time, yet today, he only has $40 to spend on me? I know it shouldn't bother me, but it was just frustrating.
Even worse is that I am unsure what I did wrong! The only thing, possibly, that I did was not act "sexy" enough and try to act more "friendly," and I guess I rushed guys more. I alluded to LDs w/in the 1st song of talking.
If the club had been dead, I wouldn't feel this way. If guys who told me that they weren't getting dances did NOT get any later, I wouldn't feel this way either. If I went into the work day with a bad attitude, didn't try to look my best, or was notably flabbier, I wouldn't feel this way either - but since none of this is the case, I can't help but to feel that my hustle is off.
Oh yeah, I also approached a TON of people, so it's not like I just sat in the corner and didn't try talking :-/.
I guess next time I work I'll have to remember to:
-be more flirty/touchy/feely/giggly
-ask for tips if they don't get dances
-gage each customer INDIVIDUALLY to see when to start trying to sell
:-/



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