No I have not been arrested.. ever! I have talked my way out of two stings while working for an agency before I became an independent. While there is no sureproof way to avoid being arrested there are some steps to follow.. Screening being one of them but YES there are some steps to follow that will help you avoid being arrested as an escort.
What prompted me to write this today is a story about an escort that was JUST arrested. I have stressed many times about how an escort is not a prostitiute. You are being paid for your time NOT sexual acts.
Here is her story...
After reading it think about it before you respond to this post. This is a very serious matter that shouldn't be played with.
Here is what this lady did wrong (In her own words). Mind you she's in her 40s and I'm 21. This goes to show. Age is nothing but a number and some people are just dumb sorry I do not support dumb escorts:
My opinion: She's not very bright. Why will she discuss prices? Dosen't she have a website. I don't even discuss prices via email before I meet the guy. This is why we have websites. I also don't have to ask for my money .. this is why we have etiquette pages on our websites.Now, even if he’d told me he was a cop, that might not have set off any of my alarms. I’d already fucked a former FBI agent, several off duty cops, and a CIA agent. We discussed prices, and I emphasized that my prices are for my time. When he seemed ready to go to the next level, I told him that what he paid for was my conversation, and if he wanted me to have sex with him, then the part of the appointment he paid for was over and any further activities would only be between consenting adults. So we started talking about what we liked to do in bed. I thought he was a little reticent, but I’d had nervous guys before, and I thought that was the case here as well. I tried to break the ice by telling him I like receiving oral. He asked if I would also give oral sex. I said yes, that sounds like fun. I began to slip my clothes off. He asked me again. “So, you’d let me eat you out and then you’d give me a blow job?” Sure, sounds like fun! And then I heard a beep, followed by a pounding at the door. I peeked out the peephole and saw several people in POLICE t-shirts, with one holding up a badge.
2.) SO WHAT if she's fucked other cops, If a guy told me he was a cop I'D RUN! WTF!
3.) YOU DO NOT GIVE A GUY A FULL DISCLAIMER DURING A DATE, He already knows that. You're an escort! She was staying in a 4 star hotel so I'm guessing she didn't somehow waltz in there and get a room. She was touring and a touring escort should know YOU DO NOT SAY SHIT DURING A DATE. I have never had an appointment when a guy says "I'd like you to do this, will you do this" I'd look at him like what? huh? YES i am that paranoid.
4. Her story sounds shady as hell. The whole thing about her working for an agency SOUNDS SO STUPID!
Conclusion? SHE SHOULD HAVE KEPT HER MOUTH SHUT!
This is the kind of stories that makes me mad. This is why women are busted. They jump into something without knowing the full details. This is why some women get busted and some don't. Please do your research. I am very quiet about business during my date. I never talk about sex, MONEY and I NEVER give a guy a full disclaimer like "You know you're just paying for my time and companionship right?" no! This is why escort's have websites! This is what saved my ass when I walked into a sting. I played dumb. I acted like I didn't know what the hell was going on, told him to call the agency owner and RAN to my car!
KNOW YOUR RIGHTS BEFORE YOU GET INTO THIS BUSINESS!
This website has saved my ass twice:
This was the advice that literally flashed before my eyes when I walked into those stings:
Avoiding a Hotel or Motel. Vice Sting
* If it’s a new client. Get there at least a half hour early. Check the parking lot carefully when you arrive. Most of the time cops have someone in a car watching and warning the guys in the room that someone is on the way in.
* When you walk into the room look for door attaching to the next room next door. If you see one, be safe and say you don’t feel well and have to go, then leave, because 9 times out of 10 it is a set-up.
* Look for rooms that are too neat, where there is no luggage, no clothes in the closet, the bathroom is perfect, towels and soap hasn’t been used.
* Cops may try and stage the room to make it look like a mess. Leaving a beer can or cigarettes around in an ashtray. Ask the client when they checked in. See if the room is reasonably messy considering the time they’ve supposedly been there.
* When they talk about sex or keep trying to get you to talk about money and sex. And if the client’s voice is unusually louder, maybe for a bug or recording device.
Avoiding Law Enforcement Stings and Legal Problems
* Is caller a known and respected hobbyist?
* Have caller provide you references from a known and trusted provider.
* Do not talk about sex on the phone, in email, or answer questions regarding sex or until you know for sure he is completely safe with him to do so.
* Use National Blacklist to check on the phone # and email they contacted you with.



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