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    Does this happen to anyone else? Tonight Im dancing for this custie and he keeps looking behind me at the dancer on stage and around the club. This PISSED ME OFF one because I just found it really rude and I made a huge effort to increase eye contact during dances trying to make it more intimate and this douchebag is looking around like I'm not grinding on his lap. Finally he did it enough times I told him to go buy a dance from her then and walked away. I think it looks really bad to other customers watching me dance because It makes me look like a boring dancer (which I know is NOT true) and that lowers my stock. Anyone have any experiences with these types of customers? How do you keep them focused?

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    This has happened to me before. BUT I dont think its you. Sometimes guys are kinda uncomfortable with that eye contact, or to be seen watching you. And in MY personal exp. . when I went to the club on my night off, my guy friend bought me a dance from my friend who was working that night. Shes beautiful as hell...face, body....but I couldnt look at her. It was weird..

    Maybe if he knew you, or was more private setting, he would have felt better. . .

    It bothered me too, but hell...$20 is $20....I dont care if they go to sleep in the middle of the dance as long as i make my money

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    Yup, ^20 is 20, who cares if he wasnt paying attention, you were bound to get something.

    I never danced in a vip where they were able or could see the stage. But if he was looking or paying attention to another dancer in the vip, or the tv, I wouldnt care. Just dance, make it the best and maybe he will get more. He was probably nervous or didnt know what to look at. I had a guy one time just came in didnt drink yet and was young he staring striaght into the wall infornt of him the whole time and was tense!

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    Money is money. Its not a date

    I danced for 3 songs for a soldier. I finally had to tell him, "its okay to look! you're not at work!" He finally relaxed a bit and bought 2 more songs.

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    I hate that too, I find it really rude and it makes me feel like I'm doing something wrong. But for some reason, whenever I get a guy like that, he always wants multiple dances so I guess it's not a bad thing. I'll always get to the end of the song and ask if they want another, 100% expecting a "no" as they're clearly bored, only to get an enthusiastic "yes". Weird guys....


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    I have been through it a few times myself. Sometimes I let my bitchyness get the best of me and other times I just remembered, oh well...sometimes I was too intense for them or sometimes they just liked my company and got the dance to pay me for my time even though they didn't particularly want a dance from me or at that time. Take the money as it comes and keep your head up, and cool.





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    Default Re: Custies who look away during lap dances

    Quote Originally Posted by Kisca
    He was probably nervous or didnt know what to look at.
    This. Was he young/nervous/shy/first time? It used to kinda offend me but then I realised most of the guys that look elsewhere do it because they get embarrassed so I just laugh (politely) and tell them "it's ok, you're allowed to look! Just relax."

    I do remember a guy once who had me and another girl doing a lesbian show for him and just kept looking at the reflection of the TV on the booth wall to watch a boxing match. This annoyed me so when ever he looked away I'd just start saying shit like "I'm fisting her! My elbow just went in!!" and when he looked at us "awww, you just missed it 'cause you weren't paying attention."

    So either he was shy, just try and make these guys comfortable. Or an arsehole in which case who cares what he thinks, you have his money now

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    Default Re: Custies who look away during lap dances

    Maybe it turns him on to have a girl on his lap while having other ladies to look at. Maybe that's the only way he can enjoy a dance? It does seem rude - and he comes across as distracted/disinterested, but if that's his thing and he's paying his $, then I see no reason to be offended or take it personally.

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    It's definitely nothing to take personally. Everyone has their own thing that turns them on and it's not like you're on a date or anything. Do the dance and take the money.

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    Sweety, you screwed up. He was a gentleman. A perfect go for the VIP. Either that or he had so much to spend he wasn't going to let himself get worked up over one dance. Either way, when it's twenty a song I don't give a fuck wear they look, as long as their still buying dances. Your a hot stripper, not a jealous wifey.

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    Default Re: Custies who look away during lap dances

    He was probably a cop.

    Other than that who cares if he's watching or not. As long as he is spending money he can look wherever he wants to.




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