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    Default How do you make regulars?

    I've been dancing for almost 2 years and I've never really had a real regular. Theres some guys that have seen me a few times and then I never hear from them again. But even so they aren't the super wealthy regulars that I've seen other girls have. The most I have made off one person in a night was $500. Isn't that low compared to what other girls have made? And my highest night was $1000 but I made it from working my butt off and dancing for many different people. Some girls have talked about making over 2k a night from one regular. How do they do it? I just don't know where to start on making a regular. Is it luck? Or do some dancers see their regs outside of work?

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    Default Re: How do you make regulars?

    This is only from my short experience time, but most of my regulars like my personality more than looks. Try being fun and personable and not like a cliche money hungry stripper haha!

    Plus I'm sure a lot is luck. If I hadn't been doing the right thing at the right time my current best regular never would have seen me. *shrug*

    good luck

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    Default Re: How do you make regulars?

    If you've only been dancing for two years don't get stressed about it. Regulars require a lot of things:

    1. They must like your personality, & generally you'll have something in common with them.

    2. They must like your dances - otherwise the conversations will need to be superb.

    3. They usually happen over time with girls who either give out their contact info (check your local laws) or girls who work on a very regular schedule so the regular knows when to come in.

    4. You'll need to have good etiquette. Small things like walking him back to his table after the dance, & always saying "thank you" go a long way with most customers.
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    Default Re: How do you make regulars?

    Don't be too hard on yourself. I've been dancing about four years now, and i haven't had a real regular that only came to see me in like 2 years. Regs are great, but everyone I ever had became too attached, wanted OTC after awhile or something like that. I have a much easier time getting and keeping them on cam then in the club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lexxx View Post
    I've been dancing for almost 2 years and I've never really had a real regular. Theres some guys that have seen me a few times and then I never hear from them again. But even so they aren't the super wealthy regulars that I've seen other girls have. The most I have made off one person in a night was $500. Isn't that low compared to what other girls have made? And my highest night was $1000 but I made it from working my butt off and dancing for many different people. Some girls have talked about making over 2k a night from one regular. How do they do it? I just don't know where to start on making a regular. Is it luck? Or do some dancers see their regs outside of work?
    I just recently got my first of what I would consider a "regular", in that he's seen me more than twice, contacts me to see which days I'll be in and comes specifically to see me and then leaves. It's kind of neat. I've been dancing about a year and 3 months.

    He doesn't give me thousands of bucks but still a good chunk of cash to make my day worth it, even if I don't make anything else all day.

    I work 4 days a week (either mon-thurs, or tues-fri), so fairly consistent and often.

    I have a policy of never meeting customers outside of work. I do have a work-phone though, and we text-message.

    I used to only work a couple of days a week, call out a lot, switch days around, not have any contact w/ guys outside the club except for the occasional email maybe, and didn't really work in clubs that attracted a lot of good potential regs.

    Most things are a combination of hard work and luck! If you don't work hard you have less chance of catching a guy's eye, meeting as many potential regs as possible, showing off your personality, etc. Less chance of getting lucky

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    Default Re: How do you make regulars?

    Good advice, I'm starting at a new club today, so I'll have to start this process all over.

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    Default Re: How do you make regulars?

    I've had a lot of regulars over the years, and I'm not really sure how I got them.. but keeping them takes a lot more work than just hustling random guys for dances.. but it's more of a "sure" thing as far as making money goes, and to me... that's better bcuz i hate hustling unless I have to..

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    Quote Originally Posted by SerenaSin View Post
    I just recently got my first of what I would consider a "regular", in that he's seen me more than twice, contacts me to see which days I'll be in and comes specifically to see me and then leaves. It's kind of neat. I've been dancing about a year and 3 months.

    He doesn't give me thousands of bucks but still a good chunk of cash to make my day worth it, even if I don't make anything else all day.

    I work 4 days a week (either mon-thurs, or tues-fri), so fairly consistent and often.

    I have a policy of never meeting customers outside of work. I do have a work-phone though, and we text-message.

    I used to only work a couple of days a week, call out a lot, switch days around, not have any contact w/ guys outside the club except for the occasional email maybe, and didn't really work in clubs that attracted a lot of good potential regs.

    Most things are a combination of hard work and luck! If you don't work hard you have less chance of catching a guy's eye, meeting as many potential regs as possible, showing off your personality, etc. Less chance of getting lucky
    I have the same thing-almost-I had a regular, but he seemed to disappear, he would come in once a week or so, sometimes more, sometimes less. Last time I talked to him he said his business was in trouble..so who knows. My rule is never meet OTC and I have a work phone also-but my problem seems to be that guys end up JUST wanting to meet OTC and "take me for dinner" ..I try to explain that work is work, and I have to pay bills..but, they don't seem to get it. How do you knock sense in their heads that the only way to see you is to come to the club?

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    To me regulars will be come regulars if they spent some good money on me.

    First, I went to bestbuy and bought a cheap pay as you go phone. Its my dancing phone number.

    What happens if I feel that I am really having a connection with someone...and this is dancing and talking with them. Say the bought about 10 dances back to back or more. Then they ask me to sit and stay awhile and that they'll tip you for sitting there OR you feel it in your gut that you know this guy has more money to spend on you..and you're gonna get it. THEN make that decision to stay. Yes, it can feel like a gamble. But for me...this is how I've made some of my regulars. During that talking time..we talk about anything...movies, travel, where we're from.
    Then after about 15 min..I jump back on their lap ..and start being flirty. When the next song comes on...I start taking of my top and dancing from them again..SLOWLY...like I just can't help myself...and I didn't even know a new song started. BUT count those dances in your head!!

    After they are all tapped out...I sit down again for about 2 SONGS MAX!!! and then say I got to get upstairs and pay the house mom and get going...but I say...he you should text me when you're coming by!

    Give them that number and then I always send sweet little txt messages , "hey it was great to see you, I loved spending sexy time with you today."

    Then when I'm working..I let them know I'm going to the club and I would love to see them. They usually will let you know..oh I'm busy with meetings today..or they'll ask..HOW long you gonna be there? OR ..ok I'll be there at lunch time. Just WORK IT with them!!!!

    I have made my regulars this way. And these are guys that consistently pay out 200, 600 or 600+ if they are my champagne room customers.

    You can give make up a yahoo or gmail account too with your dancer name or whatever. If they ask your real name sometime..I have that set up too..I give them my FAKE real name.

    If they start getting all clingly...I work them as long as I can. Once they see i'm not going to see them outside of the club. They probably won't come in much. But hey..I had a good run with them.

    I don't string them a long telling them i'll go out on date with them. But I am very good at EVADING questions like that and just acting like I don't hear them..and changing the subject by looking deep into their eyes or something Or by jumping up and saying..OMG I LOVE this song!!!! Works a lot! change that subject!!

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    Default Re: How do you make regulars?

    Dancing Queen your post is perfect! Ive been dancing for five years and never had a proper regular, only guys I knew would spend on me if I saw them in the club. This time round, Im gonna get a second phone, I already have a gmail account for my dancer name.
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    making a regular is like a dating game, sure you do the dances on all night to pack 20 on top of 20 but you also have to build realtionships along the way with guys to make them your regulars..

    No outside of the club needed..

    build little friendships with customers flirt and chat and give them the impression they have a chance with you, lead them on..

    it's all about giving them a impression of the fantasy maybe they could date you.. they will get gooked and start chasing you then they start spending lots of money hunny but you have to implant a seed into there minds you like them and find them attractive...The money game is a art and as you learn to play with it you will learn whats working.

    Remember in order to start building a realtionship with anyone no matter what kind you must talk with them and make them feel your someone they want to talk with again and feel good spending time wth with. Get guys to open up and talk about there lives the more they can let stress go and you listen then more a person likes you more then just your good looks..

    Befriend them.and use your power of being a woman on them at the same time..

    hope that helps things like that is way i allways make good money n any club i work at it's a art..
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    ^I totally get that, and when I do it- I just get asked out outside the club, which I will NOT do. How do you really "lead them on" because all he does is keep asking to take me outside for dinner/whatever, if I keep saying no..then, it sort of ruins the fantasy for him? Ah, so complicated.

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    Sunshine - you sound as nice as the name!

    When a man says i want to see you outside the club for dinner or any reason that means i want to have sex with you! He gave you the sex card that means you hold power of him.. all you have to do is take it..

    Ok well i like you too but since we met here i feel werid about going out with you right away. I would need some time to get to know you and feel safe with you..

    most guys will respect this.

    Thats how you lead him to start coming into see you talking and getting dacnes.. you can control him for a while, know not forever but atleast for a few months to bank extra money of him! He will want to prove to you hes a good guy and most guys who come to strip clubs give into dances as long as you play the game they need to spend!

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    ^LOL i hear that a lot..that "im too nice to be in a place like this" eh=/ i definitely say the "i have to get to know you first" but they dont take it, just want to go outside the club "just for dinner" blah blah..ive even tried the "well i'm always busy/working/class/ blah blah and id lose $ going out, so if you can supplement that..." which of course gets the "im not paying you to go out with me!" =/

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    Watching this thread!

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    Dancing Queen very smart post..i was thinking about all this things too, have a fake real name as well

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    Default Re: How do you make regulars?

    i only started getting regulars once i started working a regular schedule. I now have several (though only one who is a $100+ spender. :/ )

    also, sunshine, when i get the "you're too pretty for this job", i tell them i'm way too pretty to be flipping burgers. when they want to take me out, i use this (all done kind of cute and really silly)

    him: lemme take you to dinner
    me: i hardly know you, how do i know you're not a serial killer?
    him: i'm not a serial killer
    me: all the serial killers say that *wink* there's a kitchen in here, we could have dinner RIGHT HERE, and i could be naked, which we can't do in a real restaurant! plus then you're less likely to murder me
    him: *laughing* i'm not going to murder you
    me: well, we have to meet up a few more times in a safe place, like in here, before i could even THINK about going on a date with someone who might be a serial killer.

    i then drag the convo away from dating, and more towards food and/or nakedness.
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    ^Awesome!! Totally going to try that out

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    Default Re: How do you make regulars?

    Yes, I'm always pursued to go "out for dinner"...I always respond that I don't know them well enough and for them to come back. The reality is that dinner never comes. If dinner was to happen now you have turned a regular into someone who thinks your time is free! Why would you ever do this? I know some girls ask for money to go...but its just not worth it to me. I can make more than enough in the club. I have a lot of regulars and I've never seen them outside the club...EVER! Making a regular requires that they like your dances AND they like your personality...being fun to talk to is part of the whole "fantasy" (you know that you find them sooo interesting)....Face it, obviously they find you attractive to get a dance in the first place...but if you aren't interesting enough to carry a conversation...they won't come back...there are lots of pretty girls!

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