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    Default Roommate troubles-Rant.

    My man's brother lives with us. He's pretty much always been a piece of crap. He's messy,Unmotivated,and doesn't give two shits about him self or anyone else. I'm just fed up with his BS. I spend hours cleaning up after him everyday. I'll clean the kitchen and I'll go take a nap or go out or something,and I'll come back and it's destroyed,Like I had never cleaned it in the first place. We spend about $100 week on food,and he'll eat about $80 worth of OUR FOOD. He's NEVER bought food,NEVER cleaned anything, NEVER offered to take out the trash..NOTHING.I don't know what to do. I think I could literally punch him in the face,so I try to avoid the situation. Speaking of him getting punched in the face. My man let him borrow $60 last week cause his brother was short on cash and needed ciggs and what not-rent was due Monday, His brother gave him the money he usually gives him for rent,but not the $60 he still owes him. Not to mention he never paid us back for the deposits. They got into a huge fight about the $60 and his brother got punched in the face Is it bad that it kinda made me happy? Lols. he has his friends over till 3 or 4 in the morning and it keeps me awake cause they're loud,rude and disrespectful..Not to mention he's taken a shower here TWICE and we've been here since april,so he fucking smells like shit.
    We get redbox movies all the time. We rented one that he wanted to go watch with his "gf" so we let him borrow it and he said he would return it the next day. a few weeks ago my man went to check his bank account,and he had over draft fee of $79. I went in his brothers room last night,and the movie was laying on his fucking floor. We rented that movie LITERALLY two months ago. So they charged us $25 for the movie because it was never returned plus the over draft fee from it not being returned. What the fuck are we supposed to do? Our apartment is really expensive, should we just move out,me and him and find a new place? What happens if you break a lease?

    Sorry about my rant-no need to read it if you don't want to.. Just feels better to get it out. I just might snap..
    I is a mommy.
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    Default Re: Roommate troubles-Rant.

    If you want to keep your place, you could find a new, more respectful roommie.

    Yes, kick him out.

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    Default Re: Roommate troubles-Rant.

    He's worthless. Get him to move out ( " hey it's not working ... we are getting another room mate ... sorry ") .

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    does ur man want him out? either way u def need to talk to ur other half about how much this is irritating u. then u need to lay down major, major ground rules with his brother. tell his brother if ur simple rules r not met...ie showering, paying back borrowed money, reasonable amounts of ppl over at reasonable times, cleaning up after himself n cleaning up messes...he needs b out by a set date.

    that is really rediculous if he is a grown man n cannot take care of himself.

    actually i re read it. give him a set date to move out by if u and ur man decide that is the route u want to take and find a new roommate.

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    Default Re: Roommate troubles-Rant.

    You need to get him out he sounds like a nightmare.
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    We're gona have a chat with him tonight I guess when he gets home from work. I've literally had enough. I told my boyfriend that it's either me or him that goes...and I've got my foot half way out the door.
    I don't feel like I really have a voice in this situation. I don't work,so I don't contribute to the bills. I never feel like I have the right to say anything..But my son shouldn't have to live in this kind of environment.
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    Default Re: Roommate troubles-Rant.

    Quote Originally Posted by Spankie55 View Post
    We're gona have a chat with him tonight I guess when he gets home from work. I've literally had enough. I told my boyfriend that it's either me or him that goes...and I've got my foot half way out the door.
    I don't feel like I really have a voice in this situation. I don't work,so I don't contribute to the bills. I never feel like I have the right to say anything..But my son shouldn't have to live in this kind of environment.
    taking cafe of a kid really is a full time job so u do work! actually, it sounds like ur raising two kids with the brother in the house.

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    Hope everything works out for you. Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Spankie55 View Post
    We're gona have a chat with him tonight I guess when he gets home from work. I've literally had enough. I told my boyfriend that it's either me or him that goes...and I've got my foot half way out the door.
    I don't feel like I really have a voice in this situation. I don't work,so I don't contribute to the bills. I never feel like I have the right to say anything..But my son shouldn't have to live in this kind of environment.
    You didn't say anything out about a kid being involved earlier! Kick that guy's ass out!

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    Of course my man didn't say shit to him last night when he got home-He very rarely confronts him about anything. I got MY bags packed and ready to go.
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    Default Re: Roommate troubles-Rant.

    once he knows u mean business i am sure he will realize how stupid it is to let his brother leech off u.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Devinxoxo View Post
    once he knows u mean business i am sure he will realize how stupid it is to let his brother leech off u.
    I sure hope so
    Thank you ladies-you are always helpful.
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    wow what an asshole. And whats wrong with your boyfriend? He let you leave, just like that, after his bother caused all that shit?! I understand their bothers, but damn, who the hell cleans up after them and probably way more that you didnt mention. Without you they''ll be like two pigs living in a barn. I hope you boyfriend realizes what the fuck he did. Just cause its family, doesnt mean shit. At least have respect for others, and the place!!! You need to confront both of them! And you boyfriend needs to get his balls back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kisca View Post
    I understand their bothers, but damn
    But, that is his own son in that environment. So, it sounds like he is picking his brother over his son.

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    Default Re: Roommate troubles-Rant.

    My man has no balls. Everyone has always been afraid to say anything to his brother. Their dad was abusive and what not and really took it out on his brother. So their mom never really punished him because she felt bad for him..well since she never punished him look where he is today. A piece of shit. Matt's the same way-won't really say shit to him.
    I said something to him yesterday though I think he was shocked. I told him he needed to pay my boyfriend back or he has to get out. He just said "Um..okay..."
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