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    I'm thinking about trying this but I'm not sure how to even start. There aren't any agencies here for either that I've found so I was just wonder what steps I should take to get started? Especially what I should do about safety measures seeing that it would have to be hosted by them because I live in a dorm

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    Default Re: Private Dancing and Massages

    First, you should make sure that whatever agency you pick isn't a cover for an escort agency. Obviously I see nothing wrong with escorting, but it does irk me when agencies lure girls on the premise of just dancing or just massages only to stick them in an appointment where "full-service" is expected.

    Secondly, for the most part it's largely illegal (in most states) to advertise as "massage" if you're not a certified massage therapist..."body rubs" is the legally acceptable term for non-certified.

    Just email some agencies and find out about how they do their business, security measures, etc. It never hurts to ask.

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    ^ Yup, Sensual Body rubs or Sensual Rubdowns.. It kills me when girls in the profession that are uncertified use "FBSM", Fbsm is Full body sensual massage and you will so get busted..

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    ^ Yup, Sensual Body rubs or Sensual Rubdowns.. It kills me when girls in the profession that are uncertified use "FBSM", Fbsm is Full body sensual massage and you will so get busted..
    Christ I'm stupid, I always assumed FBSM was a different take on BDSM or something. LOL.

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    ^ LMFAO.. Nope.

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    Whew okay so that definately helped, I changed the words in my ad lol. Okay, but there are no agencies here at all that I could find. Not for dancers or anything in my area. I think I'd have to do it independently

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    Default Re: Private Dancing and Massages

    Pm me if you need help on this.

    1.) Find out if you need to be licensed for private striptease or escorting in your area before providing the service. Usually the city sheriff can tell you if you're not sure where to look. Some cities do not require licensing, some consider private dancing the same as escorting... so be sure to check.

    2.) You'll have to decide what risks you are willing to take. You can:
    A.) Screen your customers
    B.) Bring security with you & have them stay within distance to hear you
    C.) Leave where you'll be & with whom with a friend or on your voicemail & know the address!
    D.) Set voice command for the spoken work "Help" to dial 911 in case of emergency
    E.) Any combination of the above

    If you choose to bring security with you find out if they need to be licensed, if you aren't sure call the city sheriff. Be sure to ask if they need to be working through a security agency. Often the cities require all licensed guards to work through a company which is bonded & insured. Plus, many cities require licensed guards to wear their license so that if a problem occurs the police know not to shoot the guard.

    DON'T fully rely on your cell phone. Calls to 911 made from a cellular phone can usually only tell 911 where the caller is within 50-100 meters... which is a lot of space to cover. Also, the locationing technology used can't differentiate elevation... so if you are on say the 20th floor of a building 911 wouldn't know unless you told them. 911 centers across the country are working to integrate NG-911 which will allow them to accept text messaging, & once that happens theoretically you could program your exact location before entering a private session, then send the text if a problem occurred. So far though most cities don't have this because the phone providers aren't making the move to implement their end of the technology until the FCC looks into it more.

    3.) Honestly, I would suggest steering clear of body rubs. If the guy has any of his clothes off or you have any of your clothes off and you are rubbing on him it will only give the police more reason to harrass you - even if you aren't doing anything illegal. It just crosses the line of comfort too much for most city governments. Now, if you have a license to do massage & can keep the dancing fully separate go for it.
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    @Kylea2 thanks so much, that was a lot of advice. I'm working on the security measure now

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