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    So, long story short, my ex found out through the grapevine that I am now being courted by yummylicious vastly superior Mr. Marine, and the resulting incidents have proven to be largely unexpected and immensely entertaining.

    Okay, long story short, and it may already be obvious but I'm definitely a Bob-Marley listening, incense-lighting, purveyor of raw cookie dough herb connosieur. I needed to stock up today, and my usual supplier was bone dry. I was rather desperate, so I did the only thing I could do was get ahold of another supplier via my ex.

    This crazy bastard drove almost three hours total today between picking me up, meeting up with dude man, and taking me back to my house. He didn't ask for money for gas, and HE DIDN'T ASK FOR HERB MONEY EITHER.

    Easily $80. Then, he tried to kiss me and was calling me babe and all this shit, and then he sends me a message on yahoo later telling me he wants to have sex with me (this is the guy who wouldn't fuck me for almost four months)

    You have GOT to be kidding me. I have several options here:

    A) Tell him to go fuck himself. (Possible consequences: lose reefer hook-up)

    B) Fuck him once to say I broke his resolve, rub it in his face, and then send him on his merry way. (Definite consequence: lose reefer hook-up)

    C) String him along thinking I'm going to fuck him for as long as possible while weaseling as much money/material possessions as humanly possible.

    Any thoughts?

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    threadjack: umm.. just incase you didn't catch my post in other work. I will be in your area tommorrow! So you better come and see me. end threadjack

    WHY ARE YOU EVEN THINKING/HANGING OUT/BREATHING THE SAME AIR WITH OL BOY? HE CANNOT DO ANYTHING FOR YOU? *sigh* Stick with the Marine please!

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    A.
    Just drop him.
    Seems like you have a good thing going with the new guy. Plus if you ex is around your kids, that might be confusing for them. Sorry if I am overstepping my bounds in saying that.

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    Grow your own.
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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    WHY ARE YOU EVEN THINKING/HANGING OUT/BREATHING THE SAME AIR WITH OL BOY? HE CANNOT DO ANYTHING FOR YOU? *sigh* Stick with the Marine please!
    Ding ding ding!

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    Ew no. Exes are your exes for a reason.
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    Those 3 options are... just stupid. Be more mature with the lifestyle you have. He's an ex, dont drag him, dont bother him, dont even communicate with him.

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    ^^ Agreed.
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    Whoops. In his mind, you gave him a chance to win you back by calling him and asking him for a favor.

    He jumped at the chance to give you that favor: driving you around for 3 hours, hooking you up with weed, and not asking you for money. Now he's expecting you to have sex with him for that. Pretty simple really.

    Its too late for me to give you the big long psychological/economics analogy, maybe later.

    The short of it is that by moving on to "yummylicious vastly superior Mr marine" is making him jealous, and spurring him to action. If you want to be nice, explain to your ex in very clear language why you moved on. If you want to see something really funny don't explain anything to your ex, but explain everything to mr marine, and bring him with you next time your ex drives you around for three hours in his car.

    Just be sure that mr marine has your sense of humor.
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    I am with the other posters on this one. You say guys are weird!? I say contemplating dragging some poor Joe through emotional hell so you can score some weed is pretty f*ing weird. Karma can be a real bitch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by etru View Post
    I am with the other posters on this one. You say guys are weird!? I say contemplating dragging some poor Joe through emotional hell so you can score some weed is pretty f*ing weird. Karma can be a real bitch.
    And who the fuck are you exactly?

    And have you read my other posts, or do you have ANY fucking clue what's going on or what went on in the past?
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    Er...hmmm. I want to tread gently here, but I do think Etru has a point. Stringing someone along just to get some free stuff and be sadistic is pretty immature. Take the high road, find another connection, and leave the ex alone.
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    Default Re: Guys are SO weird! Ugh.

    Etru said pretty much the same thing every single other poster has said, albeit a tad more harshly.

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    Fuck the guy because he filled your stash. Besides you might get off very nicely. He might prove to be invaluable as a FWB.

    OR

    String him along so he'll know you're a standard woman. He needs that dose of reality.
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    Quote Originally Posted by etru View Post
    I am with the other posters on this one. You say guys are weird!? I say contemplating dragging some poor Joe through emotional hell so you can score some weed is pretty f*ing weird. Karma can be a real bitch.

    Well. It's payback for not fucking her for 4 MONTHS while they were together.

    Anyway dont ask your loser ex for anymore favors. Its easy to find another supplier or grow yourself.

    Date the marine now... They usually are great.

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    Default Re: Guys are SO weird! Ugh.

    I think some women are weird as well. Like when you see some of the boyfriends/husbands they pick, for instance, you wonder what the hell they are thinking?

    But then I have seen plenty of men pick women who manipulate them, and keep going back to them for more--just as women pick abusive or parasitic assholes, and keep going back, over and over again.

    I think we can safely say that people are weird. Weirdness transcends sexual differences.


    Anyway yeah you ought to just cut yourself off from this guy, it won't do you any good in the long run to string him along--and fucking him as part of some game to get even would be the worst thing you could do to yourself. Never mind what it would do to him. Who cares?

    Stick with the Marine. Forget the first guy. Enjoy your life.
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    dont ask your ex for favors unless you are still interested in him. it sends the wrong signal and will only make your new relationship and moving on, more of a mess.

    get him out of your life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HEAD TURNER 2 View Post
    Well. It's payback for not fucking her for 4 MONTHS while they were together.

    Anyway dont ask your loser ex for anymore favors. Its easy to find another supplier or grow yourself.

    Date the marine now... They usually are great.
    Though I like HER marine for her...

    Marines are usually psychos. I've had my share and I don't want anymore. I don't know what your definition of great it..

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    I've known some very cool marines, including my uncle (now ex-marine though) who is one hell of a good man, great with his family, etc. And I've met a few weird marines I wouldn't want anywhere near my sister, if I had one.
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    i agree with djoser, people are weird.

    also, yeah she's being shitty, but HE DIDN'T FUCK HER FOR FOUR MONTHS!!!!! she's allowed to jerk him around if she wants. he clearly is fucked up in the head, so he'll probably love being jerked around.

    don't jerk him around though. moving on and being happy is the best reward, plus you got a free ride out of him. and he'll probably still be willing to give you another ride in the future. if you have to ask, just say you were busy or didn't get his text or something...you know, the sort of shit guys say.

    also, find another supplier. or a couple. everyone and his grandma sells weed these days. it isn't that hard.
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    Yeah not fucking a girl you're trying to have a relationship with for four months is pretty damned weird in my book. Especially when they look like that signature pic. All the more reason to just stay the hell away from the guy, I would think. But I'm not in the OP's shoes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Though I like HER marine for her...

    Marines are usually psychos. I've had my share and I don't want anymore. I don't know what your definition of great it..
    I've been there too and I know very few that aren't psychos. So be careful. But I agree...just cut him off. There are other dealers elsewhere you can find I'm sure.





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    I'm alone, but I think she should use the ex for all she can get. I wish I had the chance to screw over my exes who screwed me over.

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    nevermind.
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    I dunno.

    1.) The ex has nothing.. absolutely NOTHING going for him
    no place, not financially stable.. nothing PLUS he dosen't want to have sex with you.
    reads you bible scriptures I guess because he thinks he's jesus. His dick is pretty much useless.

    2.) The Marine
    financial stable, handsome and actually puts out lol

    What am I missing here? I guess because I don't smoke reefer or anything for that matter. I would avoid the ex at all costs. Life is too short too deal with someone so useless.

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