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    Default how long do you sit with a customer before taking them for a show?

    hey

    how long do you spend sitting chatting with the one customer before suggesting a LD or CR or PS?

    both on quiet and busy nights.

    i generally spend too long with people who dont buy shows and regret having wasted 25 mins of my time.

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    Default Re: how long do you sit with a customer before taking them for a show?

    30 seconds

    5 minutes max if I know they are going to spend money but need to be hustled some more.

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    Default Re: how long do you sit with a customer before taking them for a show?

    Depends. when its slow I take as long as 20 mins since there is no other action. When it is busier I sometimes go around with a quick intro and then ask if they want to go upstairs with me. If its busy and I feel like I need to do a conversation, then I usually do 3-4 songs before suggesting vip.

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    Default Re: how long do you sit with a customer before taking them for a show?

    It depends on their personality. If they have a red personality & you hit the right buttons they a quick sells.. they can buy in seconds. Blues are like that most of the time as well. On the other hand if you get greens or yellows they can take a bit longer to develop a "relationship" with. I try not to sit for any longer than 9-15 minutes with the more timid customers. If I need to I tell them that I'll come back & check on them later so they get the idea that my time is not free while I'm working.
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    ^^^
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    Default Re: how long do you sit with a customer before taking them for a show?

    what are blues, greens & yellows? I'm confused.

    on topic, I don't spend more than four songs; slow or not.

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    Default Re: how long do you sit with a customer before taking them for a show?

    Depends on the club action. If the place had 3 dudes in it. I always hit them all up. I will spend about 2 to 3 songs max with them..all the while sitting on their lap and be SUPER flirty and affectionate in huggy way. If they say not now but come back...then I say ok. Then hit up the next guy. If you don't move on and get up from his lap...those other custy's laps will be occupied by another girl. Your time is valuable. They guys will understand. I'll even say...if they ask me to sit another song..I'll say well I need to get my sweet lil bootie moving..gotta get dancing. Usually they'll buy a dance and or say...ok..go make some money. Those guys that say ..go make some money..are usually the sitting and drinking guys that don't always buy dances.

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    Default Re: how long do you sit with a customer before taking them for a show?

    Quote Originally Posted by Dancing Queen View Post
    Those guys that say ..go make some money..are usually the sitting and drinking guys that don't always buy dances.
    You're right, they usually are the type that are just there to drink and relax, not buy dances. Some of those exceptions though have been my best customers oddly enough.


    Every guy is different and you have to feel him out. Also, think in terms of long term and short term money. When it is super slow and I just can't get a dance I spend my time with men who won't spend that night, but if paid attention to over time will come back and spend big money later. Even if I'm wrong it's better than sitting in the dressing room making nothing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jezzebelle View Post
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    Yes it is

    Our copyrighted system will teach you how to sell most effectively to each of the four personality types...so you can gauge how much time to spend with each customer. Some colors make decisions quickly, others more slowly.
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