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    Hey girls! So I'm giving this new club a chance, basically because I don't have a choice, but the customers intimidate me. It's a black club with a young crowd and I'm the only white girl. I'm scared of approaching them, which never happened t me before. The hustle is completely different from what I'm used to. Basically the girls just dance in front of the customers and then get table dances or whatever. I'm used to the"regular" hustle and somehow I feel inferior to the other girls and it really puts me down. I feel like they don't like me even though I always did well with that kinda crowd in other clubs. I basically need more confidence but I really don't Wanna have to drink for that..

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    Bitch up! You are the shit! I don't even know you but I am sure that you are THE SHIT, you need to know it and you need to make sure that everyone up in that club knows it. A new club is not the place for neurosis if you want to make your money. Say it with me now "I am the shit and I am going to make those men rain dolla dolla bills on me!" why? Because you're worth it!

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    I've known the black dancers in my area to feel the same way since we are in the South, but just as cowboys like a little darkness, there will always be black guys who want a white woman. Just know you are a commodity being in the minority

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    ^ Yes ! At the club I was at ( being the owner made some dumb choices leading me to work at other places ) there was only one black girl who worked consistently. She appeared to be one of the top earners ( she hustled, so it wasn't just handed to her ) , but it's totally doable to do really well in this situation.

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    Thanks guys! I can see it turning out well the other way around (w a black girl being the only one) but I feel like they're literAlly making fun of me. But you k ow what? I'm just gonna suck it up and get an attitude.

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    It's aaaaall about the attitude, way to go!

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    Sad part is, I feel where your coming from. Shit I'm black, and other black dancer intimidate the hell out of me!!! And I hate dancing for younger black men because it makes me feel uncomfortable unless I'm a little tipsy, then I don't really care.

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    Yeah, for me it's the atmosphere in black clubs that I find intimidating. I guess their rejections are just a little meaner. Anyways, I gave up on that club. You just can't forcesome things

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    this one i would agree would be hard for me too and i have allways made a alot of money dancing dancing!

    You have hit my weakness your the only white girl with all black guys and its scay because you feel like there more agressive talk to you diff and maybe dont like you! you feel like the odd girl out! I got ya!

    but try and remember black guys do really like white girls just like white guys really like black girls.

    they seem diff but there just men deep down. there all just people same as any one else. try and focus on that. Maybe try and play up the white chick role don't turn and try to act black no one likes a white chick who trys to put on that kinda front big turn off.

    Work with who you are and say hi flirt do all the same things you would do! Remember im sure there thinking yummy white chick i want to bang her same as any man thinks.

    Maybe try to befriend one of the black girls? so she can help you feel more comfy.

    and if you can't get past it no harm move on and find a diff club.. if you can't feel at ease making money will be super hard and it's not worth doing that to yourself..
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    Arialandre Your funny lol i like your posts!! your right shes worth it!!
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