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    So I recently started working at a new club. It's pretty good, and actually pretty clean. The management/staff are pretty good as well - they try to watch out for us.

    Here's the problem: I started working day shift with a bunch of dancers that had been there for a while. There are always new girls coming in, but not really like me. A lot of the girls that I work with don't hustle, while I am all about the hustle. A lot of girls lose custies because they get drunk and stop caring, but I don't drink enough to ever do that. Things like that. But now I'm making exponentially more than they are (I am trying my best to hide it but it's not entirely possible...), and they hate me because of it. I've worked in clubs where I've been hated before, so that's not really the issue. The problem is that these girls are nice to my face, and then say rude things about me - TO THE CUSTOMERS! I personally don't care what they think of me, but they are seriously messing up my money. I can see them talking to their custies and pointing when I'm on stage, and customers have said things to me that other girls have said to them? I am the new girl, so I really don't want to make an uproar with the management over this, but I'm not sure what to do... has anybody else experienced this?

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    I have. When I first started dancing it was on the day shift and I had the same issues. It bothered me a bit but, at the end of the day I don't know any customers who go to a SC to hear women bitching and complaining about one another. They are just making themselves look immature, pathetic and unprofessional. Don't give it a second thought. Go in, work hard and laugh your way to the bank while they are wasting their time talking about you.

    If they are nice to your face, just flat out ignore them. Pretend they don't exist. I also wouldn't waste your time telling management, they don't want to be caught in the middle of yet another 8th grade bitch fest.

    Good Luck, it's always obnoxious and a pain to deal with.

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    Haters are a part of the business. Get used to it. Then laugh your ass off when you go on a shopping spree!

    I always do! Remember that if you get haters, you must be doing something right! :-D
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    It usually passes with time, the one club I worked at the girls didn't just say things, they actually burned me with a curling iron. It could be SO much worse so don't fret over gossip. Unless they physically harm you, just keep going to work and making your money like those girls don't even exist.

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    i've had to deal with all kinds of crazyness.

    Basically don't let them chase you away. ignor the crap they say. don't change the way you work. always smile and pretend ur great.

    when they can't get to you they'll get over it. and keep your stuff locked up and put away.
    and stay keen to whats around you, incase someone does pick a fight. And if someone tries then defend urself and still show up for work the next day.

    if someone threatens you or damages ur stuff definatlly go to managment.
    and at the end of the night you can come here and rant.
    You say psycho like it's a bad thing

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    Thanks ladies. I ignored all day today and laughed my way outta that place with 500 bucks. Haha. Two custies told me that girls were talking shit about me, but I guess if the customers are buying into that shit, I shouldn't waste my time with them anyway, eh?

    You guys are the best <3

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