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    Skull Losing my job!!!!! :'(

    Sooooooooo... I'm fucked...

    This just in, breaking news: Weight Loss Clinic owner makes bad business decisions and fires entire staff to save her own ass.

    I am FUCKED! Thank god no one censors cussing on these threads... oh god I'm so fuuuuuuucked. I don't make enough camming yet to be able to afford doing it full time! I need to find a new job! I can't do fast food or minimum wage I just CAN'T. I only JUST got my professional self esteem back 3 months ago when I quit working at the hotel. I can't go back to that. I can't go back to cleaning up after people for a living. I can't flip burgers, i'm almost TWENTY-FOUR!

    OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD! All I can do right now is escort. Escorting I can do. Escorting I would be really REALLY good at. But if I do it it means I lose the so-called possible love of my life. But he can't support the both of us and I need to take care of my own ass. OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD.

    What do I DOOOO????

    MALAYA! MALAYAAAA!???? Where are you? I'm hysterical, I need you to slap me in the face!

    Ok, ok. I could go independant but I don't have the start up capital right now. SO I could do agency, where is the newspaper... brb...oh god my stupid bf threw out the newspaper. Ok,ok, I can't work for Curves of Brazil because, well long story, anyway they suck, no can do. Who else do we have in this town? OH MY GOD WHY ARE OUR AGENCIES SO WHITE TRASH???????

    Breaaaaaathe, Breaaaaaaaaaathe.

    Ok get this $150= 1/2 hour, $200= 1 hour. Anything over 2hrs ger $20 off the hourly rate and of course all ladies are available on super short notice. Why god why do women do this to themselves? Do they think they are worth so little? Do they not understand their potencial? I can't do it. I can't do that. I am VIP or nothing, that is bullshit!

    I...I need booze. Booze will help this. Oh god someone please say something to cheer me up!

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    LOL.. Give me a minute.. This is gonna be long. ...

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    Have I told you lately that I love you? Because I do. I love you. ...


    Ummmm but not in a creepy lesbo stalker kind of way, in a free therapist kind of way,lol.

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    An Independent escort does whatever she wants. NO you do not charge $150 because others are charging $150 and You sure as hell will not charge $140 thinking that you're going to beat out everyone..It is tacky and anyone that charges $150 an hour for their time is frikking nuts.

    I've shot links to canadian escorts before..
    These are VIP escorts
    StephanieofMontreal.com
    MyVipCompanion.com
    Last but not least the gorgeous Classyangel.com

    There are more VIP escorts in canada but you can find them on your own by simply googling. Escorting is not something you should just jump into. Arm yourself with the best weapon: Knowledge. Read articles on National blacklist. Read Ciara of buffalo's PHD in hooking so you can get a inside look of what the business is REALLY like. Search my posts here on sw. Escorting is what you make of it. It can be a very glamourous job if you are safe..can you screen?, Know what you're doing.. Please shave you legs before an appointment please and Enjoy it-Don't get into this job if you do not like to have sex. You will hate sex if you do.

    You won't always make 1k a day. Nothing is guaranteed in this job but if you have professional pics, great ad writting skills and know how to market yourself you will go far. I laughed when I saw a girl on backpage claiming she was VIP. Her pics were shot with her cell phone, her hair was a MESS and her reviews were horrible. For example: Yesterday I made $600 the day before I made $1,050. It's really up and down like that.

    As a VIP companion, You have to go above and beyond to make your clients happy. No no no I am not saying forget your limits. I'm saying smile, be happy and let your client know that you are happy that he has chose to spend time with you. Always compliment your client ( I am bad at this because believe it or not I'm REALLY shy in person) Complimenting him will take you along way.

    So how does one become an escort?

    Research other high end escorts in your area. What are they charging? You can charge more! YES YOU CAN!

    Ask yourself if you REALLY want to do this, Do NOT DO IT JUST FOR THE MONEY! I can't stress this enough.

    Learn Screening techniques. You're in canada so the laws are different. Minnie is also an escort in Canada, I'm sure she wouldn't have a problem helping you with this.

    Decide on what you're going to charge. You're in canada. If I were you i'd charge $300/$400 to start given that you're really wanting to go the VIP route. however you can charge WHATEVER you want.

    Build your website. Do NOT build your website on the escortsite.com platform. Though you can and I have my website there now. I have moved my site to the blogger platform. My site is more professional looking and It looks amazing. I am not done but I will link you privately if you want.

    Join the boards : You can do this or not. Also take this time to decide if you want reviews or not. It is TRUE that reviews will bring you MORE business but you do NOT need them to get business. Please do not start drama on the boards.

    Advertise: This is pretty self explanatory. Eros, cityvibe, oad and backpage are good. Yes I said backpage and I will discuss why later. STAY AWAY FROM CRAIGSLIST..

    Have any questions.. ? Pm ME.

    Link to National blacklist articles:
    Ciara's pHD in hooking: (Though I wouldn't consider Ciara a VIP, She knows her stuff.
    Erin also has great info: I learn alot from her : myhoneysuckle.com

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    I already have erin's myhoneysuckle stuff. I know tons about escorting, yes I like sex, blah blah blah.

    I already know that I would market myself VIP, without actually SAYING vip obviously, GET A THESAURUS PEOPLE, come on now! Anyway I already know that it would be $400/hr with erin's sneaky (so awesome) pricing platform.

    It would just be a matter of figuring out how to set up a good website, learning more in depth about doing my own screening, and breaking up with the boyfriend.

    I have a photographer already, yaaaay for modeling.

    So really its just website, start up capital, which I DON'T have, and breaking it to the boyfriend.

    Also no, it's not just about the money, even though the money is great. Actually yes, it's about the money and the freedom, but that desore COMES from a stronger deeper place.
    I always knew that my best professional fit would be in the sex industry. That is probably why I'm getting my advice form you guys and not my civilian friends.

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    Ahh so you've been reading my posts eh

    I wrote you back You obviously don't need me BUT go and tell your bf and let me know what he says. I am dying to know his response.

    You meant with erin's rate structure.. Eh, I think it's cute but I like Amanda's Rate Structure better (I'm referring to Amanda Brooks the escort/Author)

    I've already told you how to create a website. Screening: If you've read erin's site you should have no problem and I can help if you have an Questions Start up capital? I explained this in the pm. You will need $400-$500 max sometimes not even (Incall is illegal in canada. So you will be doing outcalls, No expense there just learn how to screen. You can cam for that money can't ya?

    YOU DON'T NEED ME BIATCH! lol .. GOOD LUCK!

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    Hahahah, true true, I do pretty much have it under control don't I? lol, Amanda Brooks has a better structure? Hmmm, to the Google search engine! SuperHooker awaaaaay!

    His response will be, "So I guess this means you want us to break up..." and then "So we're breaking up...well I hope you're fucking happy..."
    Whaaaa whaaaa whaaa....

    And you're right I CAN cam for my startup. But it goes, I only make spare changing camming right now, so it will take a long time to get that money, so I have to wait to start, but my job ends Friday. Fucking lame.

    Where the fuck are my potencial sugar daddies, those men need to hook me up, NOW.

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    why only spare change camming? Curious..no patience? or ..?

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    WOOOOHOOOOOOO! Update! I will be camming full time! YAAAAAAAAAAY! So I dont have to do a crazy rush to find a regular job. The boyfriend said that he's cool with me camming full time...except there was the "so long as I can pay rent". I know, cam girls do it all the time, but seriously, what the fuck. Just felt a bit of a slap there. Like so much for, yeah baby, I'll support us until you've got your cam career steady...

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    Oh spare change because I was doing it part time, late at night, it was my first 3 weeks on the job. So I'm still new. If I do it full time i'm sure Id make more pretty quickly but... I'm just nervous. I wasnt expecting to go full time so soon...hahaha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    WOOOOHOOOOOOO! Update! I will be camming full time! YAAAAAAAAAAY! So I dont have to do a crazy rush to find a regular job. The boyfriend said that he's cool with me camming full time...except there was the "so long as I can pay rent". I know, cam girls do it all the time, but seriously, what the fuck. Just felt a bit of a slap there. Like so much for, yeah baby, I'll support us until you've got your ca m career steady...
    I'm really sorry .. I really hate to say this but he sounds like a douche. "So long as you pay rent" Are you kidding me? If you were not paying rent before why start now? Because you'll be making more money? Why did you need his permission to work fulltime? I don't get this. It's just camming.. Ok I'm lost.. No like seriously. WOW wow wow lost for words here..

    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    Oh spare change because I was doing it part time, late at night, it was my first 3 weeks on the job. So I'm still new. If I do it full time i'm sure Id make more pretty quickly but... I'm just nervous. I wasnt expecting to go full time so soon...hahaha.
    geesh. all i can say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Arialandre View Post
    WOOOOHOOOOOOO! Update! I will be camming full time! YAAAAAAAAAAY! So I dont have to do a crazy rush to find a regular job. The boyfriend said that he's cool with me camming full time...except there was the "so long as I can pay rent". I know, cam girls do it all the time, but seriously, what the fuck. Just felt a bit of a slap there. Like so much for, yeah baby, I'll support us until you've got your cam career steady...
    If you didn't feel the slap I sure did.

    Would the Dr. at the clinic give you a recomendation? How long did you work there? Check out using your experiance to get certified to boost up your resume. http://www.nhanow.com/med-assist.html

    If you cam every day you should do well!

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    First off, yes I was paying rent before. But seriously you think that as my "PARTNER" (I hope you hear that rage you jackass cause you will when you get home!) he would man up while I was in transition.

    Secondly it's a weight loss clinic. Not doctor in residence just a coniving bitch out to slit our throats.

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    How in the hell does a weight loss clinic not have a registered MD or CRNP-Dietitian????
    Was this clinic illegal???

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    No NO they are at head office. U Weight Loss Clinic, google it, its all good, lol....except for the fact its so fucking SHADY! ALL about sales, no one gives a fuck about the clients no matter what they say. I did though, of course my back ground in psycology helped,lol but seriously, I was the highest educated one there.

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    Well working for shady people does suck.

    I'm assuming all this transpired today. You still need about 2 days to focus and look for another job. Unless you are ok with camming full time.

    I constantly see ladies here say they can't flip burgers/mop floors/fold clothes/work for min. wage, etc. I'm wondering if it's because these are the only skills that one thinks they have or you don't know how or where to look for a good job. I've never used my magical google skills to look for jobs in Canada, but if you pm me zip code I bet I can find something that won't be degrading as dropping frenchfries.

    Does your man work 1 or 2 jobs?

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    Oh,lol I am queen bitch at finding a job in zero time. I.... wow, I just dont WANT to. I think vthis may be the universes way of saying "Stop wasting your time and your life. Jusmp into the sex industry with both feet and DONT LOOK BACK! Run Aria, RUUUUN!"

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    Son of a BITCH.... so the boyfriend just basically slapped me upside the head and goes. "You thought what? Are you nuts? Of course it would be NICE if you were contributing financially to the household but did you seriously think I was going to kick you to the curb or something just because things are rocky for you right now? Did you expect so little of me? Of COURSE I'm going to take over everything while you figure your camming career out I LOVE YOU. I just didnt think that I would have to SAY something so obvious! You should be taking it for granted that I would be covering our expenses. I'm going to take CARE of you, dont be so damn stupid."

    Lol, and this is why I love him.

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    If you're happy then he's a GREAT boyfriend, If you're not than he's really not all that great and you're just making excuses for him. Someone that love you dosent need to give you permission if you can cam fulltime. I don't care what anyone else on this site here says but that's bull.

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    Lol no I'm not happy I'm thrilled. It's not just that he is supportive of me camming full time (he knows I love it so says he would never want to stand in my way of doing it full time if thats what I want) but also that he has said because of his new job that starts today ( a company he got laid off from a year or so ago cause the economy was crap, they are now able to take him back yaaaaay) that I dont have to worry about working right now if I don't want to because he will be able to have it all covered now, yaaaaaaay! I get to be a "housewife" woot woot! Seriously though guys I HATE civilian jobs so for me camming full time from home is my ultimate dream. It's not that he's "letting" me, it's knowing that he has said "Don't worry you idiot, of COURSE you have my full support in this" yaaay!

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