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    Although I'm never surprised (but always dissapointed...) to hear some gal tell me how she wants to avoid lifting weights "because I just wanna be toned and all..." but I'm always blown away when some guy says he does not like women who workout. To me, this says something about how he views women in general.

    As I said, only weak ass men fear strong women. If they don't workout with passion and purpose, then we don't have anything in common. They don't have to be bbers by any means (although I dated an IFBB pro for a time, so it's all good there...) but they have to have passion about some athletic endeavour, be it skating (love skater bodies!), dance, track, or what have you, but be strong, be athletic, train with passion. The passion and purpose you bring to your physical self, is what you bring to the other parts of your life.

    If you fear being strong, then you aint for me, and if you fear those that are strong - male or female - look in the mirror for the answer.

    Strength, passion, purpose are the ultimate aphrodisiac, which is why female athletes of one kind or another have always been for me. I would step over the naked body of some skinny insecure cardio bunny "who just wants a flat tummy and to avoid those horrible scary muscle things" to get to female athletes of all kinds.

    And to be a tad graphic, cardio bunnies may or may not be the best looking gal in the room, but when the lights go off, no one fu&% like a female athlete (especially female bbers...).

    Now, to each's own and all that, but I find people - men and women - pass judgments on those who find strength sexy, when they should mind their own f-ing business and stick to the soft non threatening types they prefer....


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    Default Re: Only weak ass men fear strong women

    ...there is nothing "weakass" about not being attracted to female bodybuilders.

    Now, to each's own and all that, but I find people - men and women - pass judgments on those who find strength sexy, when they should mind their own f-ing business and stick to the soft non threatening types they prefer....
    Uh, hello kettle?
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    Default Re: Only weak ass men fear strong women

    ...reading comprehension...

    Ergo:

    "They don't have to be bbers by any means, but they have to have passion about some athletic endeavour, be it skating (love skater bodies!), dance, track, or what have you, but be strong, be athletic, train with passion. The passion and purpose you bring to your physical self, is what you bring to the other parts of your life."
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    For someone preaching "mind your own fucking business" you sure seem to be very judgmental about what other men like and don't like. It doesn't take great reading comprehension skills to note that your whole post is exactly the type of behavior you are bitching about.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trem View Post
    For someone preaching "mind your own fucking business" you sure seem to be very judgmental about what other men like and don't like. It doesn't take great reading comprehension skills to note that your whole post is exactly the type of behavior you are bitching about.
    That whistling noise you hear is the point going over your head.

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    This is an interesting thread because I am an athletic bodytype, though not a bodybuilder. I know if I worked out heavily I could be one, but don't want to be. Having said that, I've had guys not be attracted to me because I am muscular. Some guys are intimidated by me because I can probably benchpress what they can.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    This is an interesting thread because I am an athletic bodytype, though not a bodybuilder. I know if I worked out heavily I could be one, but don't want to be. Having said that, I've had guys not be attracted to me because I am muscular. Some guys are intimidated by me because I can probably benchpress what they can.
    I don't think a man with character should give a damn what you can bench press compared to them, they respect and admire your dedication to yourself and realize it says other things about your character beyond your physical looks. A man is secure in his own abilities and does not compare his to a women as the gauge of attraction, if that makes any sense as written.

    Key point: weak men fear strong women.(1) I hope that part is clear.

    (1) and I mean that physically and metaphorically
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    Although I'm never surprised (but always dissapointed...) to hear some gal tell me how she wants to avoid lifting weights "because I just wanna be toned and all..."
    But wait.... doesn't lifting weights help you get "toned"? When I work out at the gym I always do a combination of cardio and weights.

    I also practice martial arts (have been doing so since I was a little kid) and find that bag work (on the heavy bags) gives my muscles a good workout. However in my mind I don't really count the martial arts I do as part of my workout, its just something I do for fun. I find myself at the gym 4 days a week doing boring stuff (weights, cardio), and the karate is my form of fun. I am in the dojo about 3 days a week (it is an hr drive from my home).



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    Quote Originally Posted by OJenni! View Post
    But wait.... doesn't lifting weights help you get "toned"?
    For sure.

    Quote Originally Posted by OJenni! View Post
    When I work out at the gym I always do a combination of cardio and weights.

    I also practice martial arts (have been doing so since I was a little kid) and find that bag work (on the heavy bags) gives my muscles a good workout. However in my mind I don't really count the martial arts I do as part of my workout, its just something I do for fun. I find myself at the gym 4 days a week doing boring stuff (weights, cardio), and the karate is my form of fun. I am in the dojo about 3 days a week (it is an hr drive from my home).
    Sounds like a solid overall fitness/exercise plan. I bet the MA is also great for stress release...Good work.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    I don't think a man with character should give a damn what you can bench press compared to them, they respect and admire your dedication to yourself and realize it says other things about your character beyond your physical looks. A man is secure in his own abilities and does not compare his to a women as the gauge of attraction, if that makes any sense as written.

    Key point: weak men fear strong women.(1) I hope that part is clear.

    (1) and I mean that physically and metaphorically
    Unfortunately insecure men are threatened by women better at something than them. You would be surprised (or perhaps not) by guys who have rejected me because in most cases I am more educated (I have a MA). I've had guys intimidated because I will likely make more than them, instead of thinking "hey that means more for us". These guys I don't get.

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    i would just like to point out that just because a woman doesnt work out a lot, doesnt make her "soft, submissive, and non-threatening."

    I am not soft or submissive, and only seem non-threatening until I'm mad (i am "delicate" looking, so until im pissed, people tend to see me as a non threat. once pissed, well, i've scared plenty of people). I've had plenty of guys be extremely impressed when they have found out how strong i am.

    Everyone likes what they like. I don't get the massive generalizations on either end.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    I have no doubt that men who prefer women that are soft, submissive, and non threatening (you?) would see the above statement as "moronic"
    Are you really this insecure about your preferences that you feel the need to put down the people who don't share them? So you love muscly chicks, good for you, who gives a flying fuck?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    Unfortunately insecure men are threatened by women better at something than them. You would be surprised (or perhaps not)

    Not...

    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    by guys who have rejected me because in most cases I am more educated (I have a MA). I've had guys intimidated because I will likely make more than them, instead of thinking "hey that means more for us". These guys I don't get.
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    Quote Originally Posted by nicole84 View Post
    i would just like to point out that just because a woman doesnt work out a lot, doesnt make her "soft, submissive, and non-threatening."

    Nor did I say it did.
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    OMG why all the hostility on this thread?!?!

    everyone has their own preference .. we get that.

    He was just ranting.. no need for argument guys.

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    ^^ I was going to really rant back at the OP....but you're right. It's just not worth it.

    After all, I mean, he's missed the real point...and we all know the truth anyway, don't we?

    ALL MEN fear strong women...!
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    At least he didn't insult any women..



    [quote=Will;1959175[...If some skinny insecure cardio bunny "who just wants a flat tummy and to avoid those horrible scary muscle things"...[/quote]

    Oh...um...nevermind.

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    No he wasn't just ranting, he was insulting every man that does not share his particular fetish.
    You forgot also insulting women that don't meet his particular fetish.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pussyinboots View Post


    ALL MEN fear strong women

    Ditto including Will. Case closed!

    sn: I'm not muscular. I think it's ugly on a lot of women. WIll can like whatever he likes but I'm sure he wouldn't turn down a date with me NO MATTER what he says or how strung out he is on this fetish

    @ Will: Our last conversation makes a lot more sense now. I didn't know YOU were in Boston.

    *sigh* everyone needs to lighten up.

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    We're made to move. There's many benefits to exercise. You want a girl that enjoys it. There's nothing wrong with that.

    But you should realize you are doing the same crap you don't want other people to do. Not everyone has the same tastes...

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    Quote Originally Posted by newbieblue View Post
    Not everyone has the same tastes...
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    I don't think Will is looking for a specific body type. I think he wants someone that enjoys being in control of their body. It's more than just physical when you have passion for exercise. Why people keep bringing up muscles I have no idea. You can be strong and not have big/visible muscles like a body builder...

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Ditto including Will. Case closed!

    sn: I'm not muscular. I think it's ugly on a lot of women. WIll can like whatever he likes but I'm sure he wouldn't turn down a date with me NO MATTER what he says or how strung out he is on this fetish
    I have no fetish in that area, only to point out strong women of body and character are what matter most to me, and weak ass men fear strong women. That some here don't "get it" is OK by me. I won't bother responding to them per your demands Ms Thing.

    If people here wanna let some of the others twist my words and obvious intent as into some sort of insult toward some group of women, that's up to you. I wold hope you all are smarter then that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by newbieblue View Post
    I don't think Will is looking for a specific body type. I think he wants someone that enjoys being in control of their body. It's more than just physical when you have passion for exercise. Why people keep bringing up muscles I have no idea. You can be strong and not have big/visible muscles like a body builder...
    Bingo. Someone who "gets it." By their level of protest, it simply exposes their level of insecurities regarding strong women who are in control. Anyone who has known me here for a while, knows my support level of women - ALL women - and my strong feelings for their well being.
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    I know this is the internet. I know every unstable wacko can sit behind a monitor and pontificate. But the idea that men who don't like muscles are somehow "intimidated by strong women" is pretty goddamned retarded. Even by Will's standards.

    I've been lifting weights religiously for 16 years and I like soft, feminine women with a juicy hourglass figure. I'm attracted to that because it's the opposite of what I am. If I wanted muscles I'd look in the mirror or better yet check out the dude next to me in the locker room.

    It's not about strength Einstein, it's about aesthetics. Bulging biceps and broad shoulders are things that I want on my own body. Not something I jerk off to! I have turned down women who looked too muscular for my taste, not because I feared they would kick my ass(!), but because I wasn't physically attracted to them.

    If you like them muscle-bound, fine. Knock yourself out. Just don't go around pretending that other men don't share your fetish because they're scared!
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