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    Do high end escorts, or what ever the correct term is, have drivers that act as defacto security? Do most just drive themselves to an appointment? I would think having a driver, who the appointee knew was waiting for you, would dramatically increase personal safety, and of course prevent one from having problems of a DUI, etc should you have a few drinks, etc. I don't mean a limo service per se, but a generally trust worthy type who, for a reasonable amount of $$$, would do the above in their own car or yours. Obviously, this would be a cost, but the benefits seem many. What's the dealio there?
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    Do high end escorts, or what ever the correct term is, have drivers that act as defacto security? Do most just drive themselves to an appointment? I would think having a driver, who the appointee knew was waiting for you, would dramatically increase personal safety, and of course prevent one from having problems of a DUI, etc should you have a few drinks, etc. I don't mean a limo service per se, but a generally trust worthy type who, for a reasonable amount of $$$, would do the above in their own car or yours. Obviously, this would be a cost, but the benefits seem many. What's the dealio there?
    Responsible Independent escorts don't drink on the job and if we did we wouldn't drink to where we would need a driver. Getting drunk on the job just ONCE could ruin one's escorting career. Let's see 95% of the time, I do outcalls meaning I have to drive to meet the client at a hotel or his home. Driving.. Having a driver does not ensure safety at all.. What the heck is the driver going to do? He's waiting outside and is not in the room or sitting next to you at a restaurant during your date. He's waiting outside so he can drive you home.

    Contrary to popular belief, Escort feel safer driving themselves to appointments and clients feel safer with an escort that dosen't have a driver. If an Independent escort was to show up at a clients house with a driver waiting outside, he would think 1.) that the driver is her pimp 2.) She's with an agency. That will not go too well on the review boards.

    As a mid range/high end escort, I've had limo drivers literally walk up to me and give me their card .. I guess they have some type of escort radar? LOL I have never used their services. However, If I were to come across a client that wanted to arrange for limo service I'd let him know about them.

    P.S The only time I would only personally hire a driver for late night appointments IS at night. Driving at night is pretty scary for me and I get very sleepy driving down the highway. This is the ONLY time I would consider hiring a driver. I would pay the driver at least $50 an hour.. anything more than that would be ridiculous.. (Or maybe I'm just being cheap like that lol)

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    It depends I do for the time being until I am able to drive myself meaning get my liscence and a car.

    Having a driver means your not left wondering if your getting home and how your going to your call.
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    Responsible Independent escorts don't drink on the job and if we did we wouldn't drink to where we would need a driver. Getting drunk on the job just ONCE could ruin one's escorting career. Let's see 95% of the time, I do outcalls meaning I have to drive to meet the client at a hotel or his home. Driving.. Having a driver does not ensure safety at all.. What the heck is the driver going to do?
    Various and depending in your arrangement, from calling your cell phone at a prescribed time to check up to calling the police if really needed, etc.

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    Contrary to popular belief, Escort feel safer driving themselves to appointments and clients feel safer with an escort that dosen't have a driver.
    I don't have any contrary beliefs, I was asking a question. I will say, depending on the driver, you would damn sure be safer, regardless of "feeling." As you point out below, there are various business/perception issues do deal with. I, being a person who generally puts personal security above all other considerations, have a biased view there and wondered what the approach was.

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    If an Independent escort was to show up at a clients house with a driver waiting outside, he would think 1.) that the driver is her pimp 2.) She's with an agency. That will not go too well on the review boards.

    As a mid range/high end escort, I've had limo drivers literally walk up to me and give me their card .. I guess they have some type of escort radar? LOL I have never used their services. However, If I were to come across a client that wanted to arrange for limo service I'd let him know about them.

    P.S The only time I would only personally hire a driver for late night appointments IS at night. Driving at night is pretty scary for me and I get very sleepy driving down the highway. This is the ONLY time I would consider hiring a driver. I would pay the driver at least $50 an hour.. anything more than that would be ridiculous.. (Or maybe I'm just being cheap like that lol)
    Understood. Gave me a good sense of how that works. Was just curious.
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    Quote Originally Posted by minniesoporno View Post

    Having a driver means your not left wondering if your getting home
    That's not a very good driver, or am I reading that incorrectly?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    Various and depending in your arrangement, from calling your cell phone at a prescribed time to check up to calling the police if really needed, etc.
    Babe, I have a buddy that can do that while I'm at an appointment. You don't neccessarily need a driver for that..

    I don't have any contrary beliefs, I was asking a question. I will say, depending on the driver, you would damn sure be safer, regardless of "feeling." As you point out below, there are various business/perception issues do deal with. I, being a person who generally puts personal security above all other considerations, have a biased view there and wondered what the approach was.
    I said popular .. not will's belief I know you were just asking and I was just answering I put safety first at all times this is why we screen.. hiring a driver wouldn't make me feel safer. I even look at it as losing money(except for late night appointments). I have two cars in the garage there is no need for a driver unless the escort dosen't have a car. Other than that I don't see how a driver can guarantee your safety

    Understood. Gave me a good sense of how that works. Was just curious.
    No prob

    To minnie : Of course with a car, you wouldn't have to wonder about getting home. Just saying. I'm sure there are lots of girls
    that have cars and use drivers, Hell I know an escort that's married and her husband drives her to her appointments. Would that make me feel safer? NOPE!

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    Although not actively pursing an escorting career I am still loosely considering it.

    I would personally prefer to have a driver. My reasons are my own, and Malaya is experienced so I may change my mind if I ever delve into it, but I would feel safer knowing someone is outside and only a phone call away.

    Could they prevent you from being raped or assaulted? Not necessarily, they are a distance away. BUT, if they are there and see someone running from your hotel room they could A. follow them or B. come to your aid immediately following. It's added security. Plus, someone always knows your EXACT location.

    As of now, I'd prefer to do incalls at a hotel that I booked versus doing outcalls to hotels or people's homes. I suppose if I screened them enough and they had references I'd be comfortable with doing an outcall to a hotel, but never a customer's home. In the US laws are different (do you work in the US or Canada Malaya...I think Canada) so it's not as easy. I'd be suspicious of a customer wanting me to go to their hotel because of police stings. I know it would be expensive to buy a hotel, but if I booked two or three calls in a day and did that twice a week the costs wouldn't be too bad, and I'd feel more secure. (Even if it is just false sense of security).

    That's just my $0.02.

    I understand what Malaya is saying about someone being nervous if you brought a driver to their home that waited outside, but if they were meeting you at YOUR hotel and you arrived prior to them then they wouldn't know you had a driver.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Laurisa View Post
    Although not actively pursing an escorting career I am still loosely considering it.

    I would personally prefer to have a driver. My reasons are my own, and Malaya is experienced so I may change my mind if I ever delve into it, but I would feel safer knowing someone is outside and only a phone call away.
    There's an essential distinction to make here: feeling safe has no relation to being safe. People confuse the two all the time. It can also be a fatal mistake. Anyway...

    Quote Originally Posted by Laurisa View Post
    Could they prevent you from being raped or assaulted? Not necessarily, they are a distance away.
    Simple math, the faster someone can respond the better. Appointment is from 12-1pm, and if they dont get a call via the cell by 1:15, they call. If they don't get through, they knock on the door, etc. and their is a specific plan and response, etc. That's a bit more involved then a simple driver, but I have no doubts safety can be dramatically improved via such a set up. However, as pointed out, it may have negative impact on client perceptions, etc, but I think that could easily be worked around as needed.

    Me, I don't trust people, and have no plans to allow my personal safety to the whims of others, so for the extra $$$, seems money well spent to me, but that's me. Obviously, screening is an essential component to layered security, but all good security is layered, and never depends on a single factor for its success.

    I'll say this, if you ever have a "bad" experience and live to tell it, you'll have a whole other opinion about the importance of personal security.

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    Could they prevent you from being raped or assaulted? Not necessarily, they are a distance away. BUT, if they are there and see someone running from your hotel room they could A. follow them or B. come to your aid immediately following. It's added security. Plus, someone always knows your EXACT location.
    You are right!
    However screening usually helps with all this.
    As an escort alot of the problems you mentioned above will be eliminated by screening alone.
    Trust me I am paranoid as hell and in almost two years of escorting I have NEVER once felt unsafe or had ONE bad client because of my screening methods. Screening really is where your faith lies. Yes I see how others will feel safe with someone knowing their EXACT location but what if you're hosting an incall and you're touring .. what would you do about a driver then? will your driver travel with you or would you hire another driver in that city? Someone you barely know? I would not feel safe at all. Screening is your security not a driver. Screening and a good Call buddy will protect you more than any driver would unless like I mentioned in another post, he is literally in the hotel room with you or in the restaurant during your date watching you from a distance.

    I've heard of girls getting arrested, raped, beated and all by clients.. This is not because they didn't have a driver. Alot of them did but they didn't screen. They never checked the guy out at all. Alot of escorts see anyone and everyone. You call them, they answer and they meet up with you. This is not safe and this is why many women run into problems in this business.

    As of now, I'd prefer to do incalls at a hotel that I booked versus doing outcalls to hotels or people's homes. I suppose if I screened them enough and they had references I'd be comfortable with doing an outcall to a hotel, but never a customer's home. In the US laws are different (do you work in the US or Canada Malaya...I think Canada) so it's not as easy. I'd be suspicious of a customer wanting me to go to their hotel because of police stings. I know it would be expensive to buy a hotel, but if I booked two or three calls in a day and did that twice a week the costs wouldn't be too bad, and I'd feel more secure. (Even if it is just false sense of security).
    I am in Charlotte, NC USA .. I wish I were in Canada. Very smart on your part for sticking to incalls. What a lot of ladies don't know about incalls is that LE would really have to stake you out and interview every client you've seen to bust you during an incall. Also another thing is during an incall you can ask the police man to leave (if you have not touched the money and engaged in any sexual activities.) This is another discussion . back on topic..

    Drivers are unnecessary. I see why ladies use them for me.. they wouldn't make a difference in how I feel during a date.

    Edit: Missed a few things but will elaborate.. Going to a clients home is actually safer than a hotel and a hotel is very safe. This is how I do hotel. I do my regular screening checking the client out on google , date check and all that good stuff THEN I call the hotel asking "Is Mr so and so STILL in room 2001, Can I please speak with him?" She/He will usually say "sure" and connect me .. if she says "Umm that's not the name we have on file for that room" or "Does he go by another name?" then I know something's up. I won't elaborate on how I do hotel outcalls publically but you can always pm me for info when you do make your decision about the business.

    You can book a hotel via priceline. A 4-5 star hotel ALWAYS nothing less (especially if you brand yourself VIP). Yes you could lose money but look at it as an investment. I have never lost money booking hotels at home and during a tour. With good marketing skills you will not having a problem making double your room, travel expenses and then some

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    Me, I don't trust people, and have no plans to allow my personal safety to the whims of others, so for the extra $$$, seems money well spent to me, but that's me.
    Yes hun I guess that's just you. Like I said I've never had a "bad" experience. Even the most exclusive escorts don't have drivers. They attract whole different caliber of clientele. They feel safe seeing the man that can afford $3,000 for 2 hours of their time PLUS a lot of us are reference friendly and don't mind giving a reference when needed. All these factors make more sense than having a driver. This is why you're not an escort lol screening is bases on a number of things and not "ONE" factor. Screening is the most important thing .. Important than any driver or bodyguard Just FYI..

    OOh I would love to see the escort that has a driver but dosen't screen. I give her one month to be fitted for an orange jumpsuit.
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    just for those that are curious. When a client fills out the screening form on my site. It goes straight to my email in this format.

    This is the exact format (and yes his info has been changed to protect him)

    New form completed:

    Full Name: Todd Marlton
    E-mail: [email protected]
    City and state you live in: Winston-Salem, NC
    Contact number: 336-000-000
    Company: Apple
    Company website: apple.com
    Company phone & Extension: 336-000-000
    References (At least TWO provider references, their email and website address): N/A
    Requested date: July 13, 2010
    Length of visit: 4 hr
    Additional comments ( A little about yourself): hmm...tall, fit, well-traveled
    How did you find me: web

    From: 75.100.96.71

    You then screen him using the info on this form. I won't go into how I screen I will save this for the pms.
    Screening can be tough for a newbie but it's very easy to learn.
    Once you have screening down you have eliminated 95.5% of the WRONGS that could go on during
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    In this case he has no provider references so I would verfiy his employment and ask for two forms of id including a business card or a paycheck stub.

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    Some do, some don't. I find most agency girls who do out calls have drivers while most indies don't. FWIW, the term "driver" has a certain stigma attached to it for many customers. The prospect of getting strong armed, robbed or just having a guy in a car sitting outside of your place or hotel for an hour is not inviting from the customer's POV. I have actually driven a favorite escort lady of mine to a few of her out call appointments but trust me, I was hardly there as security and I actually went to a strip club to hang out while she was seeing her client so as not to draw attention.

    The smartest thing an escort can do is screen her clients carefully and act responsibly when she is working. This eliminates a fair amount of the concerns regarding personal safety. it does not of course eliminate the possibility of walking into a room with a psycho but a guy out in the parking lot isn't going to be any help in that case. It's a risky job but the smart ladies know how to protect themselves to the best degree possible. A driver is seldom of any help aside from providing transportation.

    Malaya couldn't be more right in her approach. Screening is everything in the escorting business. The same really goes for clients as well. The best way to avoid trouble of any sort is to have as much information about who you are going to see as possible before you walk through the door.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    There's an essential distinction to make here: feeling safe has no relation to being safe. People confuse the two all the time. It can also be a fatal mistake. Anyway...



    Simple math, the faster someone can respond the better. Appointment is from 12-1pm, and if they dont get a call via the cell by 1:15, they call. If they don't get through, they knock on the door, etc. and their is a specific plan and response, etc. That's a bit more involved then a simple driver, but I have no doubts safety can be dramatically improved via such a set up. However, as pointed out, it may have negative impact on client perceptions, etc, but I think that could easily be worked around as needed.

    Me, I don't trust people, and have no plans to allow my personal safety to the whims of others, so for the extra $$$, seems money well spent to me, but that's me. Obviously, screening is an essential component to layered security, but all good security is layered, and never depends on a single factor for its success.

    I'll say this, if you ever have a "bad" experience and live to tell it, you'll have a whole other opinion about the importance of personal security.

    Good luck.
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    I know it would be expensive to buy a hotel, but if I booked two or three calls in a day and did that twice a week the costs wouldn't be too bad, and I'd feel more secure. (Even if it is just false sense of security).

    You did not quote me properly. I acknowledged that it would be a false sense of security. When I feel unsafe I have anxiety, even just a false sense of security would help me relax and provide a better service.

    I'd be willing to pay $100/hour to ensure that they would intervene if my safety was in question. (i.e. knock on the door). I'd probably do what they do with agencies and call him to "check in" once the customer arrived just like agencies require you to do. If he didn't get the call within ten minutes of the arranged call time then he would be instructed to knock on the door. I would also give him the second key to the door so he could enter. I'd be sure not to lock the door beyond his ability to enter, and if the customer tried to do so then I would politely decline and end the appointment.
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    You are right!
    However screening usually helps with all this.
    As an escort alot of the problems you mentioned above will be eliminated by screening alone.
    Trust me I am paranoid as hell and in almost two years of escorting I have NEVER once felt unsafe or had ONE bad client because of my screening methods. Screening really is where your faith lies. Yes I see how others will feel safe with someone knowing their EXACT location but what if you're hosting an incall and you're touring .. what would you do about a driver then? will your driver travel with you or would you hire another driver in that city? Someone you barely know? I would not feel safe at all. Screening is your security not a driver. Screening and a good Call buddy will protect you more than any driver would unless like I mentioned in another post, he is literally in the hotel room with you or in the restaurant during your date watching you from a distance.

    I've heard of girls getting arrested, raped, beated and all by clients.. This is not because they didn't have a driver. Alot of them did but they didn't screen. They never checked the guy out at all. Alot of escorts see anyone and everyone. You call them, they answer and they meet up with you. This is not safe and this is why many women run into problems in this business.



    I am in Charlotte, NC USA .. I wish I were in Canada. Very smart on your part for sticking to incalls. What a lot of ladies don't know about incalls is that LE would really have to stake you out and interview every client you've seen to bust you during an incall. Also another thing is during an incall you can ask the police man to leave (if you have not touched the money and engaged in any sexual activities.) This is another discussion . back on topic..

    Drivers are unnecessary. I see why ladies use them for me.. they wouldn't make a difference in how I feel during a date.

    Edit: Missed a few things but will elaborate.. Going to a clients home is actually safer than a hotel and a hotel is very safe. This is how I do hotel. I do my regular screening checking the client out on google , date check and all that good stuff THEN I call the hotel asking "Is Mr so and so STILL in room 2001, Can I please speak with him?" She/He will usually say "sure" and connect me .. if she says "Umm that's not the name we have on file for that room" or "Does he go by another name?" then I know something's up. I won't elaborate on how I do hotel outcalls publically but you can always pm me for info when you do make your decision about the business.

    You can book a hotel via priceline. A 4-5 star hotel ALWAYS nothing less (especially if you brand yourself VIP). Yes you could lose money but look at it as an investment. I have never lost money booking hotels at home and during a tour. With good marketing skills you will not having a problem making double your room, travel expenses and then some

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    Yes hun I guess that's just you. Like I said I've never had a "bad" experience. Even the most exclusive escorts don't have drivers. They attract whole different caliber of clientele. They feel safe seeing the man that can afford $3,000 for 2 hours of their time PLUS a lot of us are reference friendly and don't mind giving a reference when needed. All these factors make more sense than having a driver. This is why you're not an escort lol screening is bases on a number of things and not "ONE" factor. Screening is the most important thing .. Important than any driver or bodyguard Just FYI..

    OOh I would love to see the escort that has a driver but dosen't screen. I give her one month to be fitted for an orange jumpsuit.
    I definitely understand that the point of a driver is generally not to act as security as well. However, if I am paying someone $50-$100 an hour then they damn well better be willing to intervene if something is wrong, and I would make that very clear upfront. Screening IS the best method of security from what I've read, and I would definitely utilize that. I would rarely, if ever, tour because I have a young child. I know you do too Malaya but I suspect our circumstances are different. His father has no interest in me escorting so right now it's off the table, plus I have to be careful what I put online. I would be very nervous to do an incall at a hotel, or a home. I'd be looking to work indie and charge this:

    $600 - 2 hours - Getting to know each other
    $800 - 3 hours - Lunch (one hour) and two hours of fun
    $1200 - 12 hour overnight (with minimum 7 hours of sleep). Includes two hour dinner and dessert.

    I read online that a good sales tactic is to layer your pricing like that so that you encourage them to buy a larger package. The way they are looking at it, they can spend $600 for two hours OR for the price of '4 hours' get a full night with me. The truth is I would only be 'working' for five hours and would be out for dinner for a portion of that five hours. My goal would be to get them to buy the overnight package while I would realistically be 'working on them' for maybe 3 hours tops after dinner and driving back.

    What do you think Malaya? I'm hesitant to book one hour appointments, maybe for repeat clients who book at least once every four weeks I'd do a one hour for $400 but typically I'd rather not.
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    **shouldn't this be in other work? feels weird in Lounge**

    I always LOL at *I require 6-8 hours of sleep on our overnight appt** Isn't that a HUGE waste for the client? Anyways... off topic, I just was curious how well this goes.

    I always screen, in fact, Malaya taught me how to screen and I use her form. I think having a driver would be a waste of money, and an added time waster, for me. I like driving myself, and I feel just as safe on my own, as I probably would with a driver. If you screen well, you shouldn't have any problems.And I screen VERY WELL. Also, I only do incalls at a nice upscale hotel for two hour sessions only, and most of them (without me asking) have included a lil extra gift, for the room. And I always try to book as many incalls as possible while I have the room, and make em all feel like you got that incall JUST FOR HIM. At the end of the day, you don't even worry that the room was $198.16! LOL Ok I went off topic, but I noticed we touched a lot on everything in this thread already. So to cap, I screen well, I would NEVER use a driver, and I feel much safer doing incall.
    Will, why the sudden curiosity?

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    Well said! However I make the room money in just one call. I've seen your rates i know you do too. You're wayyyy too money hungry LOL!

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    Haha Malaya--see my signature. LOL Girl. I make it in one call too, but when i have that incall, I text ALL my regulars, and let them know "I HAVE AN INCALL UNTIL 2PM TOMORROW" ( I get late check-out because I am now a Priority Club member at Holiday Inn and Marriot) So with that, I see about 3-4 clients before I check out of my room. Then the next guy who wants two hours, I get an incall, and do it all over again. Can't nobody hustle like me in Pcola maaaaane! LOL The more money I get, the more I want... nothin wrong with a hunger for money!!

    Oh, yeah, I do the layering pricing too,Laurisa ^^ Always helps.

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    Totally feel ya! Hey I want the little Marriott card! I'm going to go on their site and find out how to get it. My friend has it and I was getting rooms for $30.00 a night AT Marriott when I used his card. No fair.
    Is that what you have now?

    Yeah drivers are a waste of time unless you just don't have a car and it's someone YOU know personally.

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    Its not a marriot card, or discount card. You earn points with it at a certain family of hotels. You also get late check out. Collect so many points or stays, you earn free nights.
    IDK about that card your friend has! But you can sign up for mine at any Holiday Inn, or Marriot, and select others, which dont exist in my area.
    You can sign up here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AudrinaN View Post

    Will, why the sudden curiosity?
    No particular reason. Just a thought I had and I knew SW would be the place to get the answer. The thread has been quite interesting. I've learned a lot from it. Should be legal in my view, but that's a whole other topic.
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    We're super cool huh will?! There is such thing as a male escort ya know

    malecourtesan.com/index.php

    He's gorgeous! I'd so pay to do him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Laurisa View Post
    I definitely understand that the point of a driver is generally not to act as security as well. However, if I am paying someone $50-$100 an hour then they damn well better be willing to intervene if something is wrong, and I would make that very clear upfront. Screening IS the best method of security from what I've read, and I would definitely utilize that. I would rarely, if ever, tour because I have a young child. I know you do too Malaya but I suspect our circumstances are different. His father has no interest in me escorting so right now it's off the table, plus I have to be careful what I put online. I would be very nervous to do an incall at a hotel, or a home. I'd be looking to work indie and charge this:
    Her father and I are not together and he lives in another state. However, I'll be touring from now on. I've found that I make triple the money I make at home when I tour which is pretty awesome. I have a babysitter and a nanny that watches her while I'm away. It's not hard finding a nanny ( I went through a nanny agency) I'm pretty sure NO ONE in my family has interest in me escorting. They don't know and I'd like to keep it that way. I have AudrinaN for support and she's really all I need in that area.

    $600 - 2 hours - Getting to know each other
    $800 - 3 hours - Lunch (one hour) and two hours of fun
    $1200 - 12 hour overnight (with minimum 7 hours of sleep). Includes two hour dinner and dessert.
    This is great for just starting off.. However, as your reputation grows you'll want to give yourself a raise. The only thing wrong with this is the 12 hour overnight is damn too low! $2500 overnight at least.. 1200 is too low.. I have 4 hour appointments at that rate. Trust me guys will pay it.

    I read online that a good sales tactic is to layer your pricing like that so that you encourage them to buy a larger package. The way they are looking at it, they can spend $600 for two hours OR for the price of '4 hours' get a full night with me. The truth is I would only be 'working' for five hours and would be out for dinner for a portion of that five hours. My goal would be to get them to buy the overnight package while I would realistically be 'working on them' for maybe 3 hours tops after dinner and driving back.
    This is true. However this is my current rate structure

    1hr-400
    2hr-700
    3hr-1200
    8hr-2400
    overnight-4800

    This is not even considered high end rates. This is more mid range.


    What do you think Malaya? I'm hesitant to book one hour appointments, maybe for repeat clients who book at least once every four weeks I'd do a one hour for $400 but typically I'd rather not.

    I think you've got it down girl!

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    We're super cool huh will?! There is such thing as a male escort ya know

    malecourtesan.com/index.php

    He's gorgeous! I'd so pay to do him.
    If you're attractive, men are happy to fu&% for free...I'd love to know how much female work he actually gets. More power to him if he can make the $$$ from it and enjoys the work, etc. I couldn't 'make it happen' unless I was at least attracted to the chick, no matter what she was paying. Per the "are you an expensive fu*&" thread, I had something of an "arrangement" you might call it, but I was also attracted to her and she was a hot shit person, so it was not exactly difficult per se.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Will View Post
    If you're attractive, men are happy to fu&% for free...I'd love to know how much female work he actually gets. More power to him if he can make the $$$ from it and enjoys the work, etc. I couldn't 'make it happen' unless I was at least attracted to the chick, no matter what she was paying. Per the "are you an expensive fu*&" thread, I had something of an "arrangement" you might call it, but I was also attracted to her and she was a hot shit person, so it was not exactly difficult per se.
    Good point. I'm very attractive (so I hear) but I'd still pay to fuck him. I'm sure he wouldn't fuck me for free... or would he?

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